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Kind of fuming...talk me down
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jdog2050



Joined: 17 Dec 2006

PostPosted: Fri Feb 13, 2009 2:02 am    Post subject: Kind of fuming...talk me down Reply with quote

So, I work every other saturday until 1.

This week, I wanted to leave at 12 because me and my GF are meeting some friends on an island for valentine's day (cheesy, but better than staying in the city doing the same 'ol).

My boss says no. And not only says no, but says "If you leave early, everyone has to leave early.

I'm fuming because today we had to come in at 8 to have a book packaging meeting. Why? "So that it doesn't interrupt our work schedule". The meeting ended up being the most pointless ever.

So, I don't know, this job is really starting to push my buttons, i.e., a thousand paper cuts will drive you crazy faster than a gash.
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Leslie Cheswyck



Joined: 31 May 2003
Location: University of Western Chile

PostPosted: Fri Feb 13, 2009 2:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

"If you leave early, everyone has to leave early."

Whoah, if ever I hear a set o' conditions like that from my boss, I'm accepting.

"Yeah? Cool. Hey gang, we're outta here. Thanks, boss." [High fives boss]
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Jeff's Cigarettes



Joined: 27 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Fri Feb 13, 2009 2:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'd say ur boss has a valid point...are u special?
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yingwenlaoshi



Joined: 12 Feb 2007
Location: ... location, location!

PostPosted: Fri Feb 13, 2009 2:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

http://sarcasticgamer.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2007/11/dawson-crying.jpg
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Xuanzang



Joined: 10 Apr 2007
Location: Sadang

PostPosted: Fri Feb 13, 2009 3:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I`d say use a sick day but I dont think that works in hagwons (or works well).
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weatherman



Joined: 14 Jan 2003
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Fri Feb 13, 2009 3:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Do you care about your work? If not, (a sad truth about too many in Korea, which I wish wasn't the case), and this was a one off, then you should have just left at 12, and not have asked. Easier for an employer to take an excuse, than giving permission.
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losing_touch



Joined: 26 Jun 2008
Location: Ulsan - I think!

PostPosted: Fri Feb 13, 2009 4:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Xuanzang wrote:
I`d say use a sick day but I dont think that works in hagwons (or works well).


It works well at my hagwon!
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John_ESL_White



Joined: 12 Nov 2008

PostPosted: Fri Feb 13, 2009 4:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Your employer is full of it.

Unless you have a class on Saturday at 12, you should be able to leave. He is being unreasonable.

How long into your contract are you?
If your are approaching the end, suck it up.
If you are near the six month mark, start looking for another job. There's no shortage of hagwon jobs where you go in, teach, and go home. I have friends who average 5 hours/day at their hagwon.
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Xuanzang



Joined: 10 Apr 2007
Location: Sadang

PostPosted: Fri Feb 13, 2009 6:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It`s kind of petty that your boss wont let you leave an hour early. Should just lie and say you have an ortho appointment or something.
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sarbonn



Joined: 14 Oct 2008
Location: Michigan

PostPosted: Fri Feb 13, 2009 7:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

John_ESL_White wrote:

If you are near the six month mark, start looking for another job. There's no shortage of hagwon jobs where you go in, teach, and go home.


I hear this advice a lot here. But how do you actually go about doing it? My understanding is that your Hagwon pretty much owns you because of the visa. They're not going to give you a LOR. Aren't you going to end up having to leave the country? I've not been able to figure out step 2 of this scenario.
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crazy_arcade



Joined: 05 Nov 2006

PostPosted: Fri Feb 13, 2009 9:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

that sucks...

get a better job

I'm supposed to be in Monday, but am going to Thailand and was given an extra day off.

There's nothing you can do...other than....get a better job.
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madoka



Joined: 27 Mar 2008

PostPosted: Fri Feb 13, 2009 11:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's not like he is asking you to do anything different from your norm. Suck it up and do what the guy signing your checks tells you to do. It's called being a responsible adult. Crying over ONE hour of work that you're supposed to do anyways is lame.
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D.D.



Joined: 29 May 2008

PostPosted: Fri Feb 13, 2009 11:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Don't jump man.
Things will get better.
Today is the first day of the rest of your life.
Don't worry be happy.
It will all turn around.
You are so good looking.
So you wanna pretty.
Please dont fume and jump.
We all will miss you.

Are you down yet?

You are so special. I am glad I could help you back from the edge.
Just play the gee gee gee song and you will be ok. ok?
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Demonicat



Joined: 18 Nov 2004
Location: Suwon

PostPosted: Fri Feb 13, 2009 12:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

uh, why not just reschedule the meeting to 1:30 or so? I imagine your boss had everyone begging to get out early, including his wife- which is probably why he said what he did.
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madoka



Joined: 27 Mar 2008

PostPosted: Fri Feb 13, 2009 12:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Demonicat wrote:
uh, why not just reschedule the meeting to 1:30 or so? I imagine your boss had everyone begging to get out early, including his wife- which is probably why he said what he did.


Because that would be too rational and level-headed for people that post here. The proper Dave's ESL response would be to angrily quit and then accuse all Koreans of being racist peasants. Twisted Evil
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