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Chuvok



Joined: 25 Jan 2009
Location: Russia

PostPosted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 2:05 am    Post subject: Good looking female students Reply with quote

Just curious how other teachers deal with female students who happen to be very good looking.

I work in Russia and I must say it is amazing how gorgeous some of my students are. 90% of my students are female.

Now, let me say I mostly teach adults and university students!

A lot of them are "kept women" with rich husbands or boyfriends.

I have sent some group photos to my family and friends back home, and often I get the comment "It looks like you're working at a modeling school". Thinking back on my days as a student, it is true. There were never so many good looking girls in my classes at university.

I'm not a letch, and would never hit on a student. But when I'm leading a class with several beautiful faces looking back at me, it is quite a thrill. I try to ignore their looks and focus on the work, not allowing myself to stare, even though I may want to. Example, this morning I started teaching a new group, and one 20 year old girl who sat in the front row, less than a meter from my desk, was wearing a very low cut shirt showing off quite a bit of cleavage. Whenever she leaned forward to write an answer or notes, I got quite a view.

I do my best, not to let it affect me, but I have noticed whenever there is one or more beautiful face in a group, I tend to feel a bit nervous while teaching, and act much more professional. By the end of the lesson, I always feel exhilarated. Whereas, if it's a normal group I feel more relaxed and casual.

I try not to give too much attention to good looking students, and keep it equal among everyone in the class. Another example is a young woman who has a really great smile, and whenever she gives an answer she always has this beaming smile on her face. It is impossible not to smile back at her, even if she has the completely wrong answer. Sometimes I think the other students must notice it, but I guess they just realise she is a beautiful person and will always receive special attention.

So how do you deal with it?


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Teelo



Joined: 09 Oct 2008
Location: Wellington, NZ

PostPosted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 2:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ask them if they want to make a few of their tuition fee bucks back Wink
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pidgin



Joined: 31 Jul 2005
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 2:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Oh I just generally teach them something. Rolling Eyes



So,...how long have YOU been a virgin then? Embarassed
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sobriquet



Joined: 16 Feb 2007
Location: Nakatomi Plaza

PostPosted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 2:13 am    Post subject: Re: Good looking female students Reply with quote

Chuvok wrote:
Just curious how other teachers deal with female students who happen to be very good looking.

I work in Russia and I must say it is amazing how gorgeous some of my students are. 90% of my students are female.

Now, let me say I mostly teach adults and university students!

A lot of them are "kept women" with rich husbands or boyfriends.

I have sent some group photos to my family and friends back home, and often I get the comment "It looks like you're working at a modeling school". Thinking back on my days as a student, it is true. There were never so many good looking girls in my classes at university.

I'm not a letch, and would never hit on a student. But when I'm leading a class with several beautiful faces looking back at me, it is quite a thrill. I try to ignore their looks and focus on the work, not allowing myself to stare, even though I may want to. Example, this morning I started teaching a new group, and one 20 year old girl who sat in the front row, less than a meter from my desk, was wearing a very low cut shirt showing off quite a bit of cleavage. Whenever she leaned forward to write an answer or notes, I got quite a view.

I do my best, not to let it affect me, but I have noticed whenever there is one or more beautiful face in a group, I tend to feel a bit nervous while teaching, and act much more professional. By the end of the lesson, I always feel exhilarated. Whereas, if it's a normal group I feel more relaxed and casual.

I try not to give too much attention to good looking students, and keep it equal among everyone in the class. Another example is a young woman who has a really great smile, and whenever she gives an answer she always has this beaming smile on her face. It is impossible not to smile back at her, even if she has the completely wrong answer. Sometimes I think the other students must notice it, but I guess they just realise she is a beautiful person and will always receive special attention.

So how do you deal with it?


Very Happy



Do you get any knicker shots?
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michaelambling



Joined: 31 Dec 2008
Location: Paradise

PostPosted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 3:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You get used to it; soon it doesn't even phase you.

Oh, and getting laid helps--you might want to try it.
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Pwillig



Joined: 26 Jan 2009

PostPosted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 4:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'd recommend getting some hot piece of ace to help you get over it haha.
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Straphanger



Joined: 09 Oct 2008
Location: Chilgok, Korea

PostPosted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 4:55 am    Post subject: Re: Good looking female students Reply with quote

Chuvok wrote:
Just curious how other teachers deal with female students who happen to be very good looking.

So how do you deal with it?

I teach Elementary.
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ppcg4



Joined: 16 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 5:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

inb4 shitstorm.
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bassexpander



Joined: 13 Sep 2007
Location: Someplace you'd rather be.

PostPosted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 6:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The most interesting/fun women I've met were NOT the most beautiful ones.

That said, just picture your students as nagging 60-something older women with hideous corns on their feet.
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lifeinkorea



Joined: 24 Jan 2009
Location: somewhere in China

PostPosted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 6:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

bassexpander wrote:
just picture your students as nagging 60-something older women with hideous corns on their feet.


You mean close your eyes like Gilbert Gottfried?
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D.D.



Joined: 29 May 2008

PostPosted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 1:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

bassexpander wrote:
The most interesting/fun women I've met were NOT the most beautiful ones.

That said, just picture your students as nagging 60-something older women with hideous corns on their feet.


They are Russian so he just needs to picture them at 35. Hot to hideous in under 15 years.
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thomas pars



Joined: 29 Jan 2009

PostPosted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 1:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

well post some pics of them. then we can better answer your queries.
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Chuvok



Joined: 25 Jan 2009
Location: Russia

PostPosted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 2:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is one of my upper-intermediate groups.


http://img408.imageshack.us/img408/2209/62699887vs6.jpg


http://img408.imageshack.us/img408/6/71865157op5.jpg


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Jeff's Cigarettes



Joined: 27 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 2:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Why are they wearing blindfolds?
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Chuvok



Joined: 25 Jan 2009
Location: Russia

PostPosted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 2:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Jeff's Cigarettes wrote:
Why are they wearing blindfolds?




So pervs like you won't hunt them down! Wink
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