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Ya-ta Boy
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: Established in 1994
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Posted: Fri Feb 27, 2009 6:47 am Post subject: Snappy comebacks for dysfunctional teachers who want a loan? |
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What do you say in a snappy, witty but not toooooooo rude a way when a fellow teacher who has been working for 4 months, wears the same shirt for all but the last 2 weeks and either it or he smells like it; who has holes in his shoes and socks and complains about it but hasn't bought new shoes; who never accepts an invitation to go out to eat because he is 'tired' but who also says he sleeps 13 or 14 hours a day; who never plans lessons....and in the end says he has W60 and it's payday but he wants to borrow money to get through the weekend and doesn't want to wait to be sure we were paid on time?
Advice please. |
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Ya-ta Boy
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: Established in 1994
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Posted: Fri Feb 27, 2009 6:49 am Post subject: |
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I was caught off-guard so all I could come up with was, "What? Do I look like a f***** bank?"
I know. It was not my greatest moment. Tips would be appreciated. |
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yingwenlaoshi

Joined: 12 Feb 2007 Location: ... location, location!
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Posted: Fri Feb 27, 2009 7:29 am Post subject: |
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So it's payday. Why doesn't he check his account? I don't get it. |
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John_ESL_White
Joined: 12 Nov 2008
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Posted: Fri Feb 27, 2009 8:14 am Post subject: |
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Depends on what kind of person you are:
If it was me, and the guy was not an A-hole, I would take him to Lotte or E-mart and buy him a cheap pair of shoes, a couple of shirts, deodorant, socks, underwear, and some food.
Then, I would take him out for a beer. I'd listen to his story. See where he's coming from, what kind of mesed up situation he's in (mentally or whatever), and then go from there.
I've done it for people I don't work with. It'll cost you 60K won. And, you might learn something. |
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D.D.
Joined: 29 May 2008
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Posted: Fri Feb 27, 2009 1:00 pm Post subject: |
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The guy is depressed, he doesn't trust the school and is looking to see if someone has his back if they burn him.
First signs of depression are sleeping a lot and not looking after clothes and grooming. |
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regicide
Joined: 01 Sep 2006 Location: United States
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Posted: Fri Feb 27, 2009 2:05 pm Post subject: |
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D.D. wrote: |
The guy is depressed, he doesn't trust the school and is looking to see if someone has his back if they burn him.
First signs of depression are sleeping a lot and not looking after clothes and grooming. |
A small loan from someone in this situation can be uplifting.
It just means you care. |
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Unposter
Joined: 04 Jun 2006
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Posted: Fri Feb 27, 2009 2:55 pm Post subject: |
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While this guy does sound like he could use some money. Come on people. He is an English teacher not a homeless guy... |
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Ya-ta Boy
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: Established in 1994
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Posted: Fri Feb 27, 2009 4:59 pm Post subject: |
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Depression is an angle I hadn't thought of, but the new iPod and cell phone this month argue against that being the cause. Buying one or more W20,000 pizzas a week in lieu of paying to have his gas range connected also lead me to think that the cause is closer to irresponsibility. |
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sumfunu
Joined: 07 Dec 2006 Location: Canada
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Posted: Fri Feb 27, 2009 5:08 pm Post subject: Snappy comeback..... |
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"Sure, I'll pay on the front-end and you pay on the back-end, beyatch!" Is this "snappy" enough? |
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sumfunu
Joined: 07 Dec 2006 Location: Canada
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Posted: Fri Feb 27, 2009 5:10 pm Post subject: Snappy comebacks for a dysfunctional English teacher..... |
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"Sure, I'll pay on the front-end and you pay on the back-end, beyatch!" Is this "snappy" enough? |
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Leslie Cheswyck

Joined: 31 May 2003 Location: University of Western Chile
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Posted: Fri Feb 27, 2009 5:20 pm Post subject: |
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"I'm sorry, all my money is tied up in cash." |
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berrieh
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Posted: Fri Feb 27, 2009 5:25 pm Post subject: |
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Ya-ta Boy wrote: |
Depression is an angle I hadn't thought of, but the new iPod and cell phone this month argue against that being the cause. Buying one or more W20,000 pizzas a week in lieu of paying to have his gas range connected also lead me to think that the cause is closer to irresponsibility. |
Wow. This guy sounds like a winner.
My snappy comeback would be to laugh at him, I think. I'd just actually pretend he were joking. He might think I was daft or rude, but I don't think I'd really care. I've made it a rule not to care what idiots think of me.
How can someone not change their shirt in 2 weeks? That's disturbing. I was inclined to think he was mentally ill when you wrote the first post, but this new information makes me think he's just a jackass.
I suppose he could have a really bad case of Adult ADHD as he shows many symptoms of that. |
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jinks

Joined: 27 Oct 2004 Location: Formerly: Lower North Island
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Posted: Fri Feb 27, 2009 5:50 pm Post subject: |
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Leslie Cheswyck wrote: |
"I'm sorry, all my money is tied up in cash." |
That's funny
My brother 'lent' our new neighbour $10 bucks, she never paid him back - no surprises there - but he reckoned it was a cheap way to keep her off his back. |
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cruisemonkey

Joined: 04 Jul 2005 Location: Hopefully, the same place as my luggage.
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Posted: Fri Feb 27, 2009 6:26 pm Post subject: |
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"I'll lend you twenty bucks... but at todays rate that's only thirteen thirty-three. So, thirteen thirth-three divided by 1.5 is eight eighty-eight... which I'll round up to nine won... ah screw it!... here's ten won. And don't forget... when you're sure you've been paid, you owe me twenty bucks."
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Teelo

Joined: 09 Oct 2008 Location: Wellington, NZ
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Posted: Sat Feb 28, 2009 1:03 am Post subject: Re: Snappy comebacks for dysfunctional teachers who want a l |
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Ya-ta Boy wrote: |
What do you say in a snappy, witty but not toooooooo rude a way when a fellow teacher who has been working for 4 months, wears the same shirt for all but the last 2 weeks and either it or he smells like it; who has holes in his shoes and socks and complains about it but hasn't bought new shoes; who never accepts an invitation to go out to eat because he is 'tired' but who also says he sleeps 13 or 14 hours a day; who never plans lessons....and in the end says he has W60 and it's payday but he wants to borrow money to get through the weekend and doesn't want to wait to be sure we were paid on time? |
Sounds like me  |
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