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[azzwell]

Will be arriving in Korea soon and was looking for some advice on manners ect. What are some things I should do on meeting my boss for the first time that will impress him/her? Should I bring a gift? If so, what should I bring? What are some good habits to learn/get out of?

[kiwiboy_nz_99]

A gift on your first day would be more than required, but would definitely blow your boss away and get you on a good footing. If it's a guy I'd guess whisky would do the trick. I'm not a great one for unique gift ideas.

Other than that, foreigners are given leeway about manners, but if you do some stuff you'll impress. You'll learn quick that there are no shoes inside, and you don't fill your own glass when you're drinking alcohol. When someone is pouring your glass you hold it with both hands. When you give something to a superior you place your free hand on your forearm ( or up as high as your armpit to show even more respect ). You'll need a Korean to walk you through the subtleties of what I have just outlined. You don't need to do this all the time, just in certain situations. Oh, and if someone invites you out for dinner they will pay, let them, if you insist on paying some they will lose face. It's polite to offer, but they will resist, and you should let them win. Then next time you pay if you are equals, or if they are clearly senior they will pay every time. Again you'll need a Korean to walk you through the whole senior/junior thing which is quite elaborate.

[peppermint]

If you're a woman, don't cross your legs at the knee- it's very rude. Don't smoke unless an older person does first. . use the formal forms of the language. . there's a million little things, but we aren't really expected to follow all of them

[waterbaby]

Have a look at these threads from my FAQs about bringing a gift.

Should I Bring a Gift?

1. Bring a Gift for Your Boss or Potential Korean Friends
2. What Kind of Gift?

[schwa]

Dont contradict, criticize, or show anger toward a boss or senior in the presence of others.

There could be exceptions if your director turns out to be subhuman, but in general practice thats the one lapse that will not be easily forgotten or forgiven.

[kangnamdragon]

If you bring alcohol, buy it duty free at the airport. Remember to shake with two hands and bow first.

[Son Deureo!]

[kangnamdragon]

Remember, laughter here does not always imply one is doing something amusing. It is also a sign of approval and pleasant surprise.

[Moldy Rutabaga]

Koreans also often laugh when they are embarrased. When I go to a restaurant with newcomers and the waiter screws up the order (which is usually the case) they will laugh. The newcomer often thinks the waiter is making fun of him.

Ken:>