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Early 20s K girl too young?
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rac118



Joined: 23 Feb 2009

PostPosted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 6:39 am    Post subject: Early 20s K girl too young? Reply with quote

asian women obviously age differently than what most of us grew up seeing but more than once ive found myself thinking that they actually "ripen" between 25 and 35.


there are obviously exceptions but at least half the time under 25 seems a tad pedophilic.

i just turned 28, btw.
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sarbonn



Joined: 14 Oct 2008
Location: Michigan

PostPosted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 7:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I know this won't be taken too kindly, but I tend to go for them at about 30. I'm older. Once they reach about 40, it's my personal opinion but they become very unattractive (to me). I apologize if anyone is offended, but that's pretty much how I feel for the most part. Some are exceptions, but most are not.
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Papa Smurf



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PostPosted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 7:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

unfortunately, when they get over 25 many are already starting to think about potential husbands.
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rac118



Joined: 23 Feb 2009

PostPosted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 7:40 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

sarbonn wrote:
I know this won't be taken too kindly, but I tend to go for them at about 30. I'm older. Once they reach about 40, it's my personal opinion but they become very unattractive (to me). I apologize if anyone is offended


why
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rac118



Joined: 23 Feb 2009

PostPosted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 7:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Papa Smurf wrote:
unfortunately, when they get over 25 many are already starting to think about potential husbands.


so?


lame.
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rac118



Joined: 23 Feb 2009

PostPosted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 7:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

i hope you kids arent afraid of my threads. Embarassed
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Papa Smurf



Joined: 18 Jul 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 7:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

rac118 wrote:
Papa Smurf wrote:
unfortunately, when they get over 25 many are already starting to think about potential husbands.


so?


lame.


well do you like getting a background check everythime you go on a date? i like a casual atmosphere. even a certain romance sometimes. you know, like normal people? but too often it's like an interview. what uni did you graduate? how long are you gonna stay here? when do you want to get married? im looking for my soul mate now. its a bit much. its too calculated for me. they're so pressured. they cant just enjoy themselves. they can't consider that there might be another way to experience a relationship other than the korean way; blind date after blind date and the same old questions.

why not just find someone who makes you happy, and try to make them happy, and whatever will be will be?

jesus, im venting haha.
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rac118



Joined: 23 Feb 2009

PostPosted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 8:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Papa Smurf wrote:
rac118 wrote:
Papa Smurf wrote:
unfortunately, when they get over 25 many are already starting to think about potential husbands.


so?


lame.


well do you like getting a background check everythime you go on a date?


wft are you talking about.

yo, ive met too many dudes here that were probably homeless at some point.

thanks "papa smurf."
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Papa Smurf



Joined: 18 Jul 2006
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PostPosted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 8:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

rac118 wrote:
Papa Smurf wrote:
rac118 wrote:
Papa Smurf wrote:
unfortunately, when they get over 25 many are already starting to think about potential husbands.


so?


lame.


well do you like getting a background check everythime you go on a date?


wft are you talking about.

yo, ive met too many dudes here that were probably homeless at some point.

thanks "papa smurf."


whatever, mate. that's my experience. you'll learn. all is fine and well if you wanna sleep around. but get into the dating game and it's a whole different ball game, with most girls. and stop putting my name in quotes, clever dick.
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rac118



Joined: 23 Feb 2009

PostPosted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 9:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Papa Smurf wrote:
rac118 wrote:
Papa Smurf wrote:
rac118 wrote:
Papa Smurf wrote:
unfortunately, when they get over 25 many are already starting to think about potential husbands.


so?


lame.


well do you like getting a background check everythime you go on a date?


wft are you talking about.

yo, ive met too many dudes here that were probably homeless at some point.

thanks "papa smurf."


whatever, mate. that's my experience. you'll learn. all is fine and well if you wanna sleep around. but get into the dating game and it's a whole different ball game, with most girls. and stop putting my name in quotes, clever dick.


wow

"with most girls" didnt need a comma

but maybe ill learn.



seriously, if you old dudes relax, i wont ruin you.


tha bank is mah showah. Smile
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jkelly80



Joined: 13 Jun 2007
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PostPosted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 9:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

rac118 wrote:
i hope you kids arent afraid of my threads. Embarassed


Maybe if you weren't batshit drunk, people would interact more.
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rac118



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PostPosted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 10:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

yo papa smurf probably literally lived in a mushroom at some point.
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rac118



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PostPosted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 10:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

you also didnt need that comma "jkelly80"


whose more batshit drunk
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Francis-Pax



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PostPosted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 10:47 am    Post subject: Re: Early 20s K girl too young? Reply with quote

rac118 wrote:
asian women obviously age differently than what most of us grew up seeing but more than once ive found myself thinking that they actually "ripen" between 25 and 35.


there are obviously exceptions but at least half the time under 25 seems a tad pedophilic.

i just turned 28, btw.


I have lived in Korea for five years and I teach at a university in Seoul. Most of my students are between 18-24.

Many Korean women in this age group look stunning, but psychologically they are like naive young high school students. I am not sure if you could really have a serious relationship with them (if that is what you are looking for). There are exceptions, but not many. Korean people in general are very naive until they get out there and start working.

I think the Korean girls who have experienced a little bit of life are much more interesting. Do you really want to date a hot girl with a mind of a child? Maybe a lot of people here do, but I do not.

I really do not want to understate the word NAIVE in this post.
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rac118



Joined: 23 Feb 2009

PostPosted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 11:03 am    Post subject: Re: Early 20s K girl too young? Reply with quote

Francis-Pax wrote:
Do you really want to date a hot girl with a mind of a child?




i actually just want to date the guy in your avatar.


Francis-Pax wrote:


I really do not want to understate the word NAIVE in this post.


no, youre just being lame. thanks for playing.
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