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D.D.



Joined: 29 May 2008

PostPosted: Fri Mar 20, 2009 8:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sometimes silence is the best answer. So here is my answer to captain trying to look at the messenger instead of the messages.
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Rteacher



Joined: 23 May 2005
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 20, 2009 3:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Spiritual sound trumps material silence.

If Bhagavad-gita is correct and we are always individuals, we may continue to see things differently even in the spiritual world.

But in the final analysis, we are all different parts of the same Absolute Person.

A human being is capable of understanding that. A dog can not.
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Captain Corea



Joined: 28 Feb 2005
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 20, 2009 4:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

D.D. wrote:
Sometimes silence is the best answer. So here is my answer to captain trying to look at the messenger instead of the messages.
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Just so I'm clear on this;

-you introduce yourself as a qualified professional.
-you make long winded and condescending posts.
-you give out 'advice' on the net without ever having consulted or examined the patient.
-you are called on the above practice... and now 'silence is the best option'?

Well, at least I know how to make you shut the frak up. lol


You see, the truth of the matter is I do practice parts of what you have said, and I understand some of where you are coming from. But without ever having consulted with me, nor examined me, you launched into a series of long winded posts giving analysis and advice on mine (and others') problems).

There are two types of doctors that really bother me.

-Those that don't bother to ask.
and
-Those that don't bother to listen.

You seem to qualify for both of those.
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D.D.



Joined: 29 May 2008

PostPosted: Fri Mar 20, 2009 4:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Could anger and stress be part of your problem? Possibly the need to be correct? Or fixed opinions that must be protected? Looks like you are more concerned with winning an argument than learning about health.

To do that you are trying to corner the argument into a narrow range because you don't have enough knowledge on the subject.

You know this. How does it serve you in any capacity to win an argument.

Part of our brain that actualy is most of the problem as it filters out emotions is the part of the brain that likes to win arguments.

What do you gain by winning a debate and staying stuck where you are at?

I guess you get a sense of security in creating certainty in an ever changing world.

Let's drop this banter and get back on the subject of how to be more healthy.
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cdninkorea



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PostPosted: Fri Mar 20, 2009 4:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I didn't expect an innocent thread like this to spark so much controversy...
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Omkara



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Location: USA

PostPosted: Fri Mar 20, 2009 5:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

RTeacher, did it ever occur to you that something can be through-and-through material AND be through-and-through spirit?

To divide the universe in half and deny one or the other is either a material or a spiritual mistake, depending on which you deny; from this dichotomy, neither the spiritual or the material is true.

The "materialist" argument for back pain is a kind of model based on corpuscles and hinges, levers and pivots. Everything proceeds from necessary and particular causes.

Conceived thus, organic material appears to the mind but as object, cannot be shown as to why organic material desires in general, but can only be shown as to why it may desire particular, material things.

But at the center of our nature is a universal longing, which cannot be explained by causal explanation. What causes life to long? To strive? To will to live? There is no causal, material explanation.

The "spiritualist" side can have no causal explanation at all, since causality is an integral feature of material.

But the integral feature the spiritual--in the non-superstitious sense of the word--is a kind of longing.

This longing, properly understood, when fundamentally frustrated, leads to suffering. At the level of suffering, which is material, cause can be unfolded.

Denial of matter as inferior is a mistake. One cannot properly separate matter from spirit any more than one can separate form from, say, a hand.
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Omkara



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PostPosted: Fri Mar 20, 2009 8:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

cdninkorea wrote:
I didn't expect an innocent thread like this to spark so much controversy...


What'd ya expect? We're all angry with fucked up backs!
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D.D.



Joined: 29 May 2008

PostPosted: Fri Mar 20, 2009 8:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Man biggest trip is to try and escape his experience.

Some use drugs, others use work, some try to deny the physical, sme do too much exercise.

The Hare Krishna's tend to try to escape life by separating it into parts ad denying certain aspects.

Good post Omkara but you will have a very difficult time reaching a Hare krishna devotee. I worked with 100's of them and only reached 3 of them that I remember.

Their teachings are quite good for people too caught up in the physical world as were the people they tended to reach in the west.

I know some people it the Hare's that are past the basic teachings and understand what you on about Omkara. Most of the people in their group become cut off from the material life and try to be too spiritual.

I have lived with them off and on through my travels and they are a nice bunch of people but for sure they are trying to deny the physical aspects of life.

Direct experience is just looking at a flower. Then the mind comes in and names the flower. Then other parts of the brain make stories up about the flower and start telling other people. Soon others gather and a religion forms about flowers.

It's like people who write a thesis about chocolate without ever tasting chocolate.
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Captain Corea



Joined: 28 Feb 2005
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 20, 2009 9:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

D.D. wrote:
Could anger and stress be part of your problem? Possibly the need to be correct? Or fixed opinions that must be protected? Looks like you are more concerned with winning an argument than learning about health.

To do that you are trying to corner the argument into a narrow range because you don't have enough knowledge on the subject.

You know this. How does it serve you in any capacity to win an argument.

Part of our brain that actualy is most of the problem as it filters out emotions is the part of the brain that likes to win arguments.

What do you gain by winning a debate and staying stuck where you are at?

I guess you get a sense of security in creating certainty in an ever changing world.

Let's drop this banter and get back on the subject of how to be more healthy.


You're a funny guy. You once again prove how pompous you are by your presumptions. Trying to psycho analyse me in a feeble attempt to dismiss my question.

The truth is pretty simple - my back is feeling much better. I know what I did to it, and I'm following a path to correct it - part of that is in life style, part of that through therapy.

That being said though, I think you're a quack, and anyone who listens to you should beware.

You say you are qualified, yet when called on it... somehow those qualifications don't matter (but they mattered enough for you to post them in your first post on here).

How exactly are you qualified to assess a person's back issues online and give an accurate assesment for treatment?

It's a pretty straight forward question - you've proven your ability to ramble on and on - why not answer it?
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Forward Observer



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PostPosted: Fri Mar 20, 2009 11:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

D.D.

Diagnose this: (For a friend on facebook that is having a lot of problems)

AND DON'T SUGAR COAT IT!



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So, to start, I have been dealing with sciatica nearly every day since the summer before my freshman year of college. Its really not something that is ever 100% ok but I get by on trying to make the right choices (what to/not to sit on, how long to stay sitting, wearing the right shoes when I know I'll be on my feet for extended periods of time, sleeping in the right position, etc.) every day because the little things all add up in conditions like this.

Monday night, after work, I came home a bit sore in the hips and legs and knees so I took something and decided to wear better shoes (i.e. not flip flops) to close the store the next day. So Tuesday I wore my slide on Airwalks to work, but again came home sore and realizing I have been grabbing at my bad hip all night. So then Weds. I wore so good shoes with good support... I was still a bit sore (but i had also gone to the gym earlier that day) AND I knew I had Thurs and Fri off so I wasn't too worried about it.

So here comes Thursday morning, I'm about to get out of bed and somehow I just moved wrong putting my left leg off the bed and *PINCH* Here we go again. I was able to get myself to the bathroom and take a shower (mostly on my knees because the pain was so bad that as soon as I'd stand up, the world would start to go black) From then on I was on the floor... to go to the bathroom I was laying on my side pulling my body down the hallway with my arms (I have the carpet burns to show for it) and then sobbing for the 30 seconds I had to be sitting up... I only did that twice from Thursday afternoon to Friday night.

So when my Aunt got off work on Friday night she realized I was no better off than I was Thursday night (i.e. Laying on the floor sobbing because the slightest movement (even breathing) literally hurt my whole body) So she called my mom who encouraged her to get me to the hospital... how if I can't even roll over onto my back, let alone sit up or walk? They had to have an ambulance come get me.

Evan, Tom and Bruce were the wonderful dreamteam that came into my room, rolled me onto a back board and carried me out to a gurney waiting for me in the living room. They were very sweet trying to distract me from the pain, by this point I was WAILING from how bad my back was hurting. They get me to the ambulance (my first time in an ambulance btw... first time on a back board or a gurney too) take my vitals, try to get an idea of how I hurt myself and drive me to the hospital.

By this point, because of being on my back I suspect, my pain has gone down a bit and also changed. No longer was it a sharp, nerve pinching pain in my left hip all the way down the back of my left leg, but instead and intense cramping all across my lower back and down my left leg... still an 8 or 9 on a the pain scale but not the TWELVE I was feeling prior (I have to say, of all the times I've actually pinched a nerve this was BY FAR the worst! The other times I couldn't walk and had lots of pain but the pain was never so blinding... in the past I was always able to at least crawl around the house to get to the bathroom and whatnot)

I stayed in the bed in ER for a while while they took my stats (again, plus some new ones, like my blood oxygen level (I have a neat little finger thing with a cord from that) all this curtesy of the ER dreamteam, Kevin, Ray, Diane and Scott) Then they FINALLY (after being there over an hour) gave me a shot of morphine and a shot of some kind of steroid. It took about 5 minutes for the morphine to make me want to sing songs from Hair and then they wheeled me to the xray room where the mean xray guy made me move myself onto a different bed (OUCH) and then roll over onto my left side (the side that is in pain) to take about 12 million xrays (or so it seemed) then made me roll back onto the hospital bed so he could wheel me back to my room.

So then, about 30 minutes after xrays, my official Dr came and she pushed me to sit up... I was screaming in pain and trying not to pass out so she put the bed's back up for me to lean against, with my feet dangling off the side of the bed while she went to get me more morphine. The second dose could not come fast enough, but this dose was a double. That second dose of morphine, along with a foot stool (so my feet were resting on something instead of hanging off the side of the bed) finally got me sitting all the way up... I leaned forward (chin to knees) and all of a sudden felt a relief like I've never felt before.

After some paperwork, writing up of prescriptions (vicodin, flexerall and mega sized pills of motrin) and a bunch of instructions I was placed in a wheelchair and wheeled out of the ER. I spent about 4 1/2 hours there in all and was able to walk around when I got home (YAY!) I stayed up for about an hour so I could take my first vicodin (they gave me two to last the night until someone could get to a pharmacy to pick up my Rxs for me.

Today I'm feeling a lot better than I was on Thursday and Friday but I'm not up walking around yet... mostly just been laying on the livingroom floor, sleeping in between my meds and trying a few times to get up on my feet. As soon as I'm done typing this I'm going to try to take a shower... hopefully I'll have some comforting visitors tonight.

So in all I had many firsts;
*first time on a back board
*first time on a gurney
*first time in an ambulance
*first time ever being on Morphine (I like it and which I could have some now)
*first time being pushed in a wheelchair

Hopefully no future Sciatica flair ups are nearly this bad!!!
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D.D.



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PostPosted: Sat Mar 21, 2009 1:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Before we get into any more arguments I am not offering any specific diagnosis here.

We are talking about back pain in general.

So we are looking at lifestyle changes and getting an understanding of how our bodies work.

First question is where is your friend? If he is in the west I can refer him to somebody.

I don't know any practitioners in Korea so cannot make accurate referals. The chiropractor at New york chiropractic in Itaewon does sound like he knows his stuff and has proper western training.


I have talked a lot about spinal cord tension and it is one of the causes of sciatica. There is also a muscle in the but called the piroformis that can put pressure on the sciatic nerve.


For your friend to have such a major reaction something nasty might be happening. What did the docs have to say about it?

Big questions are where is your friend located and what has he been doing that his body would have such an reaction?

What did his x-rays show?
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Rteacher



Joined: 23 May 2005
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 21, 2009 10:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Materially, all things must pass. Essential reality is spirit - the soul is much more important than the body. Even the best medical treatment can only provide temporary relief, and by one's previous actions one is destined to suffer or enjoy one-way-or-the other.

Aside from that key philosophical point, I've probably had the worst history of back problems of anyone on this thread.

When I first got a "slipped" or "herniated" (and/or "bulging") disk (circa 1978) I went to a chiropractor right away - while it was very acute - and I think he aggravated the condition as I was basically flat on my back and unable to move much at all for about ten days.

I had a very bad relapse some months later (while trying to cook vegetarian meals for hundreds of students daily on the Univ. of Florida campus) and was more-or-less flat on my back for about seven months. It took me at least fifteen minutes to gradually get up, and I usually couldn't stay on my feet longer than ten minutes before I had to lay back down again.

For about six months I regularly saw a nearby chiropractor (Dr. Friendly in Gainseville) three days a week, and it didn't seem to help at all (but it was all I could afford).

One day a homeopathic doctor from Kenya visited the preaching center I was staying at and suggested that I take some tiny pills that he prepared, stressing that I must have faith in God (he was a Hindu) and faith in the medicine.

I still had faith in God, but I was pretty skeptical how some tiny pellets of mineral salts or whatever could help my herniated disk(s) and scoliosis. Anyway, I suspended disbelief the best I could and - and lo and behold - I experienced dramatic improvement in a couple days.

In retrospect, I think that my debilitated condition was prolonged by the prevailing medical opinion at that time that it was better to lay flat on the floor than to force oneself to walk (through the pain).

I've had periodic relapses that were really severe - one moment I'd be fine and then I'd be jolted by like a lightning bolt as my inflamed disk touched a nerve. One time it hit me while I was brushing my teeth, and I couldn't even shut the water that kept running while I was basically paralyzed a couple feet away (for maybe ten minutes...)

The more that I've forced myself to walk - especially up and down hills - the less severe my back spasms and cramping have become, and I've never missed any days of work because of it (though sometimes I'd be way out of alignment and leaning over to one side...)

I tried various chiropractors, and I think only one was effective most of the time (some real old guy in Miami Beach)

For a while I thought that a guy who claimed to be one of the only practitioners of a certain type of applied kinesiology provided the best treatment, but a friend of mine who also tried him didn't agree.

For me, I think it's best just to tough it out and tolerate it as much as possible (and try to use a jacuzzi at least every couple weeks ...)

It helps to understand that my real identity extends beyond the physical body, and that - materially - all things must pass ...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vm_N3bjqlr4&feature=related


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Captain Corea



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PostPosted: Sat Mar 21, 2009 4:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

D.D. wrote:
Before we get into any more arguments I am not offering any specific diagnosis here.

We are talking about back pain in general.

So we are looking at lifestyle changes and getting an understanding of how our bodies work.

First question is where is your friend? If he is in the west I can refer him to somebody.

I don't know any practitioners in Korea so cannot make accurate referals. The chiropractor at New york chiropractic in Itaewon does sound like he knows his stuff and has proper western training.


I have talked a lot about spinal cord tension and it is one of the causes of sciatica. There is also a muscle in the but called the piroformis that can put pressure on the sciatic nerve.


For your friend to have such a major reaction something nasty might be happening. What did the docs have to say about it?

Big questions are where is your friend located and what has he been doing that his body would have such an reaction?

What did his x-rays show?


I'm impressed - you're finally asking questions.

/thumbs up
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Omkara



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PostPosted: Sat Mar 21, 2009 5:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Indeed, RTeacher, all things must pass. Keeping this in mind during an episode of extreme pain is useful.

Walking, I agree, is better than just lying flat on the floor.

But I would recommend using the yoga technique of lying on the floor regularly to relax deeply, which is called savasanna.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mmmI6MHiGac

Doing this daily, perhaps first thing every morning, for ten minutes, can be very helpful.
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Rteacher



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PostPosted: Sat Mar 21, 2009 6:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hey, I used to sleep on the floor practically every day for over 12 years when I was a full-time devotee.

Nobody living in a temple slept on a bed, and we'd all get up before 4am, dance and chant like crazy before the Deities, do individual mantra meditation on beads for a couple hours and hear transcendental literature for another hour before doing some sort of work all day to spread Krishna consciousness. Most of us would be exhausted and ready to take rest (by 10 pm) on a thin mat on the floor.

In a previous age, mystic yoga was the recommended means of self-realization, and the perfectional stage was seeing the four-armed form of Supersoul within one's own heart. (The last snare of maya is to misidentify oneself as being the Supersoul - which some yogis did ).

The only yoga recommended for self-realization in this age is bhakti yoga - the yoga of love and devotion for the Supreme Person and the science of Krishna consciousness.

Particular yoga exercises and postures may be helpful for promoting physical fitness, but with the added bs that often comes with it one might be better off doing some other fitness techniques without any spiritual pretense.

Of course, many bogi yogis throw in some Hare Krishna chanting along with exercises, but if they're not purely connected to the devotional line of realized souls stemming from Lord Chaitanya (Golden Avatar of Krishna who spread the chanting of Holy Names all over India about 520 years ago) the chanting has no spiritual potency.

Instead of gradually realizing that they are not their bodies, modern yoga practitioners tend to get more into their own bodies and the material bodily conception of life.
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