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shostahoosier
Joined: 14 Apr 2009
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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 7:12 am Post subject: Do the majority of people who teach in Korea hate it? |
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I've been reading quite a few posts.
Do the majority of people who teach in Korea hate the experience?
Does ANYONE end up enjoying the job/trip?
I started with enthusiasm but now I'm a little scared after reading a great deal of horror stories. |
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Looney
Joined: 23 Dec 2008
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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 7:21 am Post subject: |
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Do not take Dave's ESL Cafe posts as a barometer of how 'bad' Korea is. The majority of posts on here are negative, from people stuck in crappy hagwon jobs, signed bad contracts that were poorly researched beforehand. I know tons of teachers over here who are having a great time.....the thousands of other teachers who are having a great time here don't have the need to post on here. Anyway positive posts are not usually tolerated
Just make sure you do your research beforehand, check hagwon blacklists if you do for some reason work for one......public schools are usually fine though.
I like to come on here for the amusement factor 
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Taya
Joined: 09 Jan 2009 Location: Changwon
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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 7:28 am Post subject: |
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I haven't left yet so I have no opinion...
But anybody who I've talked to in real life who has gone or knows somebody who's gone has said that they loved the experience (except for one who ran after six months). Some people stay much longer than one year. |
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bogey666

Joined: 17 Mar 2008 Location: Korea, the ass free zone
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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 7:33 am Post subject: Re: Do the majority of people who teach in Korea hate it? |
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shostahoosier wrote: |
I've been reading quite a few posts.
Do the majority of people who teach in Korea hate the experience?
Does ANYONE end up enjoying the job/trip?
I started with enthusiasm but now I'm a little scared after reading a great deal of horror stories. |
dave's tends to serve as a "release steam/frustration" valve for most/many, hence you have formed the impression you have formed.
I'm sure quite a few enjoy the experience.
I'm also sure the REAL truth is that 99% of the people have mixed feelings about it..
after all, Korea is about as radically different culturally as most Westerners will ever get. It can be like living on Mars. The "ET" factor multiplies logarithmically as ones gets away from Seoul.
like Gordon Gekko said in "Wall Street" - "mixed feelings, Bud.... like my mother in law going over the cliff in my brand new Mercedes"... |
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lifeinkorea
Joined: 24 Jan 2009 Location: somewhere in China
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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 7:47 am Post subject: |
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Depends on the school, the first one I went to basically consisted of my trainer asking me what I could do to become a better teacher. I thought it was his job to identify those traits and train me accordingly. I guess someone forgot their training 101 guidebook. Then, they basically told me how worthless they thought I was and that I ought to accept lower pay, kiss up to the boss, and take out trash at the end of the day.
Those three months conditioned me to feel like an abused spouse. I looked around and found another school where I stayed for 3.5 years. Not only was I treated well, but the owner of the franchise took time after classes to train me. Being British, he had a different use of the language, and I learned that reading a newspaper can really be seen with different sets of words.
So, the point of all this is, unless you can relate to these 2 very different experiences you'll probably have to get screwed and mistreated before you seek out the more decent schools and "enjoy" your time. Since Korea hires for the year and you can't work elsewhere easily, there are going to be many cases where people haven't completed the first stage. They leave the country and don't come back. I think that's why we are seeing so many negative comments. |
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Otherside
Joined: 06 Sep 2007
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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 7:55 am Post subject: Re: Do the majority of people who teach in Korea hate it? |
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shostahoosier wrote: |
I've been reading quite a few posts.
Do the majority of people who teach in Korea hate the experience?
Does ANYONE end up enjoying the job/trip?
I started with enthusiasm but now I'm a little scared after reading a great deal of horror stories. |
Hard to speak for the majority.
Personally, I had a pretty rough start, but after I quit my first job things turned around and now I'm enjoying the ride. I'm on my 3rd contract. Practically all of my friends who've been here more than a year are enjoying it, and atleast half of the first-years are having a good time.
IMO, anyone who is NOT enjoying it and signs on for a second year has a few screws loose. |
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bogey666

Joined: 17 Mar 2008 Location: Korea, the ass free zone
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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 7:56 am Post subject: |
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agreed.
depends on your school, etc.
professionally and in terms of how I am treated, I couldn't be happier. it's about as good as it'll get.
but socially - it can be a massive massive struggle (though the fault for some of this is mine and even more so if you want to beat on me for not learning Korean, though it'd take several years easily to become at least minimally proficient)
it also depends on how little Korean societal/cultural things bother you. They bother some people more than most (I'm fairly tolerant) |
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travelingfool
Joined: 10 Mar 2008 Location: Parents' basement
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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 7:58 am Post subject: |
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So much of a person's experience depends on the school they work for. I implore prospective teachers to come visit beforehand before signing a one year contract. Even if it costs you $2k US, and even if you have to go back to your own country for a visa interview, it's still worth it. Yeah it's expensive and a lot of flying but it is still much cheaper than finding yourself in an untenable working situation then having to fly home with your tail between your legs. |
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Bibbitybop

Joined: 22 Feb 2006 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 8:05 am Post subject: |
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While I hate a lot of things about Korean society and government (xenophobia, weak laws on rape, etc.), it doesn't affect me personally 99% of the time. I love my job, I loved my first job, I love my friends and my life here. I did do research before I came, too. |
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crianp
Joined: 10 Oct 2008 Location: Incheon
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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 8:30 am Post subject: |
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I work in a hogwon and for all the bad stuff that gets said, it is a great job. I love my kids and enjoy teaching them. The hours are not what I am used to but I gotten used to it. I think the problem with alot of foreigners that come here is that they expect to live a western social life, or come here expecting to party and don't take teaching seriously and when their bosses reign them in, they complain about Korea. What I found that really helped my melding in with society and life here is spending more time with Koreans and less time with foreigners, it works wonders for your enjoyment of Korean life.
Korea is amazing to me, it is nice and quiet, people work hard and treat you with respect if you do the same. I don't see myself going back to any Western country anytime soon. |
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bobbybigfoot
Joined: 05 May 2007 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 10:46 am Post subject: |
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travelingfool wrote: |
So much of a person's experience depends on the school they work for. I implore prospective teachers to come visit beforehand before signing a one year contract. Even if it costs you $2k US, and even if you have to go back to your own country for a visa interview, it's still worth it. Yeah it's expensive and a lot of flying but it is still much cheaper than finding yourself in an untenable working situation then having to fly home with your tail between your legs. |
Anyone who would drop 2K and fly here just to check out a job then go home, only to come back is an idiot. That's horrible advice.
Get some balls, do your research, and get prepared to take it up the a$$. Then deal with it if it happens.
Expect to be screwed a little. That's the Korean way.
Be prepared to be screwed alot. It's possible.
Consider yourself fortunate if you aren't screwed at all. |
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Milwaukiedave
Joined: 02 Oct 2004 Location: Goseong
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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 11:25 am Post subject: Re: Do the majority of people who teach in Korea hate it? |
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Otherside wrote: |
shostahoosier wrote: |
I've been reading quite a few posts.
Do the majority of people who teach in Korea hate the experience?
Does ANYONE end up enjoying the job/trip?
I started with enthusiasm but now I'm a little scared after reading a great deal of horror stories. |
Hard to speak for the majority.
Personally, I had a pretty rough start, but after I quit my first job things turned around and now I'm enjoying the ride. I'm on my 3rd contract. Practically all of my friends who've been here more than a year are enjoying it, and atleast half of the first-years are having a good time.
IMO, anyone who is NOT enjoying it and signs on for a second year has a few screws loose. |
Otherside and everyone else,
I had a similar experience in terms of a rough start, the owner of the first school I worked for was really nasty and vile. In the end, I went to another school and worked there a year and continued on with my experiences here in Korea (some good some bad, most of them have been good as of lately). Last January I crossed the five year mark of being here in Korea. There are still things that happen that make me want to scream and pull my hair out, but I try to ignore them and not let them get to me as much as possible. |
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margaret

Joined: 14 Oct 2003
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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 2:30 pm Post subject: |
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Overall I enjoyed my Korean experience and am planning to come back for a 3rd time. I think my experience was different than most for 4 reasons.
1. In many ways I prefer what I can do in Korea over the U.S. I prefer Korean food and love the bathhouses--I miss them when I'm here. I don't eat American fast food or go to bars or clubs.
2. I enjoyed living in a small town--though I got it out of my system and this time am looking to live in a bigger place.
3. I came with my boyfriend so I wasn't lonely.
4. I both did my research and got lucky and was employed in schools with honest, caring directors who were teachers themselves and were passionate about educating the children.
I did miss my friends and don't only have to work part time in the U.S. so I returned for 3 years after each stint. Now I'm tired of my job here and homesick for Korea so here I go again. |
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BS.Dos.

Joined: 29 Mar 2007
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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 3:07 pm Post subject: |
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Not from those I've spoken too.
Dave's often gives the wrong impression as for some it tends to function as a release valve. Think of it as a virtual coffee machine. A place where people hang around, moaning to their virtual colleagues about the daily grind. |
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loggerhead007
Joined: 22 Mar 2009
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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 3:30 pm Post subject: |
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I concur. Bad school=bad experience. Do your research. Speak with current or former teachers about the school. Get face time with perspective co-teachers. I too learned the hard way. Remember, they need us more than we need them. Stand up and don't be intimidated. |
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