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Fox : no one is saying violence is good whether male on male or what ever. what we ae talking about is protecting those who are being attacked by someone stronger than themelves.

Furthermore it is not always easy for an adult to escape violence. D.d. mentioned the woman held at knifepoint. Go to an emergency room talk to a woman who has had her face broken by an unexpected punch from an abusive man and tell her how easy it should have been for her to get away. I understand your feelings about violence. I understand that you read a website. There are thousand of websites.

I think you have read some things and think everything that is written by an academic can be applied in the real world. D.D. walks on, the Korean man walks on, the woman continues to be beaten. that is the real world. Protection of the weaker from the stronger is the glue that holds society together at least in the West. It is the social contract!


AArontendo glad that you think like you do. This is why so many many Korean women chase Western men. Well one of the reasons not the BIg reason.

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Things arent equal as much as you would like to believe in some utopia. yes, assaulting a man is bad but assaulting a woman is worse. It has nothing to do with women being more valuable than men, and everything to do with the fact that women are more vulnerable and less able to defend themselves. That extends to children as well. The reason we treat pedophiles with extra contempt is because kids are the most helpless members of our society and preying on them is an extra vile thing to do. Not everything is black or white, this isnt a binary world where its 0 or 1. There are shades of gray to all sorts of crimes.

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a man who is domestically abused isnt really a man, now is he...

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I'm not condoning violence against women. I just want to point out that Korean women won't hesitate to hit, beat, and throw things at their boyfriends.

I've seen a Korean girl pick up a small folding chair and hit their boyfriend on the head with it, because he accidentally dropped her $2000 chanel purse.

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Fox with all due respect. What you wrote does not make one iota of sense! What is being discussed is not whether violence is acceptable between the sexes. whether male on male or male on female. what we are discussin is that a male should stop another male from beating a woman. No one is saying that male on male or female on male is acceptable. Your argument seems to be that as long as we see as a greater wrong for men to hit women than there will be more violence. Considering the greater muscle mass of men the lighter bone structure of women it is the strong picking on the weak and that is just wrong. That is what is being discussed. A strong man hitting the average woman , the woman is just a punching bag, she really doesnt have much chance of defending herself. That is why we judge this behavior to be worse . A man hitting a man at least their bone structure can take the punch, at least their muscle mass percentage is close to being the same.

You are talking about weapons and police, forget that we are talking about someone being pulped, who has realistically no chance of defending themelves. If a women pulls a weapon most likely it will be used on her.

And no those tae kwond do kicks that in the movies that the heroine uses to knock the badguy out, well in the reall world the guy walks through it and knocks the womans lights out.

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Fox with all due respect. What you wrote does not make one iota of sense! What is being discussed is not whether violence is acceptable between the sexes. whether male on male or male on female. what we are discussin is that a male should stop another male from beating a woman. No one is saying that male on male or female on male is acceptable. Your argument seems to be that as long as we see as a greater wrong for men to hit women than there will be more violence. Considering the greater muscle mass of men the lighter bone structure of women it is the strong picking on the weak and that is just wrong. That is what is being discussed. A strong man hitting the average woman , the woman is just a punching bag, she really doesnt have much chance of defending herself. That is why we judge this behavior to be worse . A man hitting a man at least their bone structure can take the punch, at least their muscle mass percentage is close to being the same.

You are talking about weapons and police, forget that we are talking about someone being pulped, who has realistically no chance of defending themelves. If a women pulls a weapon most likely it will be used on her.

And no those tae kwond do kicks that in the movies that the heroine uses to knock the badguy out, well in the reall world the guy walks through it and knocks the womans lights out.

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I think what you are saying has merit, Fox. However I still can't quite agree with you on the qualitative difference between man-on-woman vs woman-on-man violence. While women can indeed be abusers, how wide spread is this phenomenon? I would also argue this: a man who stays in an abusive relationship is not doing so for the same reasons as a woman. What I'm getting at is that a man who stays in an abusive relationship probably has more control over the outcome of both the individual episodes of abuse and also on the outcome of the long term relationship. Meaning that were a man attacked by a woman, in most cases he would have the tools necessary to defend himself as to prevent any serious physical injury. In essence a man is not going to become (in most cases) a limp punching bag for his wife the way a woman would for an aggressive male attacker. Like it or not, our physiology makes violence between the sexes a very unequal affair. There's no equality here and to pretend there is , well, its a misguided attempt to implement some feminist philosophy.

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This thread reminds me of the Korean couple down the hall from me. She's close to six feet and he's more like five-four. If they got in a fight, she'd hand his ass to him.

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