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mistermasan
Joined: 20 Sep 2007 Location: 10+ yrs on Dave's ESL cafe
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Posted: Thu May 07, 2009 4:55 pm Post subject: student wants to pay to live in US w/ my family. how? |
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a korean student has realized that i have a large extended family back home and has asked if he could live with (a part of) my family back home for a semester.
the kid is smart and has wonderful english skills. he is korean but has been living in china for sometime. right now he is enrolled in chinese highschool and is bored out of his gourd.i have no doubts that he could hack it back inthe states.
anybody here ever arrange such? anyone have a fair "price"? any imput greatly appreciated. |
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TheUrbanMyth
Joined: 28 Jan 2003 Location: Retired
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Posted: Thu May 07, 2009 5:19 pm Post subject: Re: student wants to pay to live in US w/ my family. how? |
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mistermasan wrote: |
a korean student has realized that i have a large extended family back home and has asked if he could live with (a part of) my family back home for a semester.
the kid is smart and has wonderful english skills. he is korean but has been living in china for sometime. right now he is enrolled in chinese highschool and is bored out of his gourd.i have no doubts that he could hack it back inthe states.
anybody here ever arrange such? anyone have a fair "price"? any imput greatly appreciated. |
Have you spoken to U.S. Immigration about this? I'd check and sure that he could get a visa with no problems before arranging anything else. |
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mistermasan
Joined: 20 Sep 2007 Location: 10+ yrs on Dave's ESL cafe
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Posted: Thu May 07, 2009 5:32 pm Post subject: |
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yes, the idea (it is still just that) is filled w/ potential footfalls. we do know that last autumn korea was added to the US visa waiver program, ROKs can stay in the US 90 days no problem.
i am merely in the discovery stage of things. this new wrinkle in the waiver process is a potential goldmine for folks so inclined to organize small scale (such as 1-on-1 or 1-on-3 summer programs). |
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Goku
Joined: 10 Dec 2008
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Posted: Thu May 07, 2009 5:50 pm Post subject: |
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I've heard prices for arranging abroad homestays vary greatly depending on how much the standard of living costs are.
If you are willing to be ultra generous and not charge for your troubles
I've heard a flat $1500 USD would be an appropriate price, or aproximately around 2 million won a month.
That price is including food, room and boarding and sometimes price of schooling. Of course that is depending on where you live. Obviously if you are in the boonies that sounds like a lot but if you're family is in a rizty area that's less than reasonable.
All hersay, I have no proof to back this up but hopefully that can at least give you some kind of idea |
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mistermasan
Joined: 20 Sep 2007 Location: 10+ yrs on Dave's ESL cafe
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Posted: Thu May 07, 2009 6:07 pm Post subject: |
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goku,
thanks. the word i'd didn't know was "homestay." that should keep me busy googling sometime. 90% of everything is vocab. |
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poet13
Joined: 22 Jan 2006 Location: Just over there....throwing lemons.
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Posted: Thu May 07, 2009 6:23 pm Post subject: |
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Charge him as much as possible obviously. I wouldn't let a Korean kid live in my house for any amount of money. |
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McGenghis
Joined: 14 Oct 2008 Location: Gangneung
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Posted: Thu May 07, 2009 6:29 pm Post subject: |
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My friend's daughter is staying with my folks in Canada. Basically, I let the Korean ma do all the legwork (visas, tuition) and just helped out by emailing the principal of my hometown high school.
But I'm a foreign teacher so I don't really care about Korean students. |
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sinsanri
Joined: 20 Apr 2009
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Posted: Thu May 07, 2009 6:29 pm Post subject: |
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OP-- There are credible organizations in Korea and possibly the U.S. which arrange homestays for Korean students who want to live in the U.S. I had many a student use them and it might be advisable to check into those so you know what you are getting into.
poet13--that is just racist and uncalled for. |
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Goku
Joined: 10 Dec 2008
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Posted: Thu May 07, 2009 6:32 pm Post subject: |
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mistermasan wrote: |
goku,
thanks. the word i'd didn't know was "homestay." that should keep me busy googling sometime. 90% of everything is vocab. |
no problem,
Just wanted to inform you this is a VERY common secenario and actually I have been proposed to several times. (not marrige XD)
anyways, I would defintately ask your family how much they think is a fair price, then ask how much the students budget is to work with with. Let him know you aren't trying to "charge" him money, just trying to find out how workable the situtation is and just explain that figuring out how much it will cost to take care of necessities like food, school, etc.
Then you could probably negotiate a reasonable price where both the student is getting a fair deal and your family is getting enough money for their trouble. You definately don't want your family thinking "jesus christ this kid is more trouble than the $2 a day he pays us." |
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poet13
Joined: 22 Jan 2006 Location: Just over there....throwing lemons.
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Posted: Thu May 07, 2009 6:48 pm Post subject: |
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"poet13--that is just racist and uncalled for."
Racist? Nope. I wouldn't let any kid stay in my home for the purposes of learning. I already have to deal with kids for 8 hours a day. My home is my sanctuary. I don't care where the kid is from.
And if you're going to open your home to someone and ask for money, then do it properly, and get what you can. |
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Rory_Calhoun27
Joined: 14 Feb 2009
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Posted: Thu May 07, 2009 7:28 pm Post subject: |
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Could such homestays be arranged for the Chinese cheerleaders from last summer's Oympics? It'd be a win-win for my brother in English lit grad school.... he could help them with basic English in an academic setting, and they could help him straighten out his Longfellow.  |
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Countrygirl
Joined: 19 Nov 2007 Location: in the classroom
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Posted: Thu May 07, 2009 9:28 pm Post subject: |
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My husband and I did homestay for a long time in Canada. I cooked Korean food so we charged $1,000 and we lived around Vancouver. If you went through a homestay organization and feed the kid cheap American food (ie pasta and cereal for breakfast) the going rate was around $600 - $750. The families that charge that much tend to be cheap, never eat out and have the homestay student make their own breakfast and lunch. I've also heard of some who made the student wash dishes or help with yard work. Everything costs money so if the student needs to be driven to school or wants free reign in the kitchen then the cost goes up.
The younger the students the higher families charge. In Canada, underage students need a guardian or have to stay with a family member. (Of course Koreans can find ways around that).
Doing homestay for fun or for the experience is okay and can be interesting. Doing homestay to help offset the cost of living makes homestay stressful. We've had some really interesting students, some rejects that came to Canada because their families wanted to be rid of them and everything inbetween.
If your student wants to live with your family it must be that he likes you and trusts you. There are some really weird families who do homestay so it can be really hit and miss for the students as well.
Oh yeah, the student and family deal with all visa issues, school issues etc. |
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