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Goku



Joined: 10 Dec 2008

PostPosted: Sun Jun 07, 2009 4:34 pm    Post subject: Cultural and Manners Difference (US/Korea) Reply with quote

Anyone have worksheets on the above mentioned subject?

I'm working on one, but I would like to see what others have come up with.

And no esl printables, boogles, or any other site has good ones. ESL printables I don't have points to download.
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Michelle



Joined: 18 May 2003

PostPosted: Sun Jun 07, 2009 9:42 pm    Post subject: Re: Cultural and Manners Difference (US/Korea) Reply with quote

Goku wrote:
Anyone have worksheets on the above mentioned subject?

I'm working on one, but I would like to see what others have come up with.

And no esl printables, boogles, or any other site has good ones. ESL printables I don't have points to download.



There's a book called 'ugly korean, ugly american'....

I guess if you can get your hands on it it could make some neat photocopy/ discussion material. Some of them are put in a funny way, all sections are in both languages and it has cartoons.

For an adult or young adult advanced class and interesting conversations "the text book "Culturally speaking" is great, but they have to be at the level.

You may be able to find these two in the booksops where regular text books are sold.
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harlowethrombey



Joined: 17 Mar 2009
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Sun Jun 07, 2009 10:07 pm    Post subject: Re: Cultural and Manners Difference (US/Korea) Reply with quote

Michelle wrote:
Goku wrote:
Anyone have worksheets on the above mentioned subject?

I'm working on one, but I would like to see what others have come up with.

And no esl printables, boogles, or any other site has good ones. ESL printables I don't have points to download.



There's a book called 'ugly korean, ugly american'....

I guess if you can get your hands on it it could make some neat photocopy/ discussion material. Some of them are put in a funny way, all sections are in both languages and it has cartoons.

For an adult or young adult advanced class and interesting conversations "the text book "Culturally speaking" is great, but they have to be at the level.

You may be able to find these two in the booksops where regular text books are sold.


I hear tell that a group of underground filmakers are going to be creating some videos called 'Foreigners Acting Korean' and 'Koreans Acting Waegukin' to illustrate some of the absurdity. . . Smile
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Goku



Joined: 10 Dec 2008

PostPosted: Sun Jun 07, 2009 11:15 pm    Post subject: Re: Cultural and Manners Difference (US/Korea) Reply with quote

Michelle wrote:
Goku wrote:
Anyone have worksheets on the above mentioned subject?

I'm working on one, but I would like to see what others have come up with.

And no esl printables, boogles, or any other site has good ones. ESL printables I don't have points to download.



There's a book called 'ugly korean, ugly american'....

I guess if you can get your hands on it it could make some neat photocopy/ discussion material. Some of them are put in a funny way, all sections are in both languages and it has cartoons.

For an adult or young adult advanced class and interesting conversations "the text book "Culturally speaking" is great, but they have to be at the level.

You may be able to find these two in the booksops where regular text books are sold.


Thanks, I'll check it out at my local bookstore.

^^
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Julius



Joined: 27 Jul 2006

PostPosted: Sun Jun 07, 2009 11:31 pm    Post subject: Re: Cultural and Manners Difference (US/Korea) Reply with quote

Goku wrote:
Anyone have worksheets on the above mentioned subject?
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Basically just imagine the opposite of what the west would do (or how they would think), and there you have, the Korean way.
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Insomnia



Joined: 17 May 2009
Location: koreanwikiproject.com

PostPosted: Mon Jun 08, 2009 12:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I wanted to start a similar topic for a lesson plan and include some things you shouldn't say to waegooks in Korea.

-Don't say 외국인 around them.
-Stop saying foreigners so damn much, just say the country they're from.
-Stop asking them if they can eat spicy food or act surprised if they can.
-Stop acting amazed because they know how to use chopsticks

Some cultural differences:
-We don't use two hands to show respect when receiving or giving something
-Drinking culture, we don't really have drinking manners
-Prostitution is more looked down upon in the States.
-They eat a lot of side dishes
-I think we tend to say thank you more often to waiters/waitresses for bringing every little thing

add on, i'm taking a nap
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michaelambling



Joined: 31 Dec 2008
Location: Paradise

PostPosted: Mon Jun 08, 2009 2:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Insomnia wrote:
I wanted to start a similar topic for a lesson plan and include some things you shouldn't say to waegooks in Korea.

-Don't say 외국인 around them.
-Stop saying foreigners so damn much, just say the country they're from.
-Stop asking them if they can eat spicy food or act surprised if they can.
-Stop acting amazed because they know how to use chopsticks

Some cultural differences:
-We don't use two hands to show respect when receiving or giving something
-Drinking culture, we don't really have drinking manners
-Prostitution is more looked down upon in the States.
-They eat a lot of side dishes
-I think we tend to say thank you more often to waiters/waitresses for bringing every little thing

add on, i'm taking a nap


There are tons of things to add to this list, but I'm drawing a blank at the moment.

We ask "how are you?" and don't ask people if they just had breakfast/lunch/dinner.
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Johnny_Bravo



Joined: 27 May 2009
Location: R.O.K.

PostPosted: Mon Jun 08, 2009 2:57 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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-Prostitution is more looked down upon in the States.


yes, but the US is a Puritan yet hypocritical culture, perhaps you should have them read the Korean translation of the Scarlett Letter.

and in the big cities, hoing seems to be going along quite well. Craigslist was humming before the so called Craigslist killer. (now they're really cracking down on it)

most other places in the civilized world (read Europe, Australia, and even
Canada) prostitution is completely legal.
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Kurtz



Joined: 05 Jan 2007
Location: ples bilong me

PostPosted: Mon Jun 08, 2009 3:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

We use more than one adjective to describe the food we are eating.
If someone passes you a knife and fork, you don't tell them how kind they are for doing so.
Smoking during the meal is a no no
The bowl of rice doesn't have to be spotlessly clean when we finish eating out of it (that I find very anal here)
Usually we wait for the host to start eating, not the oldest person.
It's impolite to eat like you haven't eaten in a week, eat slowly and with your trap shut
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Julius



Joined: 27 Jul 2006

PostPosted: Mon Jun 08, 2009 5:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have some ideas for your students.You could present it as a sort of alphabet quiz maybe. In countries outside of korea, the following is generally a no-no:

a) eating with your mouths open like a cement mixer
b) sucking your teeth or making slopping salivating clicks while thinking
c) ramming your reclining seat into the person behind you on public transport
d) Being spooked out and making exaggerated avoidance action so as to not sit next to someone of another race
e) staring blankly into strangers faces on the street or subway
f) Constantly calling anyone of another race a 'foreigner'
g) Hoking and spitting phlegm while others are stood nearby
h) meandering all over the sidewalk to prevent others passing you
i) bumping into others constantly on the street
j) Acting as if other people don't really exist
k) Shouting, yelling, or talking at the top of your voice constantly, especially during the early hours f the morning
l) Allowing your kids to run wild or making a nuisance in public restaurants, shopping centers, stores, etc.
m) Pushing past others in a qeue
n) Stopping your car in the centre of pedestrian crossings when the light turns red
o) Getting outraged at the sight of a woman of the same race as you walking with a man of a different race
p) women smacking their gums while in idle contemplation
q) Turning your ringtone up to max and allowing it to ring for several minutes before answering on public transport
r) having shouting conversations on your cellphone while on public transport
s) Blocking the elevator by standing so nobody can get past you
t) Blocking a main highway and causing a ten mile tailback because you either want to sell dokbokkie from a trailer, or had a very minor traffic accident
u) Allowing your children to pee in public down the nearest storm-drain
v) Veering into oncoming pedestrians or traffic at the last possible moment
w) Blatantly ripping off other peoples ideas, music, clothes designs, or intellectual property then calling it your own
x) Making incisive personal questions to delve for personal information when first meeting
y) Putting your hand on another mans knee
z) Invading others personal space, blatantly commandeering or taking over the spot where they are already sitting in the park
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Adjumas Cheekbones



Joined: 26 May 2009
Location: director's pocket

PostPosted: Mon Jun 08, 2009 6:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Most Koreans have worked on a farm. Most westerners have never seen a farm.

Your welcome

AC
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aldershot



Joined: 17 Jul 2006

PostPosted: Mon Jun 08, 2009 2:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

^ crusher? is that you?
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Joe666



Joined: 19 Nov 2008
Location: Jesus it's hot down here!

PostPosted: Mon Jun 08, 2009 3:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Julius wrote :
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The whole damn alphabet!!


Ya baby! You stopped at 26. I know you could have squeezed the Greek and Russian alphabets in there!!
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Insomnia



Joined: 17 May 2009
Location: koreanwikiproject.com

PostPosted: Mon Jun 08, 2009 5:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wow Julius, you're overly negative and attribute that to all Koreans?

Julius wrote:
g) Hoking and spitting phlegm while others are stood nearby

Yes ALL Koreans do this Rolling Eyes .. why are you blaming some ajushi's behavior on all Koreans? This is not considered "culture", do you see anyone other than older mostly people from the country side folks doing this?
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h) meandering all over the sidewalk to prevent others passing you
i) bumping into others constantly on the street

Bumping into people happens in big cities like NY, it's not rude to bump into people on accident here, no need to apologize. 빨리 빠리

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j) Acting as if other people don't really exist
k) Shouting, yelling, or talking at the top of your voice constantly, especially during the early hours f the morning

Never lived near college students?
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l) Allowing your kids to run wild or making a nuisance in public restaurants, shopping centers, stores, etc.

This happens in every country. Are you kidding me?
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o) Getting outraged at the sight of a woman of the same race as you walking with a man of a different race

This still happens with many interracial couples. Do you live in a cave?

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q) Turning your ringtone up to max and allowing it to ring for several minutes before answering on public transport

Same thing happens in western countries.

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r) having shouting conversations on your cellphone while on public transport

Same thing happens in western countries.

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w) Blatantly ripping off other peoples ideas, music, clothes designs, or intellectual property then calling it your own

Hahahahaha this doesn't happen in the states. Again, do you live in a cave?

I'll bet $100 Julius is having a crappy time in Korea, sounds like a really negative person. I love how you put all these stereotypes as "culture" and act like Korean people are the only ones. You're just as bad as some of the people you referenced when you're labeling all Koreans as such, yet you're too ignorant to realize it.
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the4th2001



Joined: 12 May 2009
Location: Tokyo

PostPosted: Tue Jun 09, 2009 8:44 pm    Post subject: Seriously Julius, what perfect world did you walk out from? Reply with quote

Honestly now Julius, most of these "no-no's" are frowned upon here as well. Just as in any other country, there'll always be the more civilized/cultured folks and those who just don't care. If you spend any time in the States, you'll likely encounter everything on your list. I don't know where you're from, but I'm willing to bet good money that 3/4 - if not all - of your list will occur in your country.

a: People with bad dinning manners can be found anywhere and everywhere in the States.
b: Some older people do it.
c: Ride Greyhound.
e: Go to small town America or try being of a different race in a predominately white neighborhood.
f: Replace "foreigner" with a racial slur and there you are.
g: Some older men and high school boys do it . . . at the very least.
h: It just happens.
i: Live in a relatively busy city in the States and you will probably experience at some point in your life.
j: Have you ever been to LA or any other large city?
k: Add in smoking and you just described me and my high school friends back in the day.
l: Bad parents are everywhere.
m: It's happened to me in Starbucks, at the movies, at SFO, PDX, super market . . .
n: Visit California.
o: Black/Brown man + White woman = lots of nasty and racial comments depending on where you find your self in the States.
p: I've seen men do it as well . . . pick a college and visit. Plus, there has to be some sort of blond joke about that type of thing.
q: Again, ride Greyhound or some small town city bus.
r: Isn't this why so many cafes have a no cell phone policy? My friends and family do it all the time - despite my being embarrassed.
s: Go to LA.
t: Go to Oregon.
u: This I've yet to see in a downtown situation, but I've seen it in small hunting towns.
v: Again, visit California.
w: There are disputes like this all the time . . . just read the entertainment news or in some situations WSJ/FT)
x: Go to a small town church and meet the congregation.
y: Again, old men in general.
z: Haven't see this in a park situation, but it's happened to me at the gym on several occasions.
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