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Zed

Joined: 20 Jan 2003 Location: Shakedown Street
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Posted: Fri Jan 30, 2004 2:56 am Post subject: How about "How about" |
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Don't you find the usage of this here strange? "How about Korea?" I never know exactly how I should respond to this. Maybe it's just a local thing but you would never use this term this way back home. You would say "What do you think of ...?". We might use "How about ......?" but it would be in a context like "How about them Leafs?" meaning their recent performance, but the context would be clear. I get asked questions like this all the time here: "How about computers?" "How about chopsticks?" Does this seem odd to anyone else? English teachers seem content with this level and I've never seen any teacher correct it, although I don't suppose I have myself. |
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ryleeys

Joined: 22 Dec 2003 Location: Columbia, MD
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Posted: Fri Jan 30, 2004 2:58 am Post subject: |
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Don't have a problem with it at all... I heard it in the States all the time in relation to many topics. |
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ohahakehte
Joined: 24 Aug 2003 Location: The State of Denial
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Posted: Fri Jan 30, 2004 3:00 am Post subject: |
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theres also "i think that..." before almost opinion, "i feel that....", "maybe....", etc. my academic supervisor always says to me, "i think you better..." when shes explaining something she wants me to teach. i know that shes not being rude, because her english isnt 100%, but it annoys me sometimes, because if a native english speaker said it as often as she does they would be extremely condescending |
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kiwiboy_nz_99

Joined: 05 Jul 2003 Location: ...Enlightenment...
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Posted: Fri Jan 30, 2004 3:50 am Post subject: |
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Of course it's incorrect and should be explained. |
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ryleeys

Joined: 22 Dec 2003 Location: Columbia, MD
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Posted: Fri Jan 30, 2004 4:02 am Post subject: |
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Sample conversation:
A: "I think that kimchi is the greatest food in the world."
B: "How about jap chae?"
A: "Yeah, it's good."
Nothing incorrect there...
A: "I think that kimchi is the greatest food in the world."
B: "Eh... I prefer jap chae."
A: "I think jap chae is good, but I prefer kimchi."
No problems there either. Both are conversations I would hear back home... personally, when people say "I think" I would take it to mean that they are expressing an opinion that they don't require me to agree with. I don't view that as condescending at all... |
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kiwiboy_nz_99

Joined: 05 Jul 2003 Location: ...Enlightenment...
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Posted: Fri Jan 30, 2004 4:41 am Post subject: |
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Rylees, you're right, when the topic has already been introduced, and I think that's where the confusion comes from. You're conversation examples are correct, but it's not correct to start a conversation with "How about Korea?" In that case "How about" can only be used for a suggestion eg "How about we see a movie?" |
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Zed

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Posted: Fri Jan 30, 2004 4:42 am Post subject: |
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So, how about chopsticks, Ryleeys? How about cars? How about prostitutes? How about the Chinese? |
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ryleeys

Joined: 22 Dec 2003 Location: Columbia, MD
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Posted: Fri Jan 30, 2004 4:58 am Post subject: |
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Zed wrote: |
So, how about chopsticks, Ryleeys? How about cars? How about prostitutes? How about the Chinese? |
Chopsticks? Been using since I was 17
Cars? Been using since I was 17
Prostitutes? Been using since I was 17
Chinese? Been using since I was 17 |
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HardyandTiny

Joined: 03 Jun 2003
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Posted: Fri Jan 30, 2004 5:14 am Post subject: |
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ohahakehte wrote: |
theres also "i think that..." before almost opinion, "i feel that....", "maybe....", etc. my academic supervisor always says to me, "i think you better..." when shes explaining something she wants me to teach. i know that shes not being rude, because her english isnt 100%, but it annoys me sometimes, because if a native english speaker said it as often as she does they would be extremely condescending |
I'm guilty of being a "thatter". That that that...I'm working on it.
"I think you better" is annoying. Many Americans use that expression. I think the most annoying overused Americanism is, "You need to..."
Another bad one is "come again" instead of "excuse me" when someone didn't hear what someone said.
How 'bout we settle this without the police? ok
How 'bout Korea? no, that's not American at all. |
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ohahakehte
Joined: 24 Aug 2003 Location: The State of Denial
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Posted: Fri Jan 30, 2004 5:20 am Post subject: |
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ryleeys wrote: |
No problems there either. Both are conversations I would hear back home... personally, when people say "I think" I would take it to mean that they are expressing an opinion that they don't require me to agree with. I don't view that as condescending at all... |
you misunderstood me. when my boss is giving me simple instructions on teaching, she constantly says, "you better....give them this sheet", "you better.....use more flash cards", "you better...." she's not a mean person, so i know that shes not using "you better" in a condescending way, its just her lack of a command of english makes her think "you better" means "it would be good for you to do this." but in the english used by native speakers, i think that is really condescending, especially coming from an employer who says it every single day. |
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Zed

Joined: 20 Jan 2003 Location: Shakedown Street
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Posted: Fri Jan 30, 2004 5:21 am Post subject: |
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ryleeys wrote: |
Zed wrote: |
So, how about chopsticks, Ryleeys? How about cars? How about prostitutes? How about the Chinese? |
Chopsticks? Been using since I was 17
Cars? Been using since I was 17
Prostitutes? Been using since I was 17
Chinese? Been using since I was 17 |
But my point is: How do you know what I'm really asking?
Do you find it difficult to use chopsticks?
Which country makes the best cars?
Do you think prostitution should be legalized?
Do you think the Chinese will become the world's dominant economic power?
Now, in order to answer the question properly you have to clarify it. Why can't we teach them to ask a more specific question in the first place? Is it so overdone because we're too lazy to teach them how to ask specific questions (lazy teachers)? Or is it because they want one form that they can use to ask almost any question (lazy learners)? |
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HardyandTiny

Joined: 03 Jun 2003
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Posted: Fri Jan 30, 2004 5:25 am Post subject: |
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ryleeys wrote: |
Sample conversation:
A: "I think that kimchi is the greatest food in the world."
B: "How about jap chae?"
A: "Yeah, it's good."
Nothing incorrect there...
A: "I think that kimchi is the greatest food in the world."
B: "Eh... I prefer jap chae."
A: "I think jap chae is good, but I prefer kimchi."
No problems there either. Both are conversations I would hear back home... personally, when people say "I think" I would take it to mean that they are expressing an opinion that they don't require me to agree with. I don't view that as condescending at all... |
But aren't we just shortening a sentence?
what do you think about jap chae
what about jap chae?ok
how do you think about jap chae?wrong
how about jap chae? no, wrong |
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schwa
Joined: 18 Jan 2003 Location: Yap
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Posted: Fri Jan 30, 2004 6:56 am Post subject: |
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'How about ..?' is a clear enough way to elicit a general opinion. I'd guess its spreading into everyday usage everywhere, not just here.
But I think the construction is particularly appealing to Koreans because they have similar 'how' formulations in their own language ('How are you thinking?' etc). I've been teaching 'how come?' recently because I've noticed how commonly native speakers use it among themselves, nearly as frequently as 'why?'
The sooner Koreans get over the notion that they need to always speak in formal correct english, the better. Street vendors in 3rd world countries communicate much more readily in english, for all their mistakes, than tongue-tied precision-obsessed Koreans. I say dont call them on subtle mistakes of nuance. Just get on with the conversation. |
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HardyandTiny

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Posted: Fri Jan 30, 2004 8:17 am Post subject: |
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schwa wrote: |
'How about ..?' is a clear enough way to elicit a general opinion. I'd guess its spreading into everyday usage everywhere, not just here.
But I think the construction is particularly appealing to Koreans because they have similar 'how' formulations in their own language ('How are you thinking?' etc). I've been teaching 'how come?' recently because I've noticed how commonly native speakers use it among themselves, nearly as frequently as 'why?'
The sooner Koreans get over the notion that they need to always speak in formal correct english, the better. Street vendors in 3rd world countries communicate much more readily in english, for all their mistakes, than tongue-tied precision-obsessed Koreans. I say dont call them on subtle mistakes of nuance. Just get on with the conversation. |
I hear ya, but I disagree on one point. I don't think Koreans need to get over the idea that they need to speak perfect English, I think they need to get over the idea that if they sign up, sit in the class and never study they can just sit there and absorb the language through their skin . |
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Ya-ta Boy
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: Established in 1994
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Posted: Fri Jan 30, 2004 3:48 pm Post subject: |
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I also find 'How about Korea?' to be highly annoying. My first reason is that it is not correct for the reasons given above. When it is used to make a suggestion, about a seeing a movie for example, it is correct and proper.
But it is just not correct to start a topic of conversation with "How about Korea?"
My second problem with it is that it is too general. Zed is right. They need to learn to make specific questions. Do you like kimchi? Are you enjoying your life in Korea? Open-ended questions are great, but this one is toooo open. Depending on the level of English ability of the person I'm talking to, I ask them to be more specific if I think they can do it.
But maybe my biggest problem is that it is all too often fishing for a compliment. I hate that. I have the same problem with "Is it delicious?" and "Is my wife beautiful?" especially when she is sitting right there and "How old do you think I am?" Arrrrrrrg! |
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