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earthbound14
Joined: 23 Jan 2007
Location: seoul
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| benji1422 wrote: |
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Most Korean women don't really want to talk to foreign men, let alone date them, so you will be looking for ladies who have had a previous interest in foreign men. T. |
please spare from divulging the details to debunk this theory. I guess since you married a Korean you are starting to believe woori-nara chastity myths about yang gongju's and the divorcee sluts who hang out in Itaewon, and all the rest of the nice girls with thigh-high stockings and frilly dresses who wait patiently for nice salaryman to give them an engagement ring before they spread 'em. Not only do about 50% of korean women want to hook up with a foreigners, 99.5% of them lie about wanting to. The percentage of korean men who want to date white girls -- 100% -- but they prefer the 9s and 10s, and won't settle like the rest of us. |
What planet are you living on?
Where the hell do you get these stats from?
given the highly inward state of Korea it is true that lots of Korean women think the only thing they want is a Korean man, and all Korean men are happy to try and keep that alive. The number of times I've been rebuffed just for being foreign are countless. Perhaps the number is not most, but who the hell knows, many Korean women have no interest in western men, end of story. The idea that white men can come here and clean up because every Asian girl digs a white guy is a bit of a myth. We do get by well in the country and plenty of young girls are curious about people from other countries...but they aren't too quick to bring you home to meet mommy and it can be hard for them because of the number of people who will judge them and stare at them if seen dating a foreign man. Women tend to keep their relationships with foreign men a secret after when trying to date Korean men and many women once they date foreign men never go back to dating Korean men (for numerous reasons, not just because we have such huge packages...). |
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Scotticus
Joined: 18 Mar 2007
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| Posted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 4:08 am Post subject: |
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You gotta be kiddingme. S'bucks is dishwater. |
*sigh* Oh look, another waeg who wants to seem both tough ("Starbucks is weak, I'm a tough guy who likes his coffee strong!") and non-conformist ("I talk about how much I hate Starbucks, so I'm a rebel. Would you like to hear about how much I dislike George Bush?"). |
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DC in Suwon
Joined: 14 Dec 2008
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| Posted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 4:51 am Post subject: |
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So I guess the billion won question is:
Where do you find the TOEFL study groups? |
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Ukon
Joined: 29 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 5:59 am Post subject: |
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| earthbound14 wrote: |
| benji1422 wrote: |
| earthbound14 wrote: |
Most Korean women don't really want to talk to foreign men, let alone date them, so you will be looking for ladies who have had a previous interest in foreign men. T. |
please spare from divulging the details to debunk this theory. I guess since you married a Korean you are starting to believe woori-nara chastity myths about yang gongju's and the divorcee sluts who hang out in Itaewon, and all the rest of the nice girls with thigh-high stockings and frilly dresses who wait patiently for nice salaryman to give them an engagement ring before they spread 'em. Not only do about 50% of korean women want to hook up with a foreigners, 99.5% of them lie about wanting to. The percentage of korean men who want to date white girls -- 100% -- but they prefer the 9s and 10s, and won't settle like the rest of us. |
What planet are you living on?
Where the hell do you get these stats from?
given the highly inward state of Korea it is true that lots of Korean women think the only thing they want is a Korean man, and all Korean men are happy to try and keep that alive. The number of times I've been rebuffed just for being foreign are countless. Perhaps the number is not most, but who the hell knows, many Korean women have no interest in western men, end of story. The idea that white men can come here and clean up because every Asian girl digs a white guy is a bit of a myth. We do get by well in the country and plenty of young girls are curious about people from other countries...but they aren't too quick to bring you home to meet mommy and it can be hard for them because of the number of people who will judge them and stare at them if seen dating a foreign man. Women tend to keep their relationships with foreign men a secret after when trying to date Korean men and many women once they date foreign men never go back to dating Korean men (for numerous reasons, not just because we have such huge packages...). |
I've heard it's moreso the bad rep that foreigners get in the media(soldiers and hagwon teachers) combined with the lack of korean speaking skills + fear....
Plenty of american girls like foreign accents...but would they sleep with a hot guy with a sexy accent who spoke zero english? Most wouldn't....
Korean helps a ton with dating, and unfortunately not many foreigners learn it...
However, quite a few are worried about rep....I noticed nearly every girl i met either smoked or had a tattoo which is wild for a korean girl....I don't think I've EVER dated a "good" Korean girl. |
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andz22
Joined: 08 Jun 2008
Location: Wales
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| Posted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 6:02 am Post subject: |
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Haha, I misread the title as "Picking up Korean babies"  |
 For some reason so did I. |
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bardolf
Joined: 08 Jan 2006
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| Posted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 6:11 am Post subject: |
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OP:
If you really want to study some actual TECHNIQUES for 'picking up women', then you must study Game. I don't do this stuff myself, but I've been reading about it. Begin by reading (or listening to audiobook version of) Neil Strauss's best-seller, "The Game." You can find it for free if you're clever. (If you absolutely cannot find it without paying for it, then I suggest you forget all about dating hot chicks, for which a minimum of intelligence is required if they're not already naturally all over you.)
Here are some other things to get you started:
Read the Wikpedia entries on Neil Strauss, Ross Jeffries, "Magic" (the pickup artist/magician), and "Seduction community"
Most of this stuff was developed by men who were targeting women who spoke English fluently. You may therefore have to adapt or develop techniques for inspiring the interest of women whose English is rudimentary. Good luck, and keep us posted!
Oh, if you have the stomach for it, you can always keep with "Roissy in D.C." (google) |
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sakamuras
Joined: 21 Jun 2003
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| Posted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 6:33 am Post subject: |
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| For those dating korean girls who have minimal English skills, what do you mostly do on dates? |
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fortysixyou
Joined: 08 Jun 2006
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This thread is hilarious and probably downright helpful for those seeking advice on the subject of acquiring Korean mates, but I can't help wondering:
How long until all of this is translated into Korean, posted onto some anti-foreigner blog, and used as ammunition against us all?
Hi from fortysixyou, anti-foreigner Korean netizens dudes!  |
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crosbystillsstash
Joined: 12 Oct 2008
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| Posted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 6:56 am Post subject: |
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| For those dating korean girls who have minimal English skills, what do you mostly do on dates? |
sex usually |
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gangwonbound
Joined: 27 Apr 2009
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| Posted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 7:05 am Post subject: |
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| For those dating korean girls who have minimal English skills, what do you mostly do on dates? |
sex usually |
Sit in awarkward silence saying Mekju good...Kimchi good... |
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KoreanDJ111
Joined: 08 Jul 2009
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| Posted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 8:01 am Post subject: |
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I've been surfing these "techniques" or strategies to pick up Korean women.
But I have to say that ALL of these are WRONG.
They are missing a fundamental principle that all of the advices you are hearing are just plain FALSE.
Do you want to know the key principle in attracting and dating Korean women?
Well, here is the golden IRON CLAD LAW of picking up Korean women:
Wear a wolf shirt.
You think I must be kidding.
No. This wolf shirt will make you into a fiend that'll make women claw after you with fierce, burning desire.
But don't hear it just from me... Hear the reviews of what guys have to say:
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000NZW3IY/ref=cm_sw_r_fa_dp |
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madoka
Joined: 27 Mar 2008
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| Posted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 9:19 am Post subject: |
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| benji1422 wrote: |
| Not only do about 50% of korean women want to hook up with a foreigners, 99.5% of them lie about wanting to. The percentage of korean men who want to date white girls -- 100% -- but they prefer the 9s and 10s, and won't settle like the rest of us. |
It's nice to know that you've done such extensive surveys of the Korean population to know down to 0.1% what they are thinking. |
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alphakennyone
Joined: 01 Aug 2005
Location: city heights
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| Posted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 9:20 am Post subject: |
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| KoreanDJ111 wrote: |
I've been surfing these "techniques" or strategies to pick up Korean women.
But I have to say that ALL of these are WRONG.
They are missing a fundamental principle that all of the advices you are hearing are just plain FALSE.
Do you want to know the key principle in attracting and dating Korean women?
Well, here is the golden IRON CLAD LAW of picking up Korean women:
Wear a wolf shirt.
You think I must be kidding.
No. This wolf shirt will make you into a fiend that'll make women claw after you with fierce, burning desire.
But don't hear it just from me... Hear the reviews of what guys have to say:
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000NZW3IY/ref=cm_sw_r_fa_dp |
The funny thing is that shirt would not immediately disqualify you, as God intended it, from ever sleeping with a woman in Korea. You might even get a sincere compliment and demands to know where you got it from.
Anyone remember when it seemed everyone in South Korea was a Ramones fan? |
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merrypr4nkster
Joined: 03 Jun 2009
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| Posted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 10:07 am Post subject: |
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| KoreanDJ111 wrote: |
I've been surfing these "techniques" or strategies to pick up Korean women.
But I have to say that ALL of these are WRONG.
They are missing a fundamental principle that all of the advices you are hearing are just plain FALSE.
Do you want to know the key principle in attracting and dating Korean women?
Well, here is the golden IRON CLAD LAW of picking up Korean women:
Wear a wolf shirt.
You think I must be kidding.
No. This wolf shirt will make you into a fiend that'll make women claw after you with fierce, burning desire.
But don't hear it just from me... Hear the reviews of what guys have to say:
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000NZW3IY/ref=cm_sw_r_fa_dp |
Hell ya! BUt, I already have that tatooed on my chest! |
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Bloopity Bloop
Joined: 26 Apr 2009
Location: Seoul yo
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| Posted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 1:45 pm Post subject: |
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| DWAEJIMORIGUKBAP wrote: |
| Emeliu wrote: |
I agree, I go to starbucks all the time, with people or without, as they make a mean iced coffee.. so delicious and STRONG. |
You gotta be kiddingme. S'bucks is dishwater. |
I just go there for the fraps. Delicious sugar! DELICIOUS. |
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