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bnrockin
Joined: 27 Feb 2006
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Posted: Fri Jul 31, 2009 8:43 am Post subject: Going Public With Owner |
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I found this guy complaining in the Seoul Times or one of those papers and took a look at his site.
There is nothing too special about his case, typical screwed over guy...except he has video of his boss doing it and is opening calling for internet vigilantism.
Now this is how you REALLY file a grievance, catch the bastard on tape.
http://ecjl.bravehost.com/english.html
*watch how he rubs his belly! Either he is insecure about his weight or a Buddha reincarnate. |
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Kikomom

Joined: 24 Jun 2008 Location: them thar hills--Penna, USA--Zippy is my kid, the teacher in ROK. You can call me Kiko
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Posted: Fri Jul 31, 2009 8:48 am Post subject: |
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It's been posted on Dave's a couple times now. He took it to the mainstream, you say? Got a link to that?
As legitimate as Nick's complaints may be, sadly, he's an embarrassment on how he presents himself. Which, in turn, brings some sympathy for the boss who seems to earnestly be trying to do what's best for both of them in the circumstances. imho |
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bnrockin
Joined: 27 Feb 2006
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Kikomom

Joined: 24 Jun 2008 Location: them thar hills--Penna, USA--Zippy is my kid, the teacher in ROK. You can call me Kiko
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Posted: Fri Jul 31, 2009 1:05 pm Post subject: |
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Well, no one there is commenting. That's a good sign? Even the mob there knows not to get involved when someone is losing face. |
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SharkDiver
Joined: 08 Nov 2008
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 12:36 am Post subject: |
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It doesn't matter an ounce how the teacher presented himself. His boss is still a sheister and a thief every bit as much and I have no sympathy for the scum at all. Being f*ed over is diffcult to go through and its almost impossible to conduct yourself ideally. He was unconfrontational which is a good starting point.
Let's get real, clearly the boss is NOT doing what's best for BOTH of them! The boss is doing what's right for HIMSELF. If he was trying to help this teacher he wouldn't be screw_ing him over.
Going bankrupt, financial problems etc etc (although sometimes valid) are usually nothing but cheap excuses the majority of these crapwon owners come up with to short whoever they can, all the while with their tens of millions of won tucked nicely away.
Let the bast*rd lose face.......good for him....... |
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Theo
Joined: 04 Jul 2009
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 1:36 am Post subject: |
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We have entered an age where so many major and minor crimes are caught on video; surveillance, or more often than not, the camera device on someone�s cell phone. Such video evidence has led to arrests of exhibitionists (in Korea known as �Burberry men�), pickpockets, and all sorts of violent behavior.
If the expat teacher/videographer Nick Mistretta (he voluntarily posted his name in association with the video on this forum and elsewhere) had simply told his story by text post, a vast majority of folks on this forum would have doubted him; just as they have hurled accusations and insults at me for even mentioning that I was physically disabled in Korea as a result of my employer and the �hospital� (certainly wish I had shot some covert video as proof).
I think Nick Mistretta had every right and reason to photograph these critical conversations with Mr. Park. I�ve experienced first-hand, someone in Korea (and China) being very friendly and smiling while they were informing me I was being kicked into the street. (Detailed provided, if pressed.)
The fact that Mr. Park appears so polite and a bit nervous and befuddled doesn�t make him any less guilty about what he is doing. His attitude regarding the contract is a sterling illustration of the double standard expats are often confronted with in the ESL world of Korea.
I hope more and more videos such as this are made and offered for public view. Then perhaps some reform will slowly emerge on the employer side of the equation. As it stands now, the E-2 visa has the foreigner so bound to the employer that the situation is ripe with potential abuse by the boss. |
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Kikomom

Joined: 24 Jun 2008 Location: them thar hills--Penna, USA--Zippy is my kid, the teacher in ROK. You can call me Kiko
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 7:05 am Post subject: |
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Ok fine, get it on video. But don't make yourself look like an a** while you're at it. Man, you guys have a lot to learn about plotting your revenge. Take a tip from an American adjumma (me), you may not like the local culture, but at least learn to use it to your advantage.
Got checkers? |
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yingwenlaoshi

Joined: 12 Feb 2007 Location: ... location, location!
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 7:12 am Post subject: |
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All he's doing is exposing his employer for the asshat that he is.
Case closed. Get real. |
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Theo
Joined: 04 Jul 2009
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 7:29 am Post subject: |
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Kikomom wrote: |
Ok fine, get it on video. But don't make yourself look like an a** while you're at it. Man, you guys have a lot to learn about plotting your revenge. Take a tip from an American adjumma (me), you may not like the local culture, but at least learn to use it to your advantage. |
I honestly fail to see how Nick appears to be an a** in any way. In fact, I think he handles himself remarkably calmly and rationally when dealing with Mr. Park, especially considering the true purpose of Mr. Park's visit.
Please explain.
And while you're at it, enlighten us on more effective ways to plot one's revenge. You're an expert at such things, are you? Do tell!
While I admire and respect the intense interest you've taken in your child's ESL endeavors and experience (and your prolific participation in this forum), it also seems clear that you have never come close to being evicted and ripped-off by a Korean employer yourself. Those of us who have obviously view Nick Mistretta's actions quite differently.
Try being more than just an observer, from the comfort of your U.S.A. home, before you pass judgment on someone like Nick Mistretta. |
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bassexpander
Joined: 13 Sep 2007 Location: Someplace you'd rather be.
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 7:52 am Post subject: |
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I dunno... I watched a bit of one video, and although I sympathize with the foreigner (very much), he did sound kind of rude in the part of the clip I heard.
Comments like, "What does that mean in English?" after the boss already told him (poorly, but well enough to be understood) makes the teacher seem like... well... kind of an asshat. I'm going to stop short of calling him an asshat, though, because I haven't walked in his shoes and experienced how poor this boss apparently is. I'm just saying that to a total outsider who doesn't know much about the situation, that's how the videos could appear. And to a Korean court official, for example, it could actually be used to make a case that the teacher was "difficult." Do I agree with that kind of logic? No... but Koreans tend to think their own way...
I really should watch more before I comment further, though. |
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Chambertin
Joined: 07 Jun 2009 Location: Gunsan
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 7:58 am Post subject: |
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I agree, the person came off as a gleefull kid who thinks they just found out how to open the cookie jar.
Sure the situation must have been bad, and credit to filming it, but at times it seems scripted. For all I know this is some guy and his buddy puting on a show.
Thats my vote. |
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romano812
Joined: 09 Dec 2008
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 5:32 pm Post subject: I couldn't even bother |
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watching the whole thing. This is an evil boss? If the business is failing and he's closing up, guess what? You have no job and employees are far down on the list of people who have to be compensated. The guy is probably embarrassed that his business has failed and is trying to explain this nicely to the teacher. At one point he even offers to help him find a job.
There are far worse schools out there than this one.
I'm sorry, no sympathy for this guy. Grow up and suck it up buddy. Hope the guy doesn't come back and sue you for making that video. |
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Carla
Joined: 21 Nov 2008
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 5:57 pm Post subject: Re: I couldn't even bother |
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romano812 wrote: |
watching the whole thing. This is an evil boss? If the business is failing and he's closing up, guess what? You have no job and employees are far down on the list of people who have to be compensated. The guy is probably embarrassed that his business has failed and is trying to explain this nicely to the teacher. At one point he even offers to help him find a job.
There are far worse schools out there than this one.
I'm sorry, no sympathy for this guy. Grow up and suck it up buddy. Hope the guy doesn't come back and sue you for making that video. |
I think the guy was actually planning on going to another country, or he wouldn't be posting it. Libel laws are pretty weird here. Truth or not, you can get sued for talking bad about someone. That is definately a law that could use some improvement.
The thing I don't like about the videos is that the one where the boss is really mad, you don't see the first part of the conversation. The boss is already there. Ya, the boss isn't honoring the contract. Can he? Maybe he can, maybe he can't. |
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CentralCali
Joined: 17 May 2007
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 6:10 pm Post subject: |
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A Korean court recently ruled that "the truth is a defense" against a charge of libel or slander. Of course, they had to add another condition: speaking out about the incident "must be for the betterment of society." I mentioned that already in the other thread about this video.
Also, the teacher concerned isn't in Korea anymore and thus probably couldn't care less about Korea's laws protecting dishonest scum from the consequences of their actions. The sooner bosses like the one in the video cotton to the idea that they will be exposed the better it will be for everyone. |
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Carla
Joined: 21 Nov 2008
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 8:07 pm Post subject: |
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CentralCali wrote: |
A Korean court recently ruled that "the truth is a defense" against a charge of libel or slander. Of course, they had to add another condition: speaking out about the incident "must be for the betterment of society." I mentioned that already in the other thread about this video.
Also, the teacher concerned isn't in Korea anymore and thus probably couldn't care less about Korea's laws protecting dishonest scum from the consequences of their actions. The sooner bosses like the one in the video cotton to the idea that they will be exposed the better it will be for everyone. |
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They did~!!! Woohoo~! Thank you for letting me know. That was a major pain in the boondocks for a lot of teachers. I did not know about the ruling.
The other thread you are talking about... is that the one that doesn't exist anymore? Cause I was reading that one, but it disappeared before I could read more one day. I assume it became a flaming war and was taken off for that? Don't know.... too bad tho, there seemed to be a lot of good info being added by people, then it went poof. |
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