| View previous topic :: View next topic |
| Author |
Message |
fromtheuk
Joined: 31 Mar 2007
|
Posted: Mon Aug 24, 2009 11:48 am Post subject: What did you expect? |
|
|
Before I came to Korea in May 2007, I must confess I didn't know a great deal about the place.
I did some research. I knew it was an ally of America, I had read some of them eat dogs etc.
I was a bit anxious before I arrived in Korea, because I wasn't sure if they had running water, electricity, and gas 24 hrs a day like in England.
Yes, I reallywas that ignorant.
I expected Korea to be a place where good manners would exist. I have always associated Asian countries (China, Japan, Korea, etc.) with good manners.
I was aware of the bowing part of their culture, and their respect of elders.
I don't bow to people, but I respect their intention to show others respect.
Thankfully, I have experienced good manners as stated above. I have met some very helpful, kind Koreans.
I didn't expect the blatant ridicule. I was a little disappointed about that. I suppose I was naiive to expect an Asian utopia i.e. a place where everybody respects everybody else all the time.
Looking back, it's embarrassing I had such high expectations. As a child in England, I used to watch Bruce Lee movies and whenever programmes about Asian countries (as listed above) came on tv, I felt quite a lot of respect for these people.
They appeared to be wise, dignified, intelligent and cultured.
I see these qualities still exist here, but the shallow 'modern' image of Korea does make people appear to be crass and a bit awful.
I didn't expect the subway system to be as excellent as it is. I was very pleasantly surprised to find that out.
Although I rant about my work environment, I respect Koreans. I've found some of them to be fairly genuine.
Lastly, despite some negative Korean attitudes, I feel I care about them a bit. I find them quite likeable, some of the time.
What did you expect? |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
Oreovictim
Joined: 23 Aug 2006
|
Posted: Mon Aug 24, 2009 12:12 pm Post subject: |
|
|
| You watched a lot of Bruce Lee movies as a kid? Did you walk into a galbi place and say, "I'd like some Korean spare ribs! What? You, you don't know what Korean spare ribs are? Well, let me show you, man." (Bam!) |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
Cheonmunka

Joined: 04 Jun 2004
|
Posted: Mon Aug 24, 2009 1:42 pm Post subject: |
|
|
| Quote: |
Looking back, it's embarrassing I had such high expectations. As a child in England, I used to watch Bruce Lee movies and whenever programmes about Asian countries (as listed above) came on tv, I felt quite a lot of respect for these people.
They appeared to be wise, dignified, intelligent and cultured. |
I visited Hong Kong when I was 11, exactly then, in 1980 when Bruce Lee was doing his Hong Kong movies. It was a cool time in Hong Kong. Whenever I see the Hong Kong movies I remember the cars and atmosphere of the place.
I understand your love for those movies.
As for the real people I don't know so much about the ethereal qualities - I got ripped off buying a knock-off trainset (all my pocket money gone,) I got shouted at in Chinese by an old woman ... But, it was very cool in many ways.
Last edited by Cheonmunka on Mon Aug 24, 2009 1:45 pm; edited 1 time in total |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
Oreovictim
Joined: 23 Aug 2006
|
Posted: Mon Aug 24, 2009 1:44 pm Post subject: |
|
|
| Cheonmunka wrote: |
| Quote: |
Looking back, it's embarrassing I had such high expectations. As a child in England, I used to watch Bruce Lee movies and whenever programmes about Asian countries (as listed above) came on tv, I felt quite a lot of respect for these people.
They appeared to be wise, dignified, intelligent and cultured. |
I visited Hong Kong when I was 11, exactly then, in 1980 when Bruce Lee was doing his Hong Kong movies. It was a cool time in Hong Kong. Whenever I see the Hong Kong movies I rememeber the cars and atmosphere of the place.
I understand your love for those movies. |
Er . . . But Bruce Lee died in 1973. |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
Cheonmunka

Joined: 04 Jun 2004
|
Posted: Mon Aug 24, 2009 1:48 pm Post subject: |
|
|
Well, one of the Bruce's. Maybe it was the guy in, 'They call Me Bruce.'
That's odd though. I always thought when watching the movies the place (HK) looks exactly the same on screen in the BK movies as when I saw it walking through it.
Anyway, my sentiments still remain about the thing. |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
The evil penguin

Joined: 24 May 2003 Location: Doing something naughty near you.....
|
Posted: Mon Aug 24, 2009 3:09 pm Post subject: |
|
|
| Oreovictim wrote: |
[
Er . . . But Bruce Lee died in 1973. |
Er... no he didn't.
He runs a bar with Elvis and Michael Jackson in Itaewon. |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
Pwillig
Joined: 26 Jan 2009
|
Posted: Mon Aug 24, 2009 3:59 pm Post subject: |
|
|
Definitely more red carpet entries and parades for the most honored foreign English teacher.
I honestly wasn't prepared for hearing "handsome guy" all the time or the amount of caressing my biceps and chest would elicit - from men. -_- |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
kg2095
Joined: 23 May 2009 Location: Hwaseong City
|
Posted: Mon Aug 24, 2009 6:56 pm Post subject: |
|
|
I expected a cleaner, more mordern looking Korea.
I was surprised at the lack of architectural style and the tacky look and feel to the place. |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
waynehead
Joined: 18 Apr 2006 Location: Jongno
|
Posted: Mon Aug 24, 2009 7:14 pm Post subject: |
|
|
| My expectations and understanding of Korea before I arrived were so far off the mark that I'd be afraid to admit them publicly. |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
Sakamoto
Joined: 11 Aug 2009
|
Posted: Tue Aug 25, 2009 2:08 am Post subject: |
|
|
| Pwillig wrote: |
Definitely more red carpet entries and parades for the most honored foreign English teacher.
I honestly wasn't prepared for hearing "handsome guy" all the time or the amount of caressing my biceps and chest would elicit - from men. -_- |
Watch your backside. |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
The evil penguin

Joined: 24 May 2003 Location: Doing something naughty near you.....
|
Posted: Tue Aug 25, 2009 2:33 am Post subject: |
|
|
| Sakamoto wrote: |
| Pwillig wrote: |
| Definitely more red carpet entries and parade | | | |