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fromtheuk



Joined: 31 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Mon Aug 24, 2009 11:48 am    Post subject: What did you expect? Reply with quote

Before I came to Korea in May 2007, I must confess I didn't know a great deal about the place.

I did some research. I knew it was an ally of America, I had read some of them eat dogs etc.

I was a bit anxious before I arrived in Korea, because I wasn't sure if they had running water, electricity, and gas 24 hrs a day like in England.

Yes, I reallywas that ignorant. Laughing

I expected Korea to be a place where good manners would exist. I have always associated Asian countries (China, Japan, Korea, etc.) with good manners.

I was aware of the bowing part of their culture, and their respect of elders.

I don't bow to people, but I respect their intention to show others respect.

Thankfully, I have experienced good manners as stated above. I have met some very helpful, kind Koreans.

I didn't expect the blatant ridicule. I was a little disappointed about that. I suppose I was naiive to expect an Asian utopia i.e. a place where everybody respects everybody else all the time.

Looking back, it's embarrassing I had such high expectations. As a child in England, I used to watch Bruce Lee movies and whenever programmes about Asian countries (as listed above) came on tv, I felt quite a lot of respect for these people.

They appeared to be wise, dignified, intelligent and cultured.

I see these qualities still exist here, but the shallow 'modern' image of Korea does make people appear to be crass and a bit awful.

I didn't expect the subway system to be as excellent as it is. I was very pleasantly surprised to find that out.

Although I rant about my work environment, I respect Koreans. I've found some of them to be fairly genuine.

Lastly, despite some negative Korean attitudes, I feel I care about them a bit. I find them quite likeable, some of the time.

What did you expect?
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Oreovictim



Joined: 23 Aug 2006

PostPosted: Mon Aug 24, 2009 12:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You watched a lot of Bruce Lee movies as a kid? Did you walk into a galbi place and say, "I'd like some Korean spare ribs! What? You, you don't know what Korean spare ribs are? Well, let me show you, man." (Bam!)
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Cheonmunka



Joined: 04 Jun 2004

PostPosted: Mon Aug 24, 2009 1:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Looking back, it's embarrassing I had such high expectations. As a child in England, I used to watch Bruce Lee movies and whenever programmes about Asian countries (as listed above) came on tv, I felt quite a lot of respect for these people.

They appeared to be wise, dignified, intelligent and cultured.

I visited Hong Kong when I was 11, exactly then, in 1980 when Bruce Lee was doing his Hong Kong movies. It was a cool time in Hong Kong. Whenever I see the Hong Kong movies I remember the cars and atmosphere of the place.
I understand your love for those movies.

As for the real people I don't know so much about the ethereal qualities - I got ripped off buying a knock-off trainset (all my pocket money gone,) I got shouted at in Chinese by an old woman ... But, it was very cool in many ways.


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Oreovictim



Joined: 23 Aug 2006

PostPosted: Mon Aug 24, 2009 1:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Cheonmunka wrote:
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Looking back, it's embarrassing I had such high expectations. As a child in England, I used to watch Bruce Lee movies and whenever programmes about Asian countries (as listed above) came on tv, I felt quite a lot of respect for these people.

They appeared to be wise, dignified, intelligent and cultured.

I visited Hong Kong when I was 11, exactly then, in 1980 when Bruce Lee was doing his Hong Kong movies. It was a cool time in Hong Kong. Whenever I see the Hong Kong movies I rememeber the cars and atmosphere of the place.
I understand your love for those movies.


Er . . . But Bruce Lee died in 1973.
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Cheonmunka



Joined: 04 Jun 2004

PostPosted: Mon Aug 24, 2009 1:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, one of the Bruce's. Maybe it was the guy in, 'They call Me Bruce.'

That's odd though. I always thought when watching the movies the place (HK) looks exactly the same on screen in the BK movies as when I saw it walking through it.

Anyway, my sentiments still remain about the thing.
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The evil penguin



Joined: 24 May 2003
Location: Doing something naughty near you.....

PostPosted: Mon Aug 24, 2009 3:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Oreovictim wrote:
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Er . . . But Bruce Lee died in 1973.


Er... no he didn't.

He runs a bar with Elvis and Michael Jackson in Itaewon.
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Pwillig



Joined: 26 Jan 2009

PostPosted: Mon Aug 24, 2009 3:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Definitely more red carpet entries and parades for the most honored foreign English teacher.

I honestly wasn't prepared for hearing "handsome guy" all the time or the amount of caressing my biceps and chest would elicit - from men. -_-
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kg2095



Joined: 23 May 2009
Location: Hwaseong City

PostPosted: Mon Aug 24, 2009 6:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I expected a cleaner, more mordern looking Korea.

I was surprised at the lack of architectural style and the tacky look and feel to the place.
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waynehead



Joined: 18 Apr 2006
Location: Jongno

PostPosted: Mon Aug 24, 2009 7:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

My expectations and understanding of Korea before I arrived were so far off the mark that I'd be afraid to admit them publicly.
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Sakamoto



Joined: 11 Aug 2009

PostPosted: Tue Aug 25, 2009 2:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Pwillig wrote:
Definitely more red carpet entries and parades for the most honored foreign English teacher.

I honestly wasn't prepared for hearing "handsome guy" all the time or the amount of caressing my biceps and chest would elicit - from men. -_-


Watch your backside.
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The evil penguin



Joined: 24 May 2003
Location: Doing something naughty near you.....

PostPosted: Tue Aug 25, 2009 2:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sakamoto wrote:
Pwillig wrote:
Definitely more red carpet entries and parade