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fromtheuk
Joined: 31 Mar 2007
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 Posted: Thu Aug 27, 2009 3:30 am Post subject: Love |
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I got divorced in April.
I must confess I find Korean women to be very attractive.
I sometimes look at women and think to myself I would like to protect their good name. If they aren't good, I'd like to pretend they are good anyway.
I love women a great deal, but I also feel torn between staying single and spending my life with someone.
The problem is although I have some good qualities i.e. kind, caring, etc. I realize I easily tire of others and they easily get tired of me.
Therefore, when it comes to love I feel I am stuck between a rock and a hard place.
What's your situation? |
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Socks
Joined: 15 May 2008
Location: somewhere in here...
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| Posted: Thu Aug 27, 2009 4:54 am Post subject: Re: Love |
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| fromtheuk wrote: |
I got divorced in April.
I must confess I find Korean women to be very attractive.
I sometimes look at women and think to myself I would like to protect their good name. If they aren't good, I'd like to pretend they are good anyway.
I love women a great deal, but I also feel torn between staying single and spending my life with someone.
The problem is although I have some good qualities i.e. kind, caring, etc. I realize I easily tire of others and they easily get tired of me.
Therefore, when it comes to love I feel I am stuck between a rock and a hard place.
What's your situation? |
You live in the UK now..
and you want to come of Daves ESL cafe - Forum for LIVING in Korea - and discuss your LoVe shortfalls?
no wonder nobody replied..... |
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fromtheuk
Joined: 31 Mar 2007
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| Posted: Thu Aug 27, 2009 5:13 am Post subject: |
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I'm still in Korea.  |
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mc_jc
Joined: 13 Aug 2009
Location: C4B- Cp Red Cloud, Area-I
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Get a goal and stick to it.
Go for your Masters Degree, go hiking, go see a movie, basically anything.
Simply panning over something you don't have right now will easily do you in. |
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fromtheuk
Joined: 31 Mar 2007
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| Posted: Thu Aug 27, 2009 5:18 am Post subject: |
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| I only think about it when I have spare time. Back to school next week. |
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kentucker4
Joined: 03 Sep 2007
Location: Georgia
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| Posted: Thu Aug 27, 2009 5:31 am Post subject: |
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| Sounds like you are not capable of love. Oh well. |
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PRagic
Joined: 24 Feb 2006
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| Posted: Thu Aug 27, 2009 3:34 pm Post subject: |
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| I, I, I, I...it's all about MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE! Classic narcissism. Good luck. You'll need it. |
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martypants
Joined: 15 Feb 2009
Location: Ulsan, South Korea
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| Posted: Thu Aug 27, 2009 7:16 pm Post subject: |
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Dood! Just in April? Give yourself some time to just be you. Don't date ANYONE for a few months. And then don't get serious about ANYONE for a year. You'll just screw them up and yourself, too
Been there, done that |
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Starla
Joined: 06 Jun 2008
Location: Seoul
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| Posted: Thu Aug 27, 2009 7:49 pm Post subject: Re: Love |
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| fromtheuk wrote: |
I got divorced in April.
I must confess I find Korean women to be very attractive.
I sometimes look at women and think to myself I would like to protect their good name. If they aren't good, I'd like to pretend they are good anyway.
I love women a great deal, but I also feel torn between staying single and spending my life with someone.
The problem is although I have some good qualities i.e. kind, caring, etc. I realize I easily tire of others and they easily get tired of me.
Therefore, when it comes to love I feel I am stuck between a rock and a hard place.
What's your situation? |
Life is a journey. It clearly wasn't meant to be and when you meet the right person again, you can decide if marriage is for you. I think it's a bit premature now what with your recent divorce. So you might as well take the time now to heal and grow as a single person. At least you had the choice to be married. Many don't and wonder if it'll ever happen to them. And marriage isn't supposed to be exciting. During moments of boredom in a relationship, you have to make efforts to keep things exciting. If you want perpetual excitement, perhaps marriage or long term relationships aren't for you. Just my two cents. |
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Fishead soup
Joined: 24 Jun 2007
Location: Korea
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| Posted: Thu Aug 27, 2009 7:54 pm Post subject: |
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| You need to get yourself on an airplane and go to "Grace hotel coffee shop" in Bangkok. You will be surrounded by fellow Muslims with the same needs as yourself. |
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Pwillig
Joined: 26 Jan 2009
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| Posted: Thu Aug 27, 2009 8:07 pm Post subject: |
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Whoa ho ho ho it's magic.
Y'know. |
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