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Hobophobic

Joined: 16 Aug 2004 Location: Sinjeong negorie mokdong oh ga ri samgyup sal fighting
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Posted: Sat Aug 29, 2009 2:38 am Post subject: |
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Sometimes I wish my wife would go live somewhere else...my hair might stop greying and receeding, the knots in my stomach would unwind, the veins on my temples might stop popping out, and I may even have a chance to smile without giving an explanation as to why....
...start hoofing it...get multiple recruiters searching, and get a new job. |
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E_athlete
Joined: 09 Jun 2009 Location: Korea sparkling
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kentucker4

Joined: 03 Sep 2007 Location: Georgia
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Posted: Sat Aug 29, 2009 3:11 am Post subject: |
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According to your posts if you are even legally married, you have been married less than a year. I hope that you like being divorced. I am serious. What kind of fool leaves his wife when she wants live somewhere else? You say the good life in Korea. You had a job that pays 11$ an hour. That isn't great but it is ok combined with whatever your wife makes. In Korea you will earn 17$ dollars an hour. Is it really worth it to have an extra 400$ a month to be apart from your wife?
Go back home. Korea doesn't seem to want you. YOu have had nothing but trouble, why take this abuse. You pulled a runner from one job, this job fired you. Do you really think any other job or place you live will be any better?
Your posts always make me laugh and I am glad that you are here, because my life never seems so bad in comparison. I feel really grateful that I don't have your luck or your life.
I do wish that things turn out better, but I doubt they will until you go back and live with your wife. |
Man, that's so easy for you to say. But I know what makes me happy, and my $11 an hour job in the town I grew up in wasn't it. I have to travel and be a little free. You don't really know much about me nor anything about my wife. Shit, should I just withold all of my true feelings and do only what other people want me to do in life? No. |
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PatrickGHBusan
Joined: 24 Jun 2008 Location: Busan (1997-2008) Canada 2008 -
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Posted: Sat Aug 29, 2009 4:04 am Post subject: |
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Unless your drinking problem is under control and treated you will achieve nothing more than waste another employers time in Korea Ken.
Also in your other thread you said your wife was here...now she is in L.A.?
You are confused my friend....time to get help and I mean serious help before you irrevocably wreck your life or hurt someone.
I am saying this seriously and not to bash you. You are not fit to teach right now. You are barely coherent and are exposing your entire private life on some online forum in a nearly incomprehensible manner that is rife with contradictions, lies and confusion. Please make that hard choice and clean up your act, there are resources out there for you mate. |
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Deep Thirteen
Joined: 18 Jun 2009 Location: Swamp Land
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Posted: Sat Aug 29, 2009 6:42 am Post subject: |
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| Like Dianetics. |
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Dharma_Blue

Joined: 11 Oct 2008
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Posted: Sat Aug 29, 2009 10:54 am Post subject: |
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| Man, that's so easy for you to say. But I know what makes me happy, and my $11 an hour job in the town I grew up in wasn't it. I have to travel and be a little free. You don't really know much about me nor anything about my wife. Shit, should I just withold all of my true feelings and do only what other people want me to do in life? No. |
Blah...blah...But I'm not ready to play with the Big Kids yet and take responsibility for my own actions!..blah..blah..I post almost every single detail of my life on the internet but you you still don't know me!... blah..blah...I'm already married but I decided I need to be free and get drunk have sex with more Korean women before I can be at peace in 'mind and spirit'...blah..blah... (goes into the corner with his blanket and cries).. |
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kentucker4

Joined: 03 Sep 2007 Location: Georgia
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Posted: Sat Aug 29, 2009 8:31 pm Post subject: |
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| kentucker4 wrote: |
| Man, that's so easy for you to say. But I know what makes me happy, and my $11 an hour job in the town I grew up in wasn't it. I have to travel and be a little free. You don't really know much about me nor anything about my wife. Shit, should I just withold all of my true feelings and do only what other people want me to do in life? No. |
Blah...blah...But I'm not ready to play with the Big Kids yet and take responsibility for my own actions!..blah..blah..I post almost every single detail of my life on the internet but you you still don't know me!... blah..blah...I'm already married but I decided I need to be free and get drunk have sex with more Korean women before I can be at peace in 'mind and spirit'...blah..blah... (goes into the corner with his blanket and cries).. |
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what a loser you are, you post such big talk on the internet, I will gladly meet you in real life so you can say this to my face you little coward
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kentucker4

Joined: 03 Sep 2007 Location: Georgia
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Posted: Sat Aug 29, 2009 8:43 pm Post subject: |
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Unless your drinking problem is under control and treated you will achieve nothing more than waste another employers time in Korea Ken.
Also in your other thread you said your wife was here...now she is in L.A.?
You are confused my friend....time to get help and I mean serious help before you irrevocably wreck your life or hurt someone.
I am saying this seriously and not to bash you. You are not fit to teach right now. You are barely coherent and are exposing your entire private life on some online forum in a nearly incomprehensible manner that is rife with contradictions, lies and confusion. Please make that hard choice and clean up your act, there are resources out there for you mate. |
go to hell |
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PatrickGHBusan
Joined: 24 Jun 2008 Location: Busan (1997-2008) Canada 2008 -
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Posted: Sun Aug 30, 2009 6:13 am Post subject: |
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It seems you are there already my friend. You sadly ignored the fact I was trying to offer solutions. I wish you luck but this will only get worse for you. The bottom of a bottle is not where solutions lie my friend. |
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sketcha
Joined: 05 Sep 2007 Location: Seoul, South Korea
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Posted: Sun Aug 30, 2009 8:34 am Post subject: ... |
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dude, you went to this forum to ask for advise/get some answers, etc
mind you, some replies are best left ignored, but when someone genuinely offers an advice (with your best intention in mind), your respond was 'go to hell'??
grow up.
life is never easy and being married comes with responsibilities.
as a concern individual my advise is to straighten things out with your wife first - have a good, meaningful talk with her (hopefully she'll listen and be open to what you have to say)
then go from there |
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kentucker4

Joined: 03 Sep 2007 Location: Georgia
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Posted: Mon Aug 31, 2009 5:06 pm Post subject: |
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It seems you are there already my friend. You sadly ignored the fact I was trying to offer solutions. I wish you luck but this will only get worse for you. The bottom of a bottle is not where solutions lie my friend. |
My apologies. I took what you said out of context. I don't drink every day like what you think. In fact, I have decided to quit for good. |
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cruisemonkey

Joined: 04 Jul 2005 Location: Hopefully, the same place as my luggage.
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Posted: Mon Aug 31, 2009 5:21 pm Post subject: |
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| I don't drink every day like what you think. In fact, I have decided to quit for good. |
Abstinance is just a crutch to help you avoid the soju-soaked reality that is K-land.  |
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