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Iamronin11
Joined: 17 May 2009
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 2:17 pm Post subject: hogwon keeping my diploma |
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my hogwon is claiming they need to keep my diploma to show the parents in case they want to see my "credentials". Being the team player that I am, and since I was new and didn't want to rock the boat I agreed. Now I am beginning to worry that they are going to lose it , I dont think they give a rats ass if it gets lost or damaged. Is there anything I can do to force them to give it back to me without causing too much trouble? |
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iggyb
Joined: 29 Oct 2003
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 2:23 pm Post subject: |
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Just ask for it back. If they say no, then the trouble has already begun. A photocopy of it should be fine for any "proof" for parents or students. There is no legitimate reason for them to refuse to give it back.
If they won't, call in sick the next day and then ask for your diploma back again the following day - until they get the point.
Your diploma is a key document for you. Never let a school keep it.
For some schools, like my undergrad one, it can be hard to get a new copy of your diploma. And it can cost a fair amount.
Just ask politely for it and see what they say. If they refuse, it's a problem... |
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cruisemonkey

Joined: 04 Jul 2005 Location: Hopefully, the same place as my luggage.
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 4:17 pm Post subject: |
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iggyb wrote: |
Just ask for it back...
...If they won't, call in sick the next day and then ask for your diploma back again the following day - until they get the point. |
Be very careful. I agree with most of iggy's advice; however, if you start calling in sick, you are likely to find yourself without your diploma and your job.
Make up an excuse - "I need it to apply for grad. school." is a good one - the director can't refuse. Next time you're home, have copies verified at the K embassy/consulate so you never have to 'use' the original again (and crooked Ks can't hold it 'hostage'). |
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iggyb
Joined: 29 Oct 2003
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 4:26 pm Post subject: |
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I agree. You have to be careful how hard you push, but since there is no reason for them to refuse to give you the diploma, the refusal in itself is a fairly important step that deserves some response....And if you can show them to take you seriously at the start --- without damaging the bridges too much --- it can help you with future more minor issues...
(conversely, if you just shrugged your shoulders and "endured" if they refused to give you the diploma, they can assume you are a push-over.) |
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martypants
Joined: 15 Feb 2009 Location: Ulsan, South Korea
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 5:20 pm Post subject: |
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oh what a bunch of crap. Let them have it. Your school will provide another if you need to work at another place. Everytime you seek a job you'll have to get one sent - from the school - not delivered by you. Grow up |
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cruisemonkey

Joined: 04 Jul 2005 Location: Hopefully, the same place as my luggage.
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 5:30 pm Post subject: |
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martypants wrote: |
oh what a bunch of crap. Let them have it. Your school will provide another if you need to work at another place. Everytime you seek a job you'll have to get one sent - from the school - not delivered by you. Grow up |
Fortunately, we don't all have your wisdom and maturity. |
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Changwon Charlie
Joined: 22 Aug 2009 Location: Changwon
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 5:34 pm Post subject: |
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Get it back quickly as chances are you won't see it again and they won't pay for a replacement (if you can get one).
Just say you need it to apply for something is a great reason.... |
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martypants
Joined: 15 Feb 2009 Location: Ulsan, South Korea
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 5:43 pm Post subject: |
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cruisemonkey wrote: |
martypants wrote: |
oh what a bunch of crap. Let them have it. Your school will provide another if you need to work at another place. Everytime you seek a job you'll have to get one sent - from the school - not delivered by you. Grow up |
Fortunately, we don't all have your wisdom and maturity. |
No, you don't. And until you do, you're going to be stuck in a constant state if distrust. I feel sorry for dorks like you guys who think every Korean is out to screw them. Why would they want to keep your diploma? If you're not going to work there any more, they don't need it. |
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Carla
Joined: 21 Nov 2008
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 6:07 pm Post subject: |
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I would have a problem if they had my diploma tucked away somewhere I couldn't see it. But at my school, my diploma is framed and hung in the main room WITH all the other credentials for the other teachers. If I decided to quit, it's as simple as walking to the wall, and taking my diploma. And on the offshot that it somehow disappeared, my university only charges like $40 to replace, as opposed to some schools who charge you over $150.
Now, I have heard of places keeping your diploma as insurance you won't leave, keeping it hidden somewhere. I have heard of them just keeping it (more out of laziness to find it) and them being folded and torn and just not well kept.
If I could not see the diploma, I would throw a fit. Or better yet, as another suggested, claim you need it for a reason. |
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louiloui
Joined: 14 Oct 2008
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 7:19 pm Post subject: |
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Ask for it back as politely as you can. If they refuse, then to avoid trouble you should ask that it be hung in plain sight. I have had friends at Hagwons whose employers "lost" their diplomas, so if you let them keep it in storage for a year that is a definite possibility. |
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Iamronin11
Joined: 17 May 2009
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 8:56 pm Post subject: |
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what is the next step if they refuse? its even stated in my contract that i would get it back. what if they claim they "lost" it |
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CentralCali
Joined: 17 May 2007
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Posted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 11:52 pm Post subject: |
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He doesn't think every Korean is out to screw him. He knows the OP's Korean boss is screwing the OP. There is no legal reason to keep the diploma. Keeping the thing prevents, or at least delays, an employee pulling a runner.
Let's hear your advice on what to do when the boss says that he needs to hold onto the passport to prove to the parents the employee is really from one of the "Big Seven" countries. I'm a bit bored and need a good laugh now. |
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CentralCali
Joined: 17 May 2007
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Posted: Sun Sep 06, 2009 12:00 am Post subject: |
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louiloui wrote: |
Ask for it back as politely as you can. If they refuse, then to avoid trouble you should ask that it be hung in plain sight. I have had friends at Hagwons whose employers "lost" their diplomas, so if you let them keep it in storage for a year that is a definite possibility. |
That could be good for some golden comedy. When they hang it up, take it down when nobody else is around. Then ask the boss what the heck happened to your diploma. Look like you're in a panic. Tell him he might want to get the police to look into the matter. |
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The Great Wall of Whiner
Joined: 24 Jan 2003 Location: Middle Land
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Posted: Sun Sep 06, 2009 12:04 am Post subject: |
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They are holding it in case you decide to run away. That's the only reason they have it.
If you are teaching in Korea, you must by law have a degree and it is strictly enforced, so the arguement doesn't hold water.
They are lying to you, plain and simple. |
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Konglishman

Joined: 14 Sep 2007 Location: Nanjing
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Posted: Sun Sep 06, 2009 12:07 am Post subject: |
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martypants wrote: |
cruisemonkey wrote: |
martypants wrote: |
oh what a bunch of crap. Let them have it. Your school will provide another if you need to work at another place. Everytime you seek a job you'll have to get one sent - from the school - not delivered by you. Grow up |
Fortunately, we don't all have your wisdom and maturity. |
No, you don't. And until you do, you're going to be stuck in a constant state if distrust. I feel sorry for dorks like you guys who think every Korean is out to screw them. Why would they want to keep your diploma? If you're not going to work there any more, they don't need it. |
Martypants, there is good reason to be wary of situations such as this one. The first and only hagwon that I worked at, lost my M.S. diploma. Due to the notarization, required fee, and fedexing to get another diploma made and sent to me, I ended having to pay out of my own pockets a few hundred dollars. I, for one, would like to see the OP avoid going through such a frustrating situation. |
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