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UCLAgirl



Joined: 06 May 2009

PostPosted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 9:34 pm    Post subject: Shared apartments...yay or nay Reply with quote

Does anyone here have experience living in a shared apartment? I am about to interview with a school offering a shared apartment with 4 people total, two people in each room. It would be 2 guys and 2 girls including me. I always wanted my own place but I could see how that can maybe get lonely, although the idea of sharing a room drives me a little crazy after coming out of living with a roommate for 4 years in college...Any thoughts?
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prideofidaho



Joined: 19 Mar 2008

PostPosted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 9:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

There is no way I would share an apartment. Even in cramped Seoul, public schools and private hogwans alike provide housing / or give money in-lieu of a house. Sounds to me like like they are trying to save a bunch of money.

Also, the sizes of apartments are tiny enough....sharing a bedroom, yikes!
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Grantasmagoria



Joined: 04 Dec 2005

PostPosted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 9:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ugh, dont' do it. You'll be living with complete strangers and you're not 9 years old. Tell them to pony up the cash or look elsewhere for a job.
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AussieGav



Joined: 02 Sep 2007
Location: Uijeongbu

PostPosted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 9:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I couldnt agree more with those responses. Not only sharing a house but also a room ....... forget it.
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Cerulean



Joined: 19 Aug 2009

PostPosted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 9:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've never heard of this before. I shared a place years ago but had my own bedroom at least. I wouldn't do it again. I would suggest you say no and find something else.
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TheUrbanMyth



Joined: 28 Jan 2003
Location: Retired

PostPosted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 9:51 pm    Post subject: Re: Shared apartments...yay or nay Reply with quote

UCLAgirl wrote:
Does anyone here have experience living in a shared apartment? I am about to interview with a school offering a shared apartment with 4 people total, two people in each room. It would be 2 guys and 2 girls including me. I always wanted my own place but I could see how that can maybe get lonely, although the idea of sharing a room drives me a little crazy after coming out of living with a roommate for 4 years in college...Any thoughts?



Yes. Don't.

For two reasons which I shall enumerate below in order of their importance.

1. A school that "warehouses" its foreign teachers (two to a room) is extremely likely to give them very little consideration in any other matters such as teaching schedules, salary, benefits... In other words if they are penny pinchers in one area, it is reasonable to assume that this extends over in to every other area (especially as it relates to you).


2. You could end up living with a total psycho. Sadly enough there are a large number of 'freaks" who come over here to teach as they are unemployable back home due to their personal issues. This by no means encompasses all the foreigners here as most are probably all right but there seems to be a slightly higher proportion of "freak" to "normal" here.

Now before anyone says "Shouldn't those be switched..?" I will simply say that living with a freak can be vastly preferable to working at some certain schools.
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tired of LA



Joined: 06 Nov 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 9:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

There's no way you should share an apartment, much less a bedroom. The standard offer is your own apartment. Apartments should not be shared unless it is something you requested (if you are coming as a couple or with friends). I wouldn't even interview with the hagwon if they told me about sharing an apartment before I even interviewed.

Sharing an apartment in Korea with someone I don't know isn't something I would be willing to risk. Even though I have met some great people here, there also seems to have a lot of sketchy wack-jobs around. My advice would be to move on and keep looking.
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lifeinkorea



Joined: 24 Jan 2009
Location: somewhere in China

PostPosted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 9:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I stayed at a small house with 2 other Koreans in exchange for the hagwon owner paying all the bills. They left in December, and I had 2 months to a house (until a family decided to move in and throw my stuff out Laughing). After that, the hagwon owner didn't want to get me an apartment because I was 4-5 months into my contract.

I am afraid you are likely to end up experiencing something similar, or even worse since there are 4 people. When can people shower? When do they sleep if the shifts are spread out?

I would only share it with one other person so long as we both got our own room. There would also have to be some incentive in the contract (less hours, more vacation time, roommate allowance, something).

However, for 2 couples, this might be an ideal thing.


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AgentM



Joined: 07 Jun 2009
Location: British Columbia, Canada

PostPosted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 9:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

tired of LA wrote:
There's no way you should share an apartment, much less a bedroom. The standard offer is your own apartment. Apartments should not be shared unless it is something you requested (if you are coming as a couple or with friends). I wouldn't even interview with the hagwon if they told me about sharing an apartment before I even interviewed.

Sharing an apartment in Korea with someone I don't know isn't something I would be willing to risk. Even though I have met some great people here, there also seems to have a lot of sketchy wack-jobs around. My advice would be to move on and keep looking.


I fully agree. I wouldn't consider any job offer that only included shared housing, not when there's better offers on the market. I live with roommates at the moment and have done for the past number of years while in school. While there are upsides to having roommates, like having people to talk to, there's lots of annoyances, and at this point I would want my own place for sure!
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UCLAgirl



Joined: 06 May 2009

PostPosted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 10:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

thanks for the responses. well i already agreed to interview so i guess i will at least talk to them. i just looked at pictures of the apartment and roommates and it looks big and nice and fun, but i really do want my own place...it was kind of comforting to know that id have people i could talk to going into it, but ill see what other options i get...
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UCLAgirl



Joined: 06 May 2009

PostPosted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 10:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

P.S...should i even bother asking about a single apartment?
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DrugstoreCowgirl



Joined: 08 May 2009
Location: Daegu-where the streets have no name

PostPosted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 10:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

There are plenty of jobs in Korea where you get your own apartment, I would not even bother with this one.
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UCLAgirl



Joined: 06 May 2009

PostPosted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 10:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

whoa wait. just found out that it's 4 bed room, not 2. so i WOULD get my own room....
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halfmanhalfbiscuit



Joined: 13 Oct 2007
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 10:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

4 becomes how many at the weekend or through the week? Beget that.
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Grantasmagoria



Joined: 04 Dec 2005

PostPosted: Sun Sep 13, 2009 10:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Do you want to live with the people you work with? They might be really cool but drama is inevitable.
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