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Zulethe
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 Posted: Sun Sep 27, 2009 4:17 pm Post subject: Don't waste your time chasing girls at clubs in Korea |
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Ok, I'm going to give some advice to those of you who are young, dumb, and full of orange juice.
I'm 42 and I used to go to clubs all the time. By the time I was 22 I was burnt out.
Back in 1993, I used to go to clubs all the time in Korea. It was a waste of time. Most girls there are not the dating types and the chances of you finding a decent one is slim to none and slim just walked toward the door.
So I'd like to hear from those of you who have actually found a great girl at a club.
If you want to go to clubs to have a great time so be it. But please, don't be stupid like I was wasting your time trying to find the right girl at a club because it probably aint going to happen.
Another note, looking back over 20 years of clubbing, not one memory stands out as something special. In other words, it was just wasted time.
If you want to meet a girl, just walk up to one at a bookstore, coffee shop or wherever. Save yourself time, money, frustration, and blue balls.
you're welcome
concerned older brother in Korea
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mongolian spot
Joined: 15 Sep 2009
Location: Seoul
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| Posted: Sun Sep 27, 2009 4:30 pm Post subject: Re: Don't waste your time chasing girls at clubs in Korea |
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| Zulethe wrote: |
Ok, I'm going to give some advice to those of you who are young, dumb, and full of orange juice.
I'm 42 and I used to go to clubs all the time. By the time I was 22 I was burnt out.
Back in 1993, I used to go to clubs all the time in Korea. It was a waste of time. Most girls there are not the dating types and the chances of you finding a decent one is slim to none and slim just walked toward the door.
So I'd like to hear from those of you who have actually found a great girl at a club.
If you want to go to clubs to have a great time so be it. But please, don't be stupid like I was wasting your time trying to find the right girl at a club because it probably aint going to happen.
Another note, looking back over 20 years of clubbing, not one memory stands out as something special. In other words, it was just wasted time.
If you want to meet a girl, just walk up to one at a bookstore, coffee shop or wherever. Save yourself time, money, frustration, and blue balls.
you're welcome
concerned older brother in Korea
Zulethe |
I 100% agree. Back home its ok as you can meet a decent woman in a bar or club. In Korea its a little different.
By all means approach girls in coffee shops, just dont approach my gf |
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redaxe
Joined: 01 Dec 2008
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| Posted: Sun Sep 27, 2009 4:50 pm Post subject: Re: Don't waste your time chasing girls at clubs in Korea |
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| Zulethe wrote: |
Ok, I'm going to give some advice to those of you who are young, dumb, and full of orange juice.
I'm 42 and I used to go to clubs all the time. By the time I was 22 I was burnt out.
Back in 1993, I used to go to clubs all the time in Korea. It was a waste of time. Most girls there are not the dating types and the chances of you finding a decent one is slim to none and slim just walked toward the door.
So I'd like to hear from those of you who have actually found a great girl at a club.
If you want to go to clubs to have a great time so be it. But please, don't be stupid like I was wasting your time trying to find the right girl at a club because it probably aint going to happen.
Another note, looking back over 20 years of clubbing, not one memory stands out as something special. In other words, it was just wasted time.
If you want to meet a girl, just walk up to one at a bookstore, coffee shop or wherever. Save yourself time, money, frustration, and blue balls.
you're welcome
concerned older brother in Korea
Zulethe |
Back in 1993, lol... things have changed a little since then, my friend.
I've had some great experiences meeting Korean girls at clubs in Hongdae. It never became a long-term relationship, but it was usually a LOT of fun. Standouts were the skinny girl I met at Jane's Groove who would take me to punk rock shows and drink more beer than me, and the kinky cougar nurse I met at Tinpan, who would forcibly hold me down and **** my ****. (and those *s don't stand for what you think they do...) |
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Cohiba
Joined: 01 Feb 2005
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| Posted: Sun Sep 27, 2009 4:50 pm Post subject: |
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Just because you strike out and can only pick up slags, doesn't mean
the rest of us are in the same boat.
Thanks anyway granddad. |
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Zulethe
Joined: 04 Jul 2008
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| Posted: Sun Sep 27, 2009 5:40 pm Post subject: |
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| Cohiba wrote: |
Just because you strike out and can only pick up slags, doesn't mean
the rest of us are in the same boat.
Thanks anyway granddad. |
who said I struck out twinkle toes? I've picked up many Korean chicks from bars but none that I'd want to spend any time with out of the sack. |
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Ukon
Joined: 29 Jan 2008
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| Posted: Sun Sep 27, 2009 5:44 pm Post subject: |
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If you want to meet a girl, just walk up to one at a bookstore, coffee shop or wherever. Save yourself time, money, frustration, and blue balls. |
Becuase we all know those girls never go to clubs and meet guys. |
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Amethyst
Joined: 27 Sep 2009
Location: Hwajeong( I hope u like Chocolate)
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What 'kind' of girls go to the clubs?
I mean I like to go to the clubs to get my jig on..maybe even get my grind on(so sexy)..but thas because I like to dance..doesn't make me easy..unless grinding is whorish behavior..(gasp)
Has anyone ever met the love of their life in the club? I really want to know..
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mc_jc
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diver
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| Posted: Sun Sep 27, 2009 6:34 pm Post subject: |
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| Maybe they don't want to meet "great" girls. |
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seoulsucker
Joined: 05 Mar 2006
Location: The Land of the Hesitant Cutoff
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| Posted: Sun Sep 27, 2009 6:34 pm Post subject: |
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| Zulethe wrote: |
| who said I struck out twinkle toes? I've picked up many Korean chicks from bars but none that I'd want to spend any time with out of the sack. |
At 42 it's understandable that you're not into flings, but you can't expect those of us in our 20's and 30's (the vast majority of on this board) to feel the same. Not all of us are looking for long term digs....yet. |
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misher
Joined: 14 Oct 2008
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| Posted: Sun Sep 27, 2009 8:43 pm Post subject: |
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| I've had some great experiences meeting Korean girls at clubs in Hongdae. It never became a long-term relationship, but it was usually a LOT of fun. Standouts were the skinny girl I met at Jane's Groove who would take me to punk rock shows and drink more beer than me, and the kinky cougar nurse I met at Tinpan, who would forcibly hold me down and **** my ****. (and those *s don't stand for what you think they do... |
Exactly. If you want fun. Clubs that foreigners frequent tend to have pretty skanky women. A lot of them are outcasts, smoke, drink heavily and are emotionally damaged somewhat. THey are great for fun but if you try any kind of relationship, don't expect much. Many of them are emotionally damaged creatures. Some guys don't mind this type a girl and all the power to them.
Some good girls go out to clubs that would make good girlfriend but they definitely are not regulars. Expect to see them there with guys too. |
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Xuanzang
Joined: 10 Apr 2007
Location: Sadang
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| I remember reading some Dave's posters met their wives at clubs. There are success stories if you do a search and get lucky. |
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misher
Joined: 14 Oct 2008
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| Posted: Sun Sep 27, 2009 8:49 pm Post subject: |
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What 'kind' of girls go to the clubs?
I mean I like to go to the clubs to get my jig on..maybe even get my grind on(so sexy)..but thas because I like to dance..doesn't make me easy..unless grinding is whorish behavior..(gasp)
But then again..I haven't met a real decent man in the clubs either..(sigh)
Has anyone ever met the love of their life in the club? I really want to know.. |
back home it is different. If you are in a town full of students, all sorts of people go to clubs.
In the ROK, women that frequent hongdae and itaewon aren't looked upon to highly by other korean women. A lot of them have issues and are a bit too..ummm...promiscuous for me.
I've started a few relationships by meeting a girl in a club. They just never went beyond anything other than sex. A club doesn't have any real context other than getting your freak on. Meeting someone through friends or at some kind of uni club is usually good for me. |
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pkang0202
Joined: 09 Mar 2007
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I think your chances of meeting a great Korean girl at a club ends when she comes outside and realizes you don't own a vehicle.
If you are rich, pull up in a BMW and hangout in the VIP area of the club, then you won't have any problems getting girls at the club. |
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isthisreally
Joined: 01 Sep 2007
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| Posted: Sun Sep 27, 2009 9:03 pm Post subject: |
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I have found that a great percentage of Korean girls have been to a club at least once. From my experiences you can find just about any type of girl in a club here so I wouldn't so quickly disqualify it.
At the foreigner clubs quality definitely deteriorates and a lot of those women have been ruined/spoiled by dating foreign guys in the past, so they aren't my type. But there is a high concentration of English speaking-looking for foreigner girls, so places like that have that advantage. |
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