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Tigerstyleone



Joined: 01 Feb 2009

PostPosted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 6:04 am    Post subject: Where do students respect foreign teachers? Reply with quote

Finishing my second year in Korea.

Can you suggest any place where the students respect foreign teachers and behave during class? Does a place like this even exist?
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cdninkorea



Joined: 27 Jan 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 6:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've worked at many different places: kindie, elementary school, lots of kids hagwons, two high schools, an adult hagwon, and now at a university.

I got the most respect at the adult hagwon: Wall Street Institute. I enjoyed high school too but it turns out I got lucky there because not everyone gets respect it turns out.
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Xuanzang



Joined: 10 Apr 2007
Location: Sadang

PostPosted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 6:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Countryside school?
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UrbanStyle



Joined: 23 Jul 2009

PostPosted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 12:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

depends, my elementary school kids were great, they bowed and were very polite, in school and when i saw them outside. this was ins a seoul satellite city.
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hockeyguy109



Joined: 22 Dec 2008
Location: Daegu

PostPosted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 3:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

UrbanStyle wrote:
depends, my elementary school kids were great, they bowed and were very polite, in school and when i saw them outside. this was ins a seoul satellite city.


Even after 6-7 months? How in the world did you manage that? Hit them or something?
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The Gipkik



Joined: 30 Mar 2009

PostPosted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 4:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

hockeyguy109 wrote:
UrbanStyle wrote:
depends, my elementary school kids were great, they bowed and were very polite, in school and when i saw them outside. this was ins a seoul satellite city.


Even after 6-7 months? How in the world did you manage that? Hit them or something?


OP, depends what kind of respect you're looking for. If you're expecting the students to respond to you in the same way they behave with the Korean teachers, that would be unlikely. Seriously, would you necessarily want that? I think the ideal here is for students to still feel unselfconscious about playing with you and bantering in English outside the classroom, which definitely shouldn't be fawning politeness and ritualized body language AND listening to you and obeying you in class. The firm teacher fun teacher paradox is my ideal. Get students to see this contrast by how you treat them in class: when you are serious, make no bones about it, but when you are playful, make it clear that this is the role you are now playing. Students will start getting it. But don't make it look bipolar. Very Happy
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Fishead soup



Joined: 24 Jun 2007
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 5:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Students and co-workers tend to respect the type of teacher that's making an attempt to adopt to life in Korea meaning learning the language and following the customs teaching is secondary
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whiteshoes



Joined: 14 Apr 2009

PostPosted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 5:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Mexico?
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DWAEJIMORIGUKBAP



Joined: 28 May 2009
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 5:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Xuanzang wrote:
Countryside school?


And we have a winner.

You win first prize of; the poached egg in my sundooboo chiggae, the burnt rice and the bottom of the pan and a bottlle of Seoul Magkolli.

Seriously, it's true. No, not the prize. Find yourself a nice countryside school with under a 100 students (mine has under 50.)

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The firm teacher fun teacher paradox is my ideal. Get students to see this contrast by how you treat them in class: when you are serious, make no bones about it, but when you are playful, make it clear that this is the role you are now playing. Students will start getting it. But don't make it look bipolar


Bang on. From the get go and especially in the first two weeks I make a big deal of how the classroom will be run, teach them study skills and classroom language (ie actually look at me when I talk etc) and after the serious stuff I do some fun games and give out reward stickers and joke around and act funny. But those stickers soon dissapear and you will quickly find yourself stood up doing a 'manzeh' for five minutes at your desk if you get too far out of line. But I don't get angry.

So they kind of click and think 'hmmm, I can have him as the nice funny guy (that was kind of cool) but I have to study, or I can p him off and no one will like me. Plus everyone else will have more stickers....'

Obvious choice for most kids.
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TheUrbanMyth



Joined: 28 Jan 2003
Location: Retired

PostPosted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 6:59 pm    Post subject: Re: Where do students respect foreign teachers? Reply with quote

Tigerstyleone wrote:
Finishing my second year in Korea.

Can you suggest any place where the students respect foreign teachers and behave during class? Does a place like this even exist?


You have to install respect. It's earned, not given. Be a hard-ass to start with and then gradually mellow (although not too much) over the year.

DROP AND GIVE ME TWENTY, SOLDIER!

WHAT'S YOUR MAJOR MALFUNCTION, PRIVATE?

DID I GIVE YOU PERMISSION TO SPEAK?


Just preparing my boys for their army service. Laughing
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Mr. Pink



Joined: 21 Oct 2003
Location: China

PostPosted: Tue Oct 20, 2009 1:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Private high school. Somewhere the students are academically inclined.
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fustiancorduroy



Joined: 12 Jan 2007

PostPosted: Tue Oct 20, 2009 1:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Mr. Pink wrote:
Private high school. Somewhere the students are academically inclined.


I second this.
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Tigerstyleone



Joined: 01 Feb 2009

PostPosted: Tue Oct 20, 2009 8:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wow, thank you for all the sincere replies. I will take all of this into consideration for my next job.
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Old Gil



Joined: 26 Sep 2009
Location: Got out! olleh!

PostPosted: Tue Oct 20, 2009 8:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You must understand the students are very stress.
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warmachinenkorea



Joined: 12 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Tue Oct 20, 2009 3:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Don't be fooled by the country side school thing. I teach at 3 country side schools and my all boys is the most disrespectful place I have been yet and I have been at 5 different schools.
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