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grandpa
Joined: 19 Oct 2009
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Posted: Mon Oct 26, 2009 11:35 pm Post subject: Re: Unnecessary guilt from your significant other? |
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| Hang out on Saturday and Sunday, then cram your butt off. |
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Panda

Joined: 25 Oct 2008
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Posted: Tue Oct 27, 2009 12:29 am Post subject: |
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What's going on, OP?
I want to add that: I am sure you and your girlfriend are in love very much ( I dated many times, but I saw none of my ex-bf on a weekly basis, usually once or twice a month, yeah, thats why I failed as well). But very often, we ignore noone else but those we think we are in love with or we care about.
Because the love from your significant others has been like the air surrounding you...it exists and you cant live without it but you dont see it.
It seems your girlfriend ignored your feeling and need, she feels confident about the relationship and thinks she can abuse you or control you, but you will still love her.
That is how my ex-boyfriends treated me, I was quite good a girlfriend usually ( everyone says so), always working very hard on the relationship, but my kindness spoiled them as well, they would start hurting me by ignoring my feeling or simply being unreasonable/... |
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djsmnc

Joined: 20 Jan 2003 Location: Dave's ESL Cafe
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Posted: Tue Oct 27, 2009 12:36 am Post subject: |
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My girlfriend is the complete opposite. She's like "Stay the #$#$ out of my hair and go do your own thing"
I would go lay pipe across the land if the times we are together weren't so nice. |
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richardlang
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Location: Gangnam
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Posted: Tue Oct 27, 2009 6:46 am Post subject: |
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I'm doing alright. We see each other more often than I'd like. I just need my own time to do things or be by myself. Hanging out each day is a little too much. My public high school job is awesome. The students are highly intelligent in English, as ours is a academic magnet high school for the district.
My girlfriend wants me to move to her area and experience a change of scenery. I agree with the change of scenery part, but anywhere I go I know I'll have to work with less enthusiastic, lower level students who will likely not give me high participation -- at my school I give a semester grade for participation to each student. Students are absolutely all over solo and partner-based presentation time to get participation points.
I absolutely love my school, have got my own curriculum down, and mesh well with the English teachers. Using the communicative method and others. I don't want to move away from my job, despite teaching at the same school for some years. |
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nathanrutledge
Joined: 01 May 2008 Location: Marakesh
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Posted: Tue Nov 03, 2009 6:46 pm Post subject: |
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| You should buy a puppy. That would solve all of your problems. |
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