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peppermint

Joined: 13 May 2003 Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.
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Posted: Sun Nov 01, 2009 3:03 am Post subject: |
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The way I see it, fashion and style are two related but different things. Fashion is what's on the runways, and in the magazines- what designers say is the look of the moment.
Style is wearing something that you like, and that looks good on you. I don't give a toss about fashion, but I'm happy to put some work into style. I'm drawn to relatively dressy stuff, but not in the Korean style of frilly ruffly nonsense. I like things that are a little more tailored, intense colors, good fabrics.
Comfort is a lot more complex than I think you allow for. I refuse to buy things that aren't comfortable, but that to me, means they fit well more so than anything. A well-cut pair of dress pants can be far more comfortable than jeans. I do dress to accommodate the weather, which is a factor in comfort too.
I guess I dress to fit in, in that I don't wear dresses as much as I'd like. To me, dresses are the easiest thing to just pull on, but to everyone else they seem to be too fancy for everyday. oh well. |
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Steelrails

Joined: 12 Mar 2009 Location: Earth, Solar System
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Posted: Sun Nov 01, 2009 4:18 am Post subject: |
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A big check to all of the reasons you listed koveras, nicely done!
I'm a suit and tie guy, even on the weekends.
1. Self-Expression- I like suits, I especially like wearing them to weird events you normally wouldn't wear a suit in. Hip to be square kinda thing.
2. Comfort- I like all the pockets- good places to put wallets without listing like a torpedoed cruiser. These days with wallets, cell phones, PDAs, smokes, etc. A suit is a good way to avoid having to lug around the Man Bag.
Decoration- Lapel Pins, Designer Pens, Vests, Ties, Handkerchiefs, Cufflinks, Ties, plenty of ways for subtle decoration.
Image- Professional. Plus as an Asian male I think suits look really nice on Asian men. The whole black hair with a black suit thing really goes well together. People in general appear far more attractive (to me) when they are wearing professional/formal attire.
Manipulation- I wore suits back in the states and my friends always wondered. Then they started to notice how I would get more attention from the waitress, get seated at better locales, and people would listen to you. More likely to get a pass from the cops as well. People are less likely to mess with you. For some reason every time I went out to a bar or club and was wearing a suit no one dared to try to start anything. I like that, A night where you end up having to fight someone for talking smack is a loss, even if you win the fight. A night where you get to enjoy everything in peace and have a blast is a win. Here in Korea I have never gotten the 'foreigner price' and I think part of it is the suit.
Fitting In- Not in the U.S., but here in Korea when all the ajosshis are sipping coffee at church I'll get called over and the 'kids' in young adults group will not. I think part of it is that I always show up dressed in a suit while they are in their capris or whatnot.
I think fitting in is number one for most people, followed closely by self-expression (ironic duality).
I would also suggest that class roles/perceptions play a part (although not always) It's weird a lot of business owners will 'dress down' while a lot of middle class people will 'dress up'.
I think it is an attempt to identify with a larger group. I think this group identity relates to 'fitting in' and 'image' but has a distinct component in that fitting in is conforming to those around you, whereas group identity can sometimes be used to separate oneself from a larger bloc. Think blue collar workers back home- Sports team logos, jeans, Carhartt, Dickies, Wrangler. Showing ones loyalty to their local groups (Unions, Sports Teams) while demonstrating that they 'work hard' for a living and held certain values. I know when I worked on site that the suit look was never pulled out (except for Poker night and church) and it was Carhartt all the time.
I have to agree with Peppermint- Dress pants are frequently more comfortable than jeans. Denim just feels bulky and 'hot'. |
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Koveras
Joined: 09 Oct 2008
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Posted: Sun Nov 01, 2009 7:58 am Post subject: |
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| Joe666 wrote: |
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| Semiotics means language of symbols. It's usually specific to culture. So yeah, a designer symbol would be one, but it's often more subtle. In this case it's how what you wear signals to people what your status and interests, etc., are. You tend to pick up the message subconsciously. I'd say that it's distinct from self expression in that it conveys more objective social data about the wearer. |
Interesting thread Mr. Koveras!! Nice one!! You stated "it's how what you wear". I'm a bit confused on this one or having a hard time conceptualizing what exactly you mean. |
I'd like to clear up the sentence you bolded, as I think you mistook it slightly. Here's the revision: What you wear displays what you are. Although wearing a shirt out might be part of it, like I said it's more about objective social information.
| DorothyParker wrote: |
| I would look at fashion from three perspectives. Fashion can be art, utilitarian, or costume. |
Good post. But comparing yours with peppermint's suggests that you need at least one more category.
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| Style is wearing something that you like, and that looks good on you. |
The definition I've always read (in the gentleman's books, e.g. by Alan Flusser) is briefly that fashion is transient, while style is classic. This could be pursued much further and I'm sure what you said would come out at some point. What is classic is probably so because it looks and feels good in a way that fashionable clothes do not.
Look at this picture of James Dean from East of Eden, filmed in the early fifties.
http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y36/steeple/eden460.jpg
It's astounding. What he's wearing still looks good.
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| I feel fitting in has by far the biggest impact of any of the things you listed. |
In a broad and uninteresting way you might be correct. It's a bit like Joe666 saying that everything can reduced to self expression of some kind. I take it that in clothes like in other things you're a utilitarian? |
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Fox

Joined: 04 Mar 2009
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Posted: Sun Nov 01, 2009 6:04 pm Post subject: |
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| Koveras wrote: |
| Fox wrote: |
| I feel fitting in has by far the biggest impact of any of the things you listed. |
In a broad and uninteresting way you might be correct. It's a bit like Joe666 saying that everything can reduced to self expression of some kind. I take it that in clothes like in other things you're a utilitarian? |
I simply assert that with regards to clothing, what other people are wearing -- or the current social norms regarding clothing -- will play the largest role by far of any factor. Most peoples will choose clothing that within reasonable limits reflects those social norms, and of the minority that doesn't, most of them will pick clothes that intentionally avoid those norms, so they're still driven by them, just in the reverse.
The other factors you list of course have an effect, but really only within the bounds set by the "fitting in" category. A businessman might pick a certain tie design to express himself, for example, but the fact that he's wearing a tie at all will be driven by a desire to fit in. It's not that I reduce all clothing choices to a desire to fit, I simply acknowledge that it's overwhelmingly the strongest factor, and colors our choices far, far more than any of the others. Remove this one factor and you'd see immense change in how people dressed. Remove any other factor, and the change would be much smaller.
I'd almost go as far as to say that because it has such an immense impact, it should be taken for granted, and the discussion should focus on the other factors that color our choices, since as long as "fitting in" is part of the discussion, it completely overshadows the rest. |
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Draz

Joined: 27 Jun 2007 Location: Land of Morning Clam
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Posted: Sun Nov 01, 2009 7:49 pm Post subject: |
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I dress semi-formal for work. I should dress "better", but for a woman that means skirts, hose, and heels, and I won't do it. I don't feel confident or comfortable wearing that. If I were just going to sit at a desk all day it might not be so bad, but I'm teaching so I wear slacks and a collared shirt like my male coworkers. Work clothes are completely utilitarian for me. Image and fitting in, but I don't think too much about how it looks. I prefer black everything.
When I actually get to choose what I wear, I like long shirts and tight pants and boots, in neutral colors, maybe with a little bit of bright color. Not really fashionable, because I've been wearing the same thing for years whether it's in fashion at the time or not. |
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