Site Search:
 
Speak Korean Now!
Teach English Abroad and Get Paid to see the World!
Korean Job Discussion Forums Forum Index Korean Job Discussion Forums
"The Internet's Meeting Place for ESL/EFL Teachers from Around the World!"
 
 FAQFAQ   SearchSearch   MemberlistMemberlist   UsergroupsUsergroups   RegisterRegister 
 ProfileProfile   Log in to check your private messagesLog in to check your private messages   Log inLog in 

Why Don't "Many" Koreans like Muscular Guys?
Goto page 1, 2, 3, 4, 5  Next
 
Post new topic   Reply to topic    Korean Job Discussion Forums Forum Index -> General Discussion Forum
View previous topic :: View next topic  
Author Message
grandpa



Joined: 19 Oct 2009

PostPosted: Mon Nov 30, 2009 7:34 pm    Post subject: Why Don't "Many" Koreans like Muscular Guys? Reply with quote

My co-teacher talked about seeing the movie "2012". She was upset because Japan was mentioned in the movie but not Korea.

I asked her if she saw Rain in Ninja Assassin and she said, "No. I don't like muscular men." I heard the same thing from the Koreans teachers that I teach in an afterschool English class.

My wife on the other hand, a westerner, thinks Rain looks sexy.

Why don't "a lot" of Korean women like muscular guys?
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
jiberish



Joined: 17 Jul 2006
Location: The Carribean Bay Wrestler

PostPosted: Mon Nov 30, 2009 7:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think that is just your co-teachers preference. They like thin with muscles kind of guys. Alot of women love rain/b. There are few older guys who are a bit more muscular than rain and they are advertising gold to women. I don't know their names though. Big muscular guys they don't like, especially bodybuilders. My wife says they look like BBQ chicken with their tans heh.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message MSN Messenger
Ya-ta Boy



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Established in 1994

PostPosted: Mon Nov 30, 2009 7:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

This came up in my class last spring. A number of the guys who had clearly spent time at the gym were sort of disgusted that the new 'fad' in town was the more metrosexual type. The women students just smiled--and one said she'd take either.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Tundra_Creature



Joined: 11 Jun 2009
Location: Canada

PostPosted: Mon Nov 30, 2009 7:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

One of my Korean roomates likes muscular guys. Shes says the guys from 2PM are very much 'her type'. Whilst we both don't care much for their music (and that damn eyeliner), I have to agree after seeing them on some commercial. Wow. They have bodies alright. Well, they do on T.V anyway.


Extreme bodybuilders are too much though. No muscles should be that big.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
fermentation



Joined: 22 Jun 2009

PostPosted: Mon Nov 30, 2009 8:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Muscular manly looking guys tend to represent strong genes for survival while feminine guys tend to be more of the nuturing type, at least from women's perspective. In our modern world where our lives are not constantly in danger from predators or natural elements, women are finding more effeminate men attractive. Especially in a society like Korea where men overwhelmingly dominate society, women are sick of established notions of masculinity. A woman wants a guy who looks like he's gonna take care of the kids, do the dishes and go shopping with her once in while.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
hellofaniceguy



Joined: 10 Jan 2003
Location: On your computer screen!

PostPosted: Mon Nov 30, 2009 9:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think its 50/50...you do a worldwide poll and half like muscular/muscles/body builder types and the other half don't...
I tell you what though...you think its easy becoming muscular! Try it! I've been weight lifting for years and years....it is very difficult to get those muscles and even more difficult to maintain them! Whether it's a male or female....the dedication to exercising daily to achieve those muscles or that body build, is amazing.
Look at this guys arms!
http://www.media-post.net/worlds_largest_arms.php
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
ldh2222



Joined: 12 Oct 2007

PostPosted: Mon Nov 30, 2009 9:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

This isn't the Wild Wild West ;]
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
what the thunder said



Joined: 23 Nov 2009

PostPosted: Mon Nov 30, 2009 9:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

fermentation wrote:
Muscular manly looking guys tend to represent strong genes for survival while feminine guys tend to be more of the nuturing type, at least from women's perspective. In our modern world where our lives are not constantly in danger from predators or natural elements, women are finding more effeminate men attractive. Especially in a society like Korea where men overwhelmingly dominate society, women are sick of established notions of masculinity. A woman wants a guy who looks like he's gonna take care of the kids, do the dishes and go shopping with her once in while.


Interesting--I'd never thought of it that way.

Anyway, I'm a Western female and I'm not into really stocky, muscular guys, either. I don't like my guys to be twigs but the bodybuilding look is a little...gross to me.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
redaxe



Joined: 01 Dec 2008

PostPosted: Mon Nov 30, 2009 9:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

fermentation wrote:
Muscular manly looking guys tend to represent strong genes for survival while feminine guys tend to be more of the nuturing type, at least from women's perspective. In our modern world where our lives are not constantly in danger from predators or natural elements, women are finding more effeminate men attractive. Especially in a society like Korea where men overwhelmingly dominate society, women are sick of established notions of masculinity. A woman wants a guy who looks like he's gonna take care of the kids, do the dishes and go shopping with her once in while.


...and not have to go out and plow the fields or turn wrenches. Muscles, along with suntanned skin and coarse hands, are a sign of physical labor, which means low-class and low-income. And vice versa--being thin, pale, and waify is a sign of high class and wealth in Asia.

Also, they force the kids to spend so much time studying here and have so few offerings for after-school sports, that only the kids who do poorly in school are allowed to focus on athletics. So the "dumb jock" stereotype is even truer here. And in Korea, being a sports star is not exactly a ticket to fabulous wealth.

Meanwhile, in the West, we have less class consciousness and such a small percentage of our populations now actually do physical labor for a living, that exercise has become a luxury and a good physique has become a sign of wealth rather than a sign of poverty.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
fermentation



Joined: 22 Jun 2009

PostPosted: Mon Nov 30, 2009 9:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

what the thunder said wrote:

Interesting--I'd never thought of it that way.

Anyway, I'm a Western female and I'm not into really stocky, muscular guys, either. I don't like my guys to be twigs but the bodybuilding look is a little...gross to me.


Personally I think the body building look should be disgusting to anybody. Being fit because you use steroids is not being healthy at all.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Gibberish



Joined: 29 Aug 2009

PostPosted: Mon Nov 30, 2009 9:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If Rain is muscular in Ninja Assassin, then I'm the Incredible Hulk.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
red_devil



Joined: 30 Jun 2008
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Mon Nov 30, 2009 10:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Korean girls are attracted more to fame and popularity than looks. They tell me that MC Mong is hot, and Tablo is attractive. WTF. Not. I mean look how many women fall over JYP and the guy looks like he should be in the Neanderthal exhibit at the Smithsonian. Also tastes vary depending on the age. Teenyboppers and students in general like the boy groups, 2PM, TVXQ, MBLAQ, etc. Older women in the mid to late 20's and early 30's like more ballad singers or older guy groups like FTTS, GOD or SG. All of which are disbanded now...the only reason women like Bi is because he's the biggest Korean super star, and can dance (copied from Usher and MJ though).

Fame, richness, and popularity means you can be the most attractive guy to a girl. Is it the evolutionary stuff with good provider genes, etc? Or do most women have this perpetual fantasy of just lazying around watching drama and watching the kids. Who knows.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message Visit poster's website
redaxe



Joined: 01 Dec 2008

PostPosted: Mon Nov 30, 2009 10:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Gibberish wrote:
If Rain is muscular in Ninja Assassin, then I'm the Incredible Hulk.


Yeah, let's see you do handstand pushups on a bed of nails, tough guy! Laughing
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
what the thunder said



Joined: 23 Nov 2009

PostPosted: Mon Nov 30, 2009 11:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Gibberish wrote:
If Rain is muscular in Ninja Assassin, then I'm the Incredible Hulk.


So if he's not "muscular" in the Ninja movie, you'd say he is...what? Flabby? Almost muscular? Toned?

I haven't seen the movie, but I've seen this picture: http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:VIKAiwYV3-IM_M:http://popseoul.files.wordpress.com/2008/10/rain-chocolate-20081012112.jpg and a few others. Since I don't see most guys (in the US or Korea) walking around the streets built like that, I'd probably put him in the "muscular/gym-addict" category.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Captain Corea



Joined: 28 Feb 2005
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Mon Nov 30, 2009 11:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

hellofaniceguy wrote:
I think its 50/50...you do a worldwide poll and half like muscular/muscles/body builder types and the other half don't...
I tell you what though...you think its easy becoming muscular! Try it! I've been weight lifting for years and years....it is very difficult to get those muscles and even more difficult to maintain them! Whether it's a male or female....the dedication to exercising daily to achieve those muscles or that body build, is amazing.
Look at this guys arms!
http://www.media-post.net/worlds_largest_arms.php


/off topic

those arms have little to do with lifting. It's called Synthol.

/on topic

Every nation has its own twist on what is attractive. Is it really that surprising that Korea is different than the west?
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Display posts from previous:   
Post new topic   Reply to topic    Korean Job Discussion Forums Forum Index -> General Discussion Forum All times are GMT - 8 Hours
Goto page 1, 2, 3, 4, 5  Next
Page 1 of 5

 
Jump to:  
You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot vote in polls in this forum


This page is maintained by the one and only Dave Sperling.
Contact Dave's ESL Cafe
Copyright © 2018 Dave Sperling. All Rights Reserved.

Powered by phpBB © 2001, 2002 phpBB Group

TEFL International Supports Dave's ESL Cafe
TEFL Courses, TESOL Course, English Teaching Jobs - TEFL International