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The Secret to Getting Away from the Students 'Hello's
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Horangi Munshin



Joined: 06 Apr 2003
Location: Busan

PostPosted: Mon Nov 30, 2009 7:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I tell my students to say my name too. AND to my face. If they scream hello at my back of course I'm not going to respond.

I always say hello to every teacher I come across at first. If they can't be bothered to say hello and bow their head slightly I bother trying again. Thankfully there aren't many like that.
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Kikomom



Joined: 24 Jun 2008
Location: them thar hills--Penna, USA--Zippy is my kid, the teacher in ROK. You can call me Kiko

PostPosted: Mon Nov 30, 2009 8:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Give the sharp ones a nice crisp salute. If they don't catch on, then a nod and a wink. Wink
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Horangi Munshin



Joined: 06 Apr 2003
Location: Busan

PostPosted: Mon Nov 30, 2009 8:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Horangi Munshin wrote:
I tell my students to say my name too. AND to my face. If they scream hello at my back of course I'm not going to respond.

I always say hello to every teacher I come across at first. If they can't be bothered to say hello and bow their head slightly I don't bother trying again. Thankfully there aren't many like that.








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Faunaki



Joined: 15 Jun 2007

PostPosted: Mon Nov 30, 2009 9:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I like the hellos. It brings warmth to my heart to know that they can actually say something in English semi-properly. Cool
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cdninkorea



Joined: 27 Jan 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Tue Dec 01, 2009 12:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I can't believe some of you get administrators telling you to say hello to everyone. Absurd.

I don't teach kids, but I still get random hellos from them. I usually respond in Korean (in a friendly way, even if they're being annoying).
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gillod



Joined: 02 Sep 2009

PostPosted: Tue Dec 01, 2009 3:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

What is wrong with you people? If you don't like the job, go home. You sit here and cry all day that "THIS NEWSPAPER HAS AN ARTICLE ABOUT HOW TERRIBLE FOREIGN TEACHERS ARE" and then you make a post about trying to AVOID students? Reap what you sow. Seriously.

These kids are super nervous about their language skills, they lke to show off, they want to be nice and you're trying to invent new ways to ignore them? Gross.
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English Matt



Joined: 12 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Tue Dec 01, 2009 3:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

gillod wrote:
What is wrong with you people? If you don't like the job, go home. You sit here and cry all day that "THIS NEWSPAPER HAS AN ARTICLE ABOUT HOW TERRIBLE FOREIGN TEACHERS ARE" and then you make a post about trying to AVOID students? Reap what you sow. Seriously.

These kids are super nervous about their language skills, they lke to show off, they want to be nice and you're trying to invent new ways to ignore them? Gross.


Dude, try working in a public school with a couple thousand kids that you see every day - I would say that in an average week I am saying hi to that many students. I say hi to most kids most of the time, but like granpa said, at the end of the day or the week sometimes I am just burnt out. If I recognise the kid then I'll say hi, but if someone I don't teach and don't know is yelling hi to my back, or giggling with their buddies and yelling haaaaaaaa-eeeeeeeeeee, as opposed to hi or hello, well I'd prefer not to notice it and will ignore it if at all possible.

Sometimes you just want to be left alone, only human nature.....considering our situations, you sometimes have to invent ways to get that alone time.
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jmuns



Joined: 09 Sep 2009
Location: earth

PostPosted: Tue Dec 01, 2009 4:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

gillod wrote:
What is wrong with you people? If you don't like the job, go home. You sit here and cry all day that "THIS NEWSPAPER HAS AN ARTICLE ABOUT HOW TERRIBLE FOREIGN TEACHERS ARE" and then you make a post about trying to AVOID students? Reap what you sow. Seriously.

These kids are super nervous about their language skills, they lke to show off, they want to be nice and you're trying to invent new ways to ignore them? Gross.


agreed
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The_Masked_Pro



Joined: 28 Nov 2009

PostPosted: Tue Dec 01, 2009 4:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I charge 50 grand per hello. Razz
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sulperman



Joined: 14 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Tue Dec 01, 2009 5:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Gillod-

I hate it when people complain about kids saying hello on the street- I still like that, and really, its no big deal. But in the public school, its a whole different ballgame. On some days I try not to go to the bathroom during break times because its too much to leave the office.

Anybody ever count how many hellos you give out on any given PS day? I wonder.......

That said, I do it 100% of the time, and I am happy they make the effort. But it is a bit much at times.

And Gillod- I am on the exact same page as you- just leave eslcafe and come back in a year or two when you can ignore that hatery and only see the messages of interest to you. One hint, NEVER look at the general discussion forum. NEVER.
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gillod



Joined: 02 Sep 2009

PostPosted: Tue Dec 01, 2009 6:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

sulperman wrote:
Gillod-

I hate it when people complain about kids saying hello on the street- I still like that, and really, its no big deal. But in the public school, its a whole different ballgame. On some days I try not to go to the bathroom during break times because its too much to leave the office.

Anybody ever count how many hellos you give out on any given PS day? I wonder.......

That said, I do it 100% of the time, and I am happy they make the effort. But it is a bit much at times.

And Gillod- I am on the exact same page as you- just leave eslcafe and come back in a year or two when you can ignore that hatery and only see the messages of interest to you. One hint, NEVER look at the general discussion forum. NEVER.


Haha. You have to take Dave's with a grain of salt. Or a salt mine. Whatver.

Like, yeah, sometimes the kids drive me CRAZY. I had these kids cleaning my room for me everyday. Then one day I was out at lunch and they took the time to install Naver Music Player. Now everyday they just wanna come and listen to music and not clean. Usually I have to spend my lunch kicking them out or forcing them to clean. I understand what you mean, kids can be a huge handful.

But trying to dodge a 'Hello'? That's low. I can understand if you don't wanna get roped into their craziness (I have an afterschool with 10 first graders and no KT. Guess how that goes.), but a Hello never killed anyone. My Elem School is pretty big (40 kids to a class, 8 classes of K-6. 320*6=1960? kids) and most of the kids are sort of used to seeing me and saying Hello. I find it usually drags me out of my funk when I have to stop being GRUMPY GROWN UP MAN and start being the NICE HELLO GUY.

I have one little girl who shakes like a leaf when she comes to talk to me. Other teachers tell me that she finds them afterschool so she can figure out new things to talk to me about. You'd shut that down? Nah, yo.

Anyway, diffrn't strokes, I guess, but it just seems like. Some Larry David hijinks to try and escape a bunch of friendly kids.
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andrewchon



Joined: 16 Nov 2008
Location: Back in Oz. Living in ISIS Aust.

PostPosted: Tue Dec 01, 2009 1:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I remember the young officers in the Army. Young 2nd Lt get the worst of saluting madness in the HQ. Ordinary ranks don't mind saluting every officer that come their way because it's their job. Young officers on the other hand aren't used to being saluted, so sooner or later they develop 'salute fatigue'.

First trick they try is not wearing a hat. They get fines for not wearing a hat.
Next they feign looking somewhere else, they get cautions for that.

Eventually they learn to stay in office and if they have to go somewhere they use routes that soldiers don't go or drive there because drivers don't salute.

Unfortunately, teachers aren't excused from "Helloooo" even while they are driving.
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nomad-ish



Joined: 08 Oct 2007
Location: On the bottom of the food chain

PostPosted: Tue Dec 01, 2009 9:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

sulperman wrote:


I hate it when people complain about kids saying hello on the street- I still like that, and really, its no big deal.


i hate it when random kids on the street say hello to me, and i take that opportunity to teach them a very important lesson: don't talk to strangers. besides, judging on the general quality of foreign teachers in korea, i'm doing them a huge favour Wink

however i will never ignore my students, and if a random student seems genuinely polite, i'll usually respond.
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what the thunder said



Joined: 23 Nov 2009

PostPosted: Tue Dec 01, 2009 9:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't purposely ignore my kids when they do the "hello!' thing, especially if I'm at my school. When I'm off duty, I try to avoid seeing them but once the eye contact has been made, I just say my little "hi!" with a smile and that's that. They rarely want to stop and have a real hearty chat, so I don't get what the big deal is. Sometimes, it is extremely annoying, but I always think how rude I would think my teacher was if he or she just purposely blew me off while walking to class or on the streets.
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jpotter78



Joined: 29 Oct 2009
Location: Seoul, South Korea

PostPosted: Tue Dec 01, 2009 11:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

jmuns wrote:
gillod wrote:
What is wrong with you people? If you don't like the job, go home. You sit here and cry all day that "THIS NEWSPAPER HAS AN ARTICLE ABOUT HOW TERRIBLE FOREIGN TEACHERS ARE" and then you make a post about trying to AVOID students? Reap what you sow. Seriously.

These kids are super nervous about their language skills, they lke to show off, they want to be nice and you're trying to invent new ways to ignore them? Gross.


agreed


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