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bricolage
Joined: 03 Sep 2009
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Posted: Thu Dec 31, 2009 1:21 pm Post subject: depression in Korea |
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After reading the other thread concerning drug-testing, I got to thinking...do drug tests screen for legally-prescribed drugs as well? I started taking Paxil (an antidepressant) a couple of weeks ago for depression, so I'd like to know whether this will hurt my chances of employment. That is, I'm not worried that antidepressants may be illegal in Korea; my concern is rather that knowledge of my consuming them may either impede my prospects for a job, or jeopardize my standing in the eyes of my boss.
My depression is something I have a decent grip on, and I have never had an issue with it in the workplace. I just don't mention it. I once asked a Korean friend if Korea is, by large, intolerant/ignorant of psychiatric treatment (something I had heard), and she just got very quiet and shrugged (she's a social worker--supportive of those with psychiatric conditions). Perhaps I offended her by directly asking whether her homeland was well...backwards, in a sense. Or perhaps it is just a taboo subject.
If someone here could enlighten me on both the drug test criteria and the stigma associated with depression in Korea, I'd be much obliged. Thanks! |
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vermaak.maryke
Joined: 15 Nov 2009 Location: Gyeonggi-do province
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Posted: Thu Dec 31, 2009 3:38 pm Post subject: |
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Sorry, the Koreans believe that people that suffer from depression are 'mad'. It is therefore best that you don't tell this, not even your best friend in Korea. Don't even mention that in your medical form (EPIK or GEPIK). If you have complete control over your depression, then it shouldn't be a problem in Korea. Life here does get a bit depressing, so if you suffered from depression in the past, it will be best that you keep some of your anti-depressants with you. I've never suffered from depression where I had to take prescription anti-depressants but I do have a supply of those herbal kind of tranquilants and calming pills and I use it when I feel 'down'.
About the drug testing, the co-teacher will usually take you the first day. If not, they usually tell you when you will go (they usually say because you should not eat or drink anything for a few hours before the drug test). They do a blood test (AIDS) and a urine test (drugs). I took sleeping pills the night before my drug test because after arrival I had jet lag and could not sleep. If you want to be careful, stop using anti-depressants a few days before arrival.
Here, there is a stigma attached to being depressed and it is considered 'wrong'. Koreans will also avoid communicating or associating themselves with people that are 'not mentally normal' (Korean view). As a teacher you will see that with the learners. Handicapped learners are placed here in the mainstream, and they usually do not have any friends. Normal learners will tease them on a regular basis and no empathy are shown to these learners.
I am South African and the stigma also exists that all people from Africa have AIDS. The day I had to collect my test results, the co-teacher, vice-principal and recruiter accompanied me to the hospital - to double check that I do not have AIDS (and possibly put me on the first flight back home should I have AIDS). They were quite surprised when it was written on the test form that I was HIV negative. They even took me for lunch to celebrate this.
Should you feel the need to get psychological help or anti-depressant prescription medicine here, you can get, however, you will possibly have to travel to Seoul (Itaewon) to get this. I doubt that you will find this in smaller villages. My friend whose husband died while in Korea, was also placed on anti-depressants, and she had to get that in Seoul. Best is you bring a supply.
I hope this helped. |
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storysinger81

Joined: 25 Mar 2007 Location: Daegu
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Posted: Thu Dec 31, 2009 5:12 pm Post subject: |
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In my experience, Koreans do not distinguish between the medical condition of being "depressed" and feeling "a little blue." Since they don't see a difference, they are usually confused about people who take medicine for a condition they see as a temporary bad mood. (I had a LONG argument with a teacher over the translation of such words into Korean and insisted that she explain how they mean DIFFERENT things in English).
I've been shocked when students have told me that the appropriate response to a suicidal person is to tell them to "cheer up" and then ignore them until they are over it (or dead, as seems more likely the case).
Mental illness is seen as a personal weakness by most Koreans and if you openly admit to it, you will bring deep shame to your family and yourself. Very few people are willing to see a therapist to get help, and those that do won't tell anyone about it. Your friend's response sounds stereotypically Korean because they just will not talk about it most of the time.
That said, no it won't show up on your drug test. They test for narcotics. Don't eat poppy seeds... hehehe. |
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bliss
Joined: 24 Sep 2007 Location: Gyeonggi
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Posted: Thu Dec 31, 2009 5:22 pm Post subject: |
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Hello.
I've been taking Paxil continuously for nearly 10 years and have taught in Korea for the last 2 years. Evidently, it doesn't appear in the blood/urine tests they do for medical clearance here, otherwise I'd have been sent home LOL!
As others say, DON'T mention it to others in Korea. You don't need to.
You can live your life happily and peacefully and productively in Korea (as I do) and you don't need to jeopardize your job stability by mentioning your depression/paxil.
I realize that I will have to take paxil for the rest of my life (it's not worth the stress and pain coming off). I am not ashamed to say that I am dependent on this medication, but I am really proud of the quality of life I've managed to achieve thanks to paxil. Depression is a past thing from 10 years ago for me. I will never let myself go through that again.
Others who take paxil may wish to wean themselves off it - it's up to the individual and their doctor to decide.
If anyone wants to PM me privately, you're welcome to. |
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travelingfool
Joined: 10 Mar 2008 Location: Parents' basement
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Posted: Thu Dec 31, 2009 5:28 pm Post subject: Re: depression in Korea |
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bricolage wrote: |
After reading the other thread concerning drug-testing, I got to thinking...do drug tests screen for legally-prescribed drugs as well? I started taking Paxil (an antidepressant) a couple of weeks ago for depression, so I'd like to know whether this will hurt my chances of employment. That is, I'm not worried that antidepressants may be illegal in Korea; my concern is rather that knowledge of my consuming them may either impede my prospects for a job, or jeopardize my standing in the eyes of my boss.
My depression is something I have a decent grip on, and I have never had an issue with it in the workplace. I just don't mention it. I once asked a Korean friend if Korea is, by large, intolerant/ignorant of psychiatric treatment (something I had heard), and she just got very quiet and shrugged (she's a social worker--supportive of those with psychiatric conditions). Perhaps I offended her by directly asking whether her homeland was well...backwards, in a sense. Or perhaps it is just a taboo subject.
If someone here could enlighten me on both the drug test criteria and the stigma associated with depression in Korea, I'd be much obliged. Thanks! |
When I had my drug test in Korea I was taking Xanax to help with jet lag. I showed them the prescription and everything was fine. Evidently my employer wasn't too concerned about it. I have seen a psychiatrist and GP for my depression in Korea and received excellent care. In fact, I would go as far as saying that the care I received in the ROK far surpassed anything I have experienced in the states. In my adult classes I was quite frank about my depression and some of the students even admitted to struggling with it. There is still a huge stigma but I think it's changing, albeit slowly. I wouldn't follow my lead but rather keep a tight lid on it. Deny everything and tell them you are happy as a clam and that the Paxil is for some off label use.
Also, there are some really good counselors in Seoul if the blues really start getting to you. A cold, dry, bleak Korean winter is not exactly the most uplifting thing in the world. |
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Harpeau
Joined: 01 Feb 2003 Location: Coquitlam, BC
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Posted: Thu Dec 31, 2009 8:46 pm Post subject: |
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vermaak.maryke wrote: |
If you want to be careful, stop using anti-depressants a few days before arrival.
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Should you feel the need to get psychological help or anti-depressant prescription medicine here, you can get, however, you will possibly have to travel to Seoul (Itaewon) to get this. I doubt that you will find this in smaller villages.
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Best is you bring a supply.
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I hope this helped. |
IMHO, This is very unhelpful. You are not a psychiatrist and should consider keeping silent where you are not qualified to speak. (I guess that I'm not either, just a counselor.)
A few things to consider: Suddenly stopping anti-depressants can be very detrimental to one's health. They should be reduced gradually over a long period of time and only under the strict supervision of one's qualified doctor or psychiatrist.
There are psychiatrists in most hospitals around the country. Language could be an obstacle for many of them. Most medications are widely available around Korea. Outside of Seoul is a possibility. Just be careful where you go. If you have an ex-pat friend that can recommend a good one, better yet.
Bringing one's own supply might be a good idea, but one may need to have their prescription with them as they clear customs.
I don't mean to come down on you like this, but having a person suddenly stopping meds for a few days is the most dumbass thing I've seen on this forum in years. You need to be very careful with the advice that you give. It could be lethal.
Just my 20 won worth. |
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Harpeau
Joined: 01 Feb 2003 Location: Coquitlam, BC
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Posted: Thu Dec 31, 2009 9:03 pm Post subject: |
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storysinger81 wrote: |
In my experience, Koreans do not distinguish between the medical condition of being "depressed" and feeling "a little blue." Since they don't see a difference, they are usually confused about people who take medicine for a condition they see as a temporary bad mood. (I had a LONG argument with a teacher over the translation of such words into Korean and insisted that she explain how they mean DIFFERENT things in English).
I've been shocked when students have told me that the appropriate response to a suicidal person is to tell them to "cheer up" and then ignore them until they are over it (or dead, as seems more likely the case).
Mental illness is seen as a personal weakness by most Koreans and if you openly admit to it, you will bring deep shame to your family and yourself. Very few people are willing to see a therapist to get help, and those that do won't tell anyone about it. Your friend's response sounds stereotypically Korean because they just will not talk about it most of the time.
That said, no it won't show up on your drug test. They test for narcotics. Don't eat poppy seeds... hehehe. |
As usual, well said. You took the words right out of my mouth! |
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Goon-Yang
Joined: 28 May 2009 Location: Duh
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Posted: Thu Dec 31, 2009 10:46 pm Post subject: |
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storysinger81 wrote: |
That said, no it won't show up on your drug test. They test for narcotics. Don't eat poppy seeds... hehehe. |
Poppy seeds can and will give a false positive. Mythbusters did it:) |
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ChilgokBlackHole
Joined: 21 Nov 2009
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Posted: Fri Jan 01, 2010 12:58 am Post subject: Re: depression in Korea |
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bricolage wrote: |
If someone here could enlighten me on both the drug test criteria and the stigma associated with depression in Korea, I'd be much obliged. Thanks! |
I don't think that's particularly relevant, given that you don't have depression. If you are a woman, you're taking it to help with your PMS. If you are otherwise equipped, then you have a minor motor disorder. You don't have depression. Not here, anyhow. |
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DosEquisXX
Joined: 04 Nov 2009
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Posted: Fri Jan 01, 2010 2:17 am Post subject: |
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They'll find out one way or another. This is Korea and nobody has any feeling of privacy. That said, being upfront with your depression would jeopardize your career teaching in this country.
I told EPIK about my seizure condition before I came to the country. They accepted me and put me into the system no problem as I was controlled by medication. |
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ChilgokBlackHole
Joined: 21 Nov 2009
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Posted: Fri Jan 01, 2010 2:24 am Post subject: |
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superuberbob wrote: |
I told EPIK about my seizure condition before I came to the country. They accepted me and put me into the system no problem as I was controlled by medication. |
Yeah, and I take a full complement of Xanax every day for involuntary muscle contractions. |
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DosEquisXX
Joined: 04 Nov 2009
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Posted: Fri Jan 01, 2010 2:38 am Post subject: |
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ChilgokBlackHole wrote: |
superuberbob wrote: |
I told EPIK about my seizure condition before I came to the country. They accepted me and put me into the system no problem as I was controlled by medication. |
Yeah, and I take a full complement of Xanax every day for involuntary muscle contractions. |
At the same time, I do fear that my condition could prevent me from coming back into the country to teach. I passed out once in school and had to miss a class. I had a severe ear infection which hospitalized me for several days. If my school gives me a bad rap because of that, working there could be my only job in the country regardless of my performance or qualifications. |
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Dazed and Confused
Joined: 10 Jan 2003
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Posted: Fri Jan 01, 2010 6:54 am Post subject: |
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I've suffered from minor episodes of depression and anxiety over the years. I take medication which takes care of the problem rather quickly, so I guess I'm lucky that I don't require daily meds. I've found that telling Koreans I've got a "medical problem with my brain" is far better handled than "I"m depressed", "I"m having an anxiety attack", etc.. They seem to understand a physical condition far better than a mental one. |
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bricolage
Joined: 03 Sep 2009
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Posted: Fri Jan 01, 2010 1:50 pm Post subject: |
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Thanks, everybody, for your thoughtful responses. I definitely feel like I know what to expect now, which is great.
I am planning on living in Seoul, as a large city provides more anonymity, more resources, and a higher likelihood of my meeting people with whom I'd get along. In the unlikely event that I have any noticeable problems, they can be chalked up to PMS and minor sleeping problems. The antidepressants shouldn't be an issue, but I will probably try to covertly look for a decent doctor who specializes in this kind of situation (there has to be one out there). Otherwise I will adhere strictly to the first rule of depression (don't talk about it). Anyhow, I am planning on having an amazing time over there, but it's nice to know my options and limits. |
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beercanman
Joined: 16 May 2009
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Posted: Fri Jan 01, 2010 7:02 pm Post subject: |
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superuberbob wrote: |
They'll find out one way or another. |
Wrong. It's easy to keep to oneself. |
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