|
Korean Job Discussion Forums "The Internet's Meeting Place for ESL/EFL Teachers from Around the World!"
|
| View previous topic :: View next topic |
| Author |
Message |
banjois

Joined: 14 Nov 2009
|
Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 9:57 pm Post subject: |
|
|
Man, between you, my friend today, and Olivencia, my viewpoint's starting to waver...
My hang-up is some kind of aesthetic appreciation of religious thought. There's a great quote from Brideshead Revisited about it:
| Quote: |
"But, my dear Sebastian, you can't seriously believe it all."
"Can't I?"
"I mean about Christmas and the star and the three kings and the ox and the ass."
"Oh yes, I believe that. It's a lovely idea."
"But you can't believe things because they're a lovely idea."
"But I do. That's how I believe." |
I guess I see religion as standing in the way of practical truth, but I still find it an interesting path towards "lovely ideas."
Which, I guess, as an athiestic leaning agnostic, I play around with in my head as lovely ideas, rather than use them to inform my world view, so much. I will say that I think that religion inspires most truly transcendant art. But I suppose that's why I'd get kicked out of the Republic, and probably rightly so. Not so practical sometimes, this guy. |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
Fox

Joined: 04 Mar 2009
|
Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 10:14 pm Post subject: |
|
|
I can emphathize with you, because I have feelings about Judaism that sound very similar to your feelings about Christianity. But, we as a people can have all the beauty of religion without believing in it. I find lots of beauty and interest in various mythologies from around the world, even though I don't believe in any of them. Religion shouldn't be erased from our history, and we can still read about it, enjoy it, and like any other fictional work, use it to convey ideas. It's only when people start taking it as the truth that trouble begins.
We can think lovely ideas without genuinely believing them. We can even partake in religion in some sort of Feueurbachian sense, where we admit our "God" is just an imaginary figure upon which we project our aspirations to give us something to strive towards. What we should not do, though, is treat religion as a normative force in the world. "We should do something because (religion X, God Y, or prophet Z) says so," leads to trouble. |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
banjois

Joined: 14 Nov 2009
|
Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 10:29 pm Post subject: |
|
|
It's weird, in conversations with people with no personal experience of religion, I find myself being an apologist for religion a LOT. Then I get into a conversation with somebody religious and start feeling all icky.
I guess I can agree that religion isn't really a force for good in the world, although it certainly has been in the past (I save my conversation for how Christianity advanced women's rights for when I really want to argue with someone, although obviously it hasn't in quite a long time). I'm just wary of a lot of non-religious people's utter dismissal of anything with the least whiff of holiness on it. So much of what I love is lost from that viewpoint: Perotin, most of Bill Monroe's oeuvre, the little bead about an inch across in the Cloisters that has a crucifixion scene with about 50 people carved into it, and so on.
I also get weary of a lot of dogmatic atheists. It seems to me that their thought is predicated on as much blind faith as an Evangelical's. It seems to me that to assert that there is no god is as problematic as insisting that there is one and he wants us to act one way or another... |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
banjois

Joined: 14 Nov 2009
|
Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 10:33 pm Post subject: |
|
|
| This thread is rapidly slipping into anti-TOS land. Too bad. |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
bacasper

Joined: 26 Mar 2007
|
Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 10:36 pm Post subject: Re: Homosexual "marriage" |
|
|
| Olivencia wrote: |
If it's ok for the queers why not:
a. Polygamists?
b. Those who want to marry their sister, brother, father, mother, etc?
c. An animal? |
The early gay liberation movement was very anti-establishment and hence anti-marriage. It was only once it began to gain a modicum of acceptance that they became co-opted and tried to go mainstream and seek things like marriage. They lost their edge, and I miss it. In my opinion, gays should not seek to become part of the status quo, although I fully support their acceptance without discrimination in modern society.
a. Many people will continue to engage in sex with more than one partner, so why the need for polygamous marriage?
b. Incest will continue to occur outside of marriage and has a long history, especially among royalty.
c. Why would anyone need to �marry� an animal? And good luck getting it to say, �I do.� |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
Fox

Joined: 04 Mar 2009
|
Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 11:00 pm Post subject: Re: Homosexual "marriage" |
|
|
| bacasper wrote: |
| Olivencia wrote: |
If it's ok for the queers why not:
a. Polygamists?
b. Those who want to marry their sister, brother, father, mother, etc?
c. An animal? |
The early gay liberation movement was very anti-establishment and hence anti-marriage. It was only once it began to gain a modicum of acceptance that they became co-opted and tried to go mainstream and seek things like marriage. They lost their edge, and I miss it. In my opinion, gays should not seek to become part of the status quo, although I fully support their acceptance without discrimination in modern society.
a. Many people will continue to engage in sex with more than one partner, so why the need for polygamous marriage?
b. Incest will continue to occur outside of marriage and has a long history, especially among royalty.
c. Why would anyone need to �marry� an animal? And good luck getting it to say, �I do.� |
What about things like tax benefits, visitation rights, inheritance, and so forth? The legal benefits of marriage. This seems applicable to both gay marriage and polygamous marriage to me. |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
Sergio Stefanuto
Joined: 14 May 2009 Location: UK
|
Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 11:12 pm Post subject: |
|
|
| banjois wrote: |
| This thread is rapidly slipping into anti-TOS land. Too bad. |
It was anti-TOS right off the bat, given Olivencia's use of an obscene word for homosexuals. The thread has taken on a more intelligent tone, however... |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
runthegauntlet

Joined: 02 Dec 2007 Location: the southlands.
|
Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 11:14 pm Post subject: |
|
|
| banjois wrote: |
I guess I can agree that religion isn't really a force for good in the world, although it certainly has been in the past (I save my conversation for how Christianity advanced women's rights for when I really want to argue with someone, although obviously it hasn't in quite a long time) |
Women's rights?!
Judges Ch. 19 paints a nice story of a 'godly' man's thoughts of women, specifically his daughter.
Genesis 19, another 'godly' man offers TWO of his daughters to rapists.
And doesn't Moses pawn his wife off to a pharoah or king on TWO different occasions.
These 'stories' don't seem to speak very highly of women, eh? Just letting other people have their way with them. Their own wives and daughters none the less!
Yes, a pillar stone of the advancement of women's rights. But we can just ignore those stories..... they're in the old testament.... |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
banjois

Joined: 14 Nov 2009
|
Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 11:30 pm Post subject: |
|
|
True, all of that. I'd argue that there were a lot of progressive (given the time and place) things in the New Testament. Even the Pauline dictum "Husbands love your wives" is pretty removed from the chattel status of wives at the time.
Don't get me wrong, the church has done a lot of things to hold back women's rights too. But I think a lot of liberal modern thought could trace its roots back to Christian doctrine.
And, like I said, this is something I usually bring up just to provoke an interesting conversation. I often present points I don't wholly support. Too much Plato during my undergrad, maybe.  |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
runthegauntlet

Joined: 02 Dec 2007 Location: the southlands.
|
Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 11:33 pm Post subject: |
|
|
| banjois wrote: |
| True, all of that. I'd argue that there were a lot of progressive (given the time and place) things in the New Testament. Even the Pauline dictum "Husbands love your wives" is pretty removed from the chattel status of wives at the time. |
Yeah, love them instead of kill them.  |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
bacasper

Joined: 26 Mar 2007
|
Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 11:53 pm Post subject: Re: Homosexual "marriage" |
|
|
| Fox wrote: |
| bacasper wrote: |
| Olivencia wrote: |
If it's ok for the queers why not:
a. Polygamists?
b. Those who want to marry their sister, brother, father, mother, etc?
c. An animal? |
The early gay liberation movement was very anti-establishment and hence anti-marriage. It was only once it began to gain a modicum of acceptance that they became co-opted and tried to go mainstream and seek things like marriage. They lost their edge, and I miss it. In my opinion, gays should not seek to become part of the status quo, although I fully support their acceptance without discrimination in modern society.
a. Many people will continue to engage in sex with more than one partner, so why the need for polygamous marriage?
b. Incest will continue to occur outside of marriage and has a long history, especially among royalty.
c. Why would anyone need to �marry� an animal? And good luck getting it to say, �I do.� |
What about things like tax benefits, visitation rights, inheritance, and so forth? The legal benefits of marriage. This seems applicable to both gay marriage and polygamous marriage to me. |
People, including gays, should be able to designate one (or more) partner(s) for these things. |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
djsmnc

Joined: 20 Jan 2003 Location: Dave's ESL Cafe
|
Posted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:36 am Post subject: |
|
|
| runthegauntlet wrote: |
| banjois wrote: |
| True, all of that. I'd argue that there were a lot of progressive (given the time and place) things in the New Testament. Even the Pauline dictum "Husbands love your wives" is pretty removed from the chattel status of wives at the time. |
Yeah, love them instead of kill them.  |
And only Torah believing Jews killed women at the time, and only because their law said to do it, right? |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
runthegauntlet

Joined: 02 Dec 2007 Location: the southlands.
|
Posted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:37 am Post subject: |
|
|
| djsmnc wrote: |
| runthegauntlet wrote: |
| banjois wrote: |
| True, all of that. I'd argue that there were a lot of progressive (given the time and place) things in the New Testament. Even the Pauline dictum "Husbands love your wives" is pretty removed from the chattel status of wives at the time. |
Yeah, love them instead of kill them.  |
And only Torah believing Jews killed women at the time, and only because their law said to do it, right? |
It was a Roman thing. Don't be obtuse.
Paul didn't even preach to the Jews. |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
djsmnc

Joined: 20 Jan 2003 Location: Dave's ESL Cafe
|
Posted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:48 am Post subject: |
|
|
| runthegauntlet wrote: |
| djsmnc wrote: |
| runthegauntlet wrote: |
| banjois wrote: |
| True, all of that. I'd argue that there were a lot of progressive (given the time and place) things in the New Testament. Even the Pauline dictum "Husbands love your wives" is pretty removed from the chattel status of wives at the time. |
Yeah, love them instead of kill them.  |
And only Torah believing Jews killed women at the time, and only because their law said to do it, right? |
It was a Roman thing. Don't be obtuse.
Paul didn't even preach to the Jews. |
No, he preached to everyone including Jews. Democratic man he was. |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
runthegauntlet

Joined: 02 Dec 2007 Location: the southlands.
|
Posted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 3:03 am Post subject: |
|
|
| djsmnc wrote: |
| runthegauntlet wrote: |
It was a Roman thing. Don't be obtuse.
Paul didn't even preach to the Jews. |
No, he preached to everyone including Jews. Democratic man he was. |
Hmm, yeah, appears that's about right. Was thinking of the quip about Paul being ordained by 'god' to bring the message to the 'gentiles' but that doesn't stand to reason that he wouldn't go after the Jews as well. |
|
| Back to top |
|
 |
|
|
You cannot post new topics in this forum You cannot reply to topics in this forum You cannot edit your posts in this forum You cannot delete your posts in this forum You cannot vote in polls in this forum
|
|