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Do Koreans treat you differently if you have a beard?
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nautilus



Joined: 26 Nov 2005
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PostPosted: Sat Jan 30, 2010 1:23 am    Post subject: Do Koreans treat you differently if you have a beard? Reply with quote

Usually when I have my beard and moustache, Korean men in particular are fairly polite and pleasant.

Without it, I get a lot of passive aggression of them. I think its because I look younger and they see me as some sort of lower ranking as a result.
The women tend to give me more attention though.

Anyone noticed anything like this?
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Radius



Joined: 20 Dec 2009

PostPosted: Sat Jan 30, 2010 1:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

i dont think alot of koreans can actually grow beards from the looks of it. i have a goatee and the kids like to touch it then giggle hysterically.
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djsmnc



Joined: 20 Jan 2003
Location: Dave's ESL Cafe

PostPosted: Sat Jan 30, 2010 2:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I started growing a goatee recently and hot damn if it hasn't drawn the attention of the local lasses.

I remember years back when I hadn't shaved one day, I told the girl I was with "I didn't have a chance to shave this morning" and she said "It's good, like rough man"

So, I can answer you nautilus, with an "affirmative"
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Agent 13



Joined: 28 Nov 2009
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PostPosted: Sat Jan 30, 2010 3:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You've got to be able to carry it, man. Perception does not equal reality, and Koreans are keen to that. Enough said for now.
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Cerberus



Joined: 29 Oct 2009

PostPosted: Sat Jan 30, 2010 3:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

last year when I was considering growing a goattee. my coteacher said if I did then most of our students would try to imitate me Shocked

maybe I should try it out Idea
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Forward Observer



Joined: 13 Jan 2009
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PostPosted: Sat Jan 30, 2010 6:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

A lot of Kgals really like the "Dr. House" look. I've heard it from at least 5-6 different ones in the past three months.
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kohmelo



Joined: 26 Sep 2009

PostPosted: Sat Jan 30, 2010 12:56 pm    Post subject: Re: Do Koreans treat you differently if you have a beard? Reply with quote

nautilus wrote:
Usually when I have my beard and moustache, Korean men in particular are fairly polite and pleasant.

Without it, I get a lot of passive aggression of them. I think its because I look younger and they see me as some sort of lower ranking as a result.
The women tend to give me more attention though.

Anyone noticed anything like this?



I only thought of this the second time I went to korea, when I first went I had quite a big beard and I had locals just come up and talk to me asking if I needed help in their broken english(ee). I was asked to go for drinks/coffee on quite a few occasions by random men/women.
But when I went back 3 months later I shaved my beard and not one korean spoke to me unless I spoke to them first.
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Ya-ta Boy



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PostPosted: Sat Jan 30, 2010 3:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've had a beard for about half the time I've been in Korea. I have never noticed a difference in how I'm treated.
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flakfizer



Joined: 12 Nov 2004
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PostPosted: Sat Jan 30, 2010 4:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've heard it makes a difference if you're male or female.
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DorkothyParker



Joined: 11 Apr 2009
Location: Jeju

PostPosted: Sat Jan 30, 2010 5:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

My husband has gotten some attention for his beard. I mean, drunk college kids just shouting "beard" outside of Family Mart and the like. And drunk business men sharing tequila in bars.

It probably depends on the type of beard. They may treat someone with a pansy little goatee differently than a real man with a full and glorious beard.
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djsmnc



Joined: 20 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Sat Jan 30, 2010 6:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

DorkothyParker wrote:


It probably depends on the type of beard. They may t