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bassexpander
Joined: 13 Sep 2007
Location: Someplace you'd rather be.
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| ms.catbc wrote: |
| Casual dating is considered a waste of time. |
Only to those above 28 or 30. |
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ms.catbc
Joined: 11 Jan 2008
Location: Ilsan
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| Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2010 9:16 pm Post subject: |
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| bassexpander wrote: |
| ms.catbc wrote: |
| Casual dating is considered a waste of time. |
Only to those above 28 or 30. |
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tall_dave
Joined: 02 Nov 2009
Location: Songtan, S. Korea
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| Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2010 9:19 pm Post subject: |
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| Freeghen wrote: |
I'm engaged to a Korean guy and it sounds to me like he has some other girls he might be seeing too.
I don't really think the particular behavior that you are mentioning is a 'Korean guy' thing, but just a 'he's not that into you' thing.
Just move along and find someone else that is better for you. Like someone above posted - if he's not borderline stalking you then he's not all that interested or just keeping you around in the hopes that he might get lucky later. |
Theres absolutely noting wrong with playing the field. |
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tall_dave
Joined: 02 Nov 2009
Location: Songtan, S. Korea
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| Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2010 9:34 pm Post subject: Re: A question about Korean guys and mixed signals |
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Has anyone else noticed that Korean guys will seem really interested in you one day, then the next day go cold and then come back and seem really interested in you again another day and so on?
Is this a cultural thing? It keeps happening to me where they go hot and cold and then hot again. Ive been trying to figure out what it means/why it happens. Maybe we could get some insight from someone dating/married to a Korean guy. |
He's probably acting that way to test your responsiveness. basically he's baiting you to play the game. If you're attracted, then he is given the green light to move a bit closer. If you brush him off then he'll figure you're not very interested in him. Korean men seem to be rather timid in their game of chase. Typically, he'll follow a Korean girl around for days, to prove his interest. She'll turn him down to test his resolve, but eventually he'sll give in. There's another thread on Dave's that addresses this very subject. You never did say what your interest in the fellow was.. if he's making you uncomfortable, tell him that you are just friends, or open up and give him a shot. |
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You
Joined: 31 May 2009
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| Posted: Tue Feb 02, 2010 8:55 pm Post subject: |
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| Yeah, I'll let you know what happens. |
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Freeghen
Joined: 01 Oct 2009
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| Posted: Wed Feb 03, 2010 2:34 am Post subject: |
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| Freeghen wrote: |
I'm engaged to a Korean guy and it sounds to me like he has some other girls he might be seeing too.
I don't really think the particular behavior that you are mentioning is a 'Korean guy' thing, but just a 'he's not that into you' thing.
Just move along and find someone else that is better for you. Like someone above posted - if he's not borderline stalking you then he's not all that interested or just keeping you around in the hopes that he might get lucky later. |
Theres absolutely noting wrong with playing the field. |
I'm not saying there is. But we were all under the impression at the beginning that she was looking for a relationship with a particular person. |
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