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Dirty Blonde



Joined: 04 Sep 2009

PostPosted: Sun Feb 14, 2010 1:39 am    Post subject: Korean boyfriends? Reply with quote

There is a lot of talk on here about dating Korean girls, but a serious lack of the same on Korean guys. (Puh-leeze don't tell me this is simply because girls don't kiss and tell.)

Any ladies (or similarly-minded boys) out there with stories/advice to share?
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mimis



Joined: 24 May 2009

PostPosted: Sun Feb 14, 2010 6:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Confused

Last edited by mimis on Tue Feb 16, 2010 9:14 am; edited 2 times in total
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crossmr



Joined: 22 Nov 2008
Location: Hwayangdong, Seoul

PostPosted: Sun Feb 14, 2010 6:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

there are also plenty of threads. I've seen 2 or 3 in the last month, month and a half.
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uhnothanks



Joined: 23 Nov 2009

PostPosted: Mon Feb 15, 2010 3:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

These blogs are mostly about english teachers that date Korean men:

http://me-and-other-stories.blogspot.com
http://datinginkorea.tumblr.com/
http://hotyellowfellows.tumblr.com/
http://hookingupinhanguk.tumblr.com/
http://lostmymindinseoul.tumblr.com/
http://itsdaejeondarling.tumblr.com/
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MollyBloom



Joined: 21 Jul 2006
Location: James Joyce's pants

PostPosted: Mon Feb 15, 2010 8:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

uhnothanks wrote:
These blogs are mostly about english teachers that date Korean men:

http://me-and-other-stories.blogspot.com
http://datinginkorea.tumblr.com/
http://hotyellowfellows.tumblr.com/
http://hookingupinhanguk.tumblr.com/
http://lostmymindinseoul.tumblr.com/
http://itsdaejeondarling.tumblr.com/


Wow. I just read a few pages from the sites. That is crazy, but awesome. Especially crazy.
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Dirty Blonde



Joined: 04 Sep 2009

PostPosted: Tue Feb 16, 2010 6:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

uhnothanks: thanks for the links; a quick perusal suggests they will be entertaining and occasionally informative Smile

mimis: sorry to see you deleted your response... it was a good, thoughtful reply. Of course any relationship should be approached openly with honest communication; I guess my concerns are about the small cultural things we do automatically and the import attached to our assumptions.

Anyway, I have a much-anticipated date coming up. Wish me luck!
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Draz



Joined: 27 Jun 2007
Location: Land of Morning Clam

PostPosted: Wed Feb 17, 2010 3:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

mimis wrote:
Confused


Now I'm wondering what this said.

Not too many foreign girls are interested in Korean men, except for the deviants with the blogs that post about suffering through HOURS of broken English with a pretty face for 2 min of bump n grind that they don't even have an orgasm from. At least the foreign men get their orgasm every time they make it that far!
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Dirty Blonde



Joined: 04 Sep 2009

PostPosted: Wed Feb 17, 2010 6:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Replace "broken" with "pretentious" and you've just described all too common dates with foreign guys. Who are more worried about getting themselves off than anything else.
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Xuanzang



Joined: 10 Apr 2007
Location: Sadang

PostPosted: Wed Feb 17, 2010 2:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Draz wrote:
mimis wrote:
Confused


Now I'm wondering what this said.

Not too many foreign girls are interested in Korean men, except for the deviants with the blogs that post about suffering through HOURS of broken English with a pretty face for 2 min of bump n grind that they don't even have an orgasm from. At least the foreign men get their orgasm every time they make it that far!


I've heard some also strike out.
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Panda



Joined: 25 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Wed Feb 17, 2010 5:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Xuanzang wrote:
Draz wrote:
mimis wrote:
Confused


Now I'm wondering what this said.

Not too many foreign girls are interested in Korean men, except for the deviants with the blogs that post about suffering through HOURS of broken English with a pretty face for 2 min of bump n grind that they don't even have an orgasm from. At least the foreign men get their orgasm every time they make it that far!


I've heard some also strike out.



Only "you have heard"?

Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing


Draz baby. don't be so mean. Wink
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Profesora



Joined: 02 Aug 2009
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Wed Feb 17, 2010 8:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have had fantastic experiences dating Korean guys...all kinds...from college hunks to silver foxes. I like the K-guys and they LOVE me!

They all have been varied with their skills, but lack of the Big-O has NEVER been an issue. They might not be as endowed as other ethnicities (some but not all Wink ) but they MOST DEFINITELY make up for it with other skills. Needless to say, I have been greatly satisfied, plus some of them have incredible bodies: 6-pack abs, firm rear ends, strong legs and arms.

Also, as far as boyfriends go...they are good boyfriends. Granted, I've met the occasional K-guy that is only curious about "foreigner" or "Western" women, but most I have met speak good English and have lived abroad and genuinely want to have a relationship. I have had a few long term relationships (over 6 months) with K-guys and they were great boyfriends.

If you are here and are attracted to Korean men, then go for it. Just go into it with an open mind and you will be pleasantly surprised. As a result, I go on a few dates a week and my dance card remains full. Enjoy your time and life here to the fullest! Cool
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hockeyguy109



Joined: 22 Dec 2008
Location: Daegu

PostPosted: Wed Feb 17, 2010 8:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

uhnothanks wrote:
These blogs are mostly about english teachers that date Korean men:


http://hotyellowfellows.tumblr.com/


Why do I get the feeling that this blog is actually by a gay man?
Either that or a very interesting woman. I've never met a girl who would put so much dedication into a blog about hot men (of any race) with quick comments such as "OMG" and "You know what I love? Korean men."

Let me rephrase that, I've never met an adult woman who would do this. If she is real and reading this, let me buy you a beer! Smile
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Draz



Joined: 27 Jun 2007
Location: Land of Morning Clam

PostPosted: Fri Feb 19, 2010 4:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dirty Blonde wrote:
Replace "broken" with "pretentious" and you've just described all too common dates with foreign guys. Who are more worried about getting themselves off than anything else.


You forgot to also replace "pretty face" with "busted mug".

Panda wrote:


Draz baby. don't be so mean. Wink


I just can't help myself!!!

The sea of bitterness is actually a pretty nice place once you stop wading and start swimming.
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AmericanExile



Joined: 04 May 2009

PostPosted: Fri Feb 19, 2010 5:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

There is a word for women who are attracted to Korean men: Lesbian.
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Profesora



Joined: 02 Aug 2009
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Fri Feb 19, 2010 7:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wow...AmericanExile is mean-spirited and jealous, do the people here in Korea find you as replusive as well? Laughing
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