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sigmundsmith



Joined: 22 Nov 2007

PostPosted: Mon Feb 15, 2010 2:29 am    Post subject: Learning the Language Reply with quote

This is not a thread about where or how best to learn Korean.

But it is an observation that I have noticed that expats (whether short or long term) have acquired a level of competency of a language moreso in many other Asian countries than in Korea.

Now it can be said that some Asian languages are easier to learn than others, I would agree. But even after traveling in Japan and China I have met expats who have been living in those respective countries for less time that I have lived in Korea who can communicate at a level that can cover many topics and a level that encompasses a vast array of vocabulary.

Asking may questions of these expats about learning those languages and discussions about the cultures they live in it seems that their desire to learn the language comes down to the fact that the society accommodates and accepts them to some degree and thus gives them encouragement to learn their language.

In my own experience I have taken a korean language course and whenever I tried to use it outside the classroom the reception wasnt warm. Considering I do speak another asian language quite well, communication was very open a discussion was quite free.

Of course this is a generalization. I like many here have experienced people who are surprised that I (non-korean) can speak Korean. They find it intriguing and sometimes amusing.

And that is the juxtaposition. They find it comical. I know that is the Korean way to laugh at something they find uncomfortable but it is off-putting and not encouraging for a person like me to try and interact. I still persevere but I can't see myself developing a high level of Korean language competency when responses are such as those are common.
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crossmr



Joined: 22 Nov 2008
Location: Hwayangdong, Seoul

PostPosted: Mon Feb 15, 2010 2:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

it depends on many many things:

1) Difficulty of language
Korean and Japanese are on similar levels, but in my opinion chinese and japanese are made more difficult by their writing systems

2) necessity
What do you do in those countries and are you likely to encounter english speakers in what you usually do, or do you have a native speaking friend you often hang out with

3) location
which can play into necessity, but those out in the country will probably be better at Korean than those living in the heart of gangnam on average

4) personal reasons
can range from length of stay, to motivation, to relationships, etc

I would hope by the end of the first year most people could walk into a restaurant here and say "blah blah 주세요"
one difference I think you'd find in Korea over Japan and China is that I think with very little effort most expats could learn to read everything even if they don't necessarily understand it.

between my short trips to Japan I've found English to be more used and accessible in Korea (I haven't gone to Tokyo yet, but Fukuoka and Osaka, both big places with big expat communities/tourist destinations) which probably also plays into it.

I don't think it is overly difficult to learn "tourist" korean and get a few basic phrases down. Becoming conversational is completely different.
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DorkothyParker



Joined: 11 Apr 2009
Location: Jeju

PostPosted: Mon Feb 15, 2010 4:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think for me, even with all my good intentions, it's just so easy to NOT learn the language. The subway has English everywhere as do many shops. While I've had a few awkward moments, the people here have been very accommodating regarding my ignorance. I try not to be lazy, but many Koreans I interact with speak enough English to communicate simple phrases and many of them are very kind and eager to practice their English. Path of least resistance makes me a bum, pretty much.
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misher



Joined: 14 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Mon Feb 15, 2010 5:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The reason why a lot of Koreans laugh is also because of your pronunciation.
When I start learning a language I usually try to hit the accent first because locals will be more apt to speaking with me when they can understand 100% of what I'm trying to say. The only problem with this appraoch is that sometimes the locals will think your level is insanely advanced when it isn't.

Anyway, Japanese pronunciation is way easier than Korean. Korean just has way too many sounds that are hard to hit correctly. When a Korean hears a thick western accent speaking Korean it is funny to them. How many people on here laugh or make jokes abut a Korean when they say "not posseebure" and "lunchee." I know I have. Having people laugh at my pronunciation jsut makes me a lot more hungry to kill this language. And I will. It will take time but I'm determined to learn it well (for many reasons) and shove it someone's face when they assume I can't speak very well because of the way I look. Blah.
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jiberish



Joined: 17 Jul 2006
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 15, 2010 6:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Korean isn't necessary to live in Korea. There are so many people speaking english and things written twice, once in english that most people can't be bothered. Where as in Japan I found much less people were able to make a sentence in English.
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redaxe



Joined: 01 Dec 2008

PostPosted: Mon Feb 15, 2010 6:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yes, Korean culture is a reason why few foreigners learn Korean well, it is not terribly encouraging. But this varies from person to person, I know some Koreans that will have a conversation 100% in Korean with me, and I know some who will just laugh in my face and repeat what I said back at me like a parrot.

It's also the hardest dang language on the planet, though. I studied Mandarin Chinese and I find Korean about three or four times harder, I kid you not.
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fustiancorduroy



Joined: 12 Jan 2007

PostPosted: Mon Feb 15, 2010 7:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

DorkothyParker wrote:
I think for me, even with all my good intentions, it's just so easy to NOT learn the language. The subway has English everywhere as do many shops. While I've had a few awkward moments, the people here have been very accommodating regarding my ignorance. I try not to be lazy, but many Koreans I interact with speak enough English to communicate simple phrases and many of them are very kind and eager to practice their English. Path of least resistance makes me a bum, pretty much.


I don't doubt your experiences, but do most Koreans really speak English that well? I can't think of too many daily situations where my Korean knowledge isn't an asset that helps facilitate communication. I guess a lot of younger Koreans speak a bit of English, but they generally can't talk at more than a very basic level.

This makes me wonder how people live here for many years and don't really speak much Korean. How do these people get things general tasks done in their daily lives? How do they talk to their building manager? How do they read their monthly bills and how do they correct problems, such as being billed twice for the same month, with them? How do they read bus maps? How do they ask questions or make complaints when they are shopping? How do they make small talk with their neighbors and local shopkeepers? In short, how do they live in Korea? Do these people live in and only hang out in Itaewon? Do they have Korean-speaking friends do all their business for them? Do they just stay at home and post on Dave's?

I especially wonder about this since my recent trip to Hong Kong. While quite a few people there speak English, especially in the business/tourist districts, a lot of people don't speak or understand it very well. Because of that, I had more than a few communication difficulties, such as asking where the bathroom was and what food came with my meal. I also tried to ask a clerk at a convenience store how to say "receipt" in Cantonese. She just responded, "Yes, receipt." Seeing how difficult communication was in Hong Kong, one of the most English-speaking cities in Asia, I really can't see how you can live in Korea for any extended period of time and not learn the language at least somewhat well. Confused
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misher



Joined: 14 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Mon Feb 15, 2010 8:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I studied Mandarin Chinese and I find Korean about three or four times harder, I kid you not.


I'm with Redaxe on this one. Korean isn't a "Class V" language for english speakers for no reason.

The only thing harder about chinese is the rote memorization and usage of characters. Everything else about Korean is 10x harder for me.

Redaxe, think of it this way, if you get a good grasp of Korean most of the other languages in the world can't be any more difficult right? I mean, learning a European language now sounds like cake.

That being said I can see why few foreigners pick up more than the necessary survival Korean while they stay here. Most of them are gone after a year or two anyways. The guys who speak squat after living here for 10+ years I kinda wonder about however.
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misher



Joined: 14 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Mon Feb 15, 2010 8:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Since we are on the topic of learning Korean this evening, does anyone know of a show on channel 23 with 3 adjossis talking about women? I've seen it twice and it seems to have the same old thing going on. The 3 adjossis ask questions to a young woman (celebrity, model etc) and try to act sincere when they are oggling her. THe last show I saw was about a girl talking about guys just look at her breasts all day (she had breast implants) and it annoys her. SHe was wearing quite skimpy clothing.

Anyway what I want to say is that the show had a foreign guy on it last week. He looked young, pretty good looking and could speak Korean DAMN WELL. WAY better than any of the misuda girls I've heard. They were talking about dating in the ROK and the foreign guy was giving his 0.02. He was portrayed in a positive light for the most part. Anyway who is this guy? I was just in awe of his Korean skills. He is not mixed or Kyopo so he had to of learned it without the help of family.
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crossmr



Joined: 22 Nov 2008
Location: Hwayangdong, Seoul

PostPosted: Mon Feb 15, 2010 8:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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This makes me wonder how people live here for many years and don't really speak much Korean. How do these people get things general tasks done in their daily lives? How do they talk to their building manager? How do they read their monthly bills and how do they correct problems, such as being billed twice for the same month, with them? How do they read bus maps? How do they ask questions or make complaints when they are shopping? How do they make small talk with their neighbors and local shopkeepers? In short, how do they live in Korea? Do these people live in and only hang out in Itaewon? Do they have Korean-speaking friends do all their business for them? Do they just stay at home and post on Dave's?

How do you think tourists do a lot of that stuff?
There is very little you actually need to know to get by in day to day life.

Bills? Most people have a co-teacher. You don't need them explained each month. Someone only needs to tell you once: pay the amount on this line
Problems with a bill aren't usually monthly things here, so those can be handled on a case by case basis

bus maps on signs are useless. There are english route maps online. It frankly doesn't really help you to know the name of the bus stop if you don't know where that stop is and informative names like "prima hotel" don't really help even if you could read it. You want to go out and use the bus use the site to plan your route.

as for complaints, don't make them.. if its serious get a friend.
Small talk isn't a necessity, its nice, but not a necessity.

With a lot of people having co-teachers or helpful korean friends (contrary to popular belief there are actually plenty out there) the "necessity" of learning Korean isn't that great for day to day living, and unless you're having disastrous issues everyday the necessity of learning it for those things isn't that great either.

There is plenty of access to English TV, other foreigners, english menus, english signs, etc If this was 15 years ago, it would make a huge difference in people learning Korean. It would be pre-big internet wave, no media for download, less teachers, less english, etc and people would have a much greater requirement to learn Korean.

Shopping requires no skills beyond "where is.." which is a single sentence, and maybe "How much..." but most places have prices on signs unless you're hitting random street stalls.

eating in a restaurant requires nothing but knowing what you like and knowing how to recognize it and say the name + 주세요 . The requirement for "living" is low depending on how you want to live.

Which is why most people don't learn much.
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Troglodyte



Joined: 06 Dec 2009

PostPosted: Mon Feb 15, 2010 10:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I worked at a school where the director discouraged me from learning Korean because she was afraid that I'd later use it in the classroom while teaching English.
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morrisonhotel



Joined: 18 Jul 2009
Location: Gyeonggi-do

PostPosted: Mon Feb 15, 2010 3:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

crossmr wrote:
The requirement for "living" is low depending on how you want to live.


Surely where you live is also a major factor in that?
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crossmr



Joined: 22 Nov 2008
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 15, 2010 4:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

morrisonhotel wrote:
crossmr wrote:
The requirement for "living" is low depending on how you want to live.


Surely where you live is also a major factor in that?



Sure. I guess if you happen to move into a building where the manager speaks english, or near a market with immigrant staff who might speak english, etc yes it would drop the need. my point was that most people can get through their daily life without the "need" to carry on a conversation in Korean or even ask a question in Korean.

They can be entertained, fed, etc without it.
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redaxe



Joined: 01 Dec 2008

PostPosted: Mon Feb 15, 2010 4:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

crossmr wrote:
morrisonhotel wrote:
crossmr wrote:
The requirement for "living" is low depending on how you want to live.


Surely where you live is also a major factor in that?



Sure. I guess if you happen to move into a building where the manager speaks english, or near a market with immigrant staff who might speak english, etc yes it would drop the need. my point was that most people can get through their daily life without the "need" to carry on a conversation in Korean or even ask a question in Korean.

They can be entertained, fed, etc without it.


Hence the motivation to live in Haebangchon
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fustiancorduroy



Joined: 12 Jan 2007

PostPosted: Mon Feb 15, 2010 5:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

crossmr wrote:
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This makes me wonder how people live here for many years and don't really speak much Korean. How do these people get things general tasks done in their daily lives? How do they talk to their building manager? How do they read their monthly bills and how do they correct problems, such as being billed twice for the same month, with them? How do they read bus maps? How do they ask questions or make complaints when they are shopping? How do they make small talk with their neighbors and local shopkeepers? In short, how do they live in Korea? Do these people live in and only hang out in Itaewon? Do they have Korean-speaking friends do all their business for them? Do they just stay at home and post on Dave's?

How do you think tourists do a lot of that stuff?
There is very little you actually need to know to get by in day to day life.

Bills? Most people have a co-teacher. You don't need them explained each month. Someone only needs to tell you once: pay the amount on this line
Problems with a bill aren't usually monthly things here, so those can be handled on a case by case basis

....

eating in a restaurant requires nothing but knowing what you like and knowing how to recognize it and say the name + 주세요 . The requirement for "living" is low depending on how you want to live.

Which is why most people don't learn much.


Yes, that's all the case (although I generally mentioned things that tourists would not do when they are in a foreign country), and it relates to what you said earlier about how long you plan to be here and such.

As for me, I've lived here for a while. Therefore, I like being able to communicate beyond a rudimentary level when I'm out. I want to be able to read the bus map when I'm at a bus stop (I simply look at the route, in Korean, to find a bus that goes where I want to go). I want to be able to make a complaint at the shopping center. I want to be able to order food over the phone. I want to be able to change my phone plan or open a savings account without having to call a translator. I want to be able to go to any real estate office in the country and look for an apartment, and I want to be able to understand the contract, too. In other words, I want to live as an adult, able to communicate all my needs without help from someone else. I would think most people would want to get to that point eventually, as well, and I can't imagine they would be as happy living in a place where they can't communicate with 97% of the population.

But at the same time, I understand that gaining this level of proficiency is virtually impossible for someone staying here for a year or two. However, it's a bit absurd to have to rely on Korean friends for a lot of things if you've been living here for, say, three years or more. I would imagine that you would feel like a helpless child by not being able to communicate in a meaningful way in many situations. I would also think you would feel like a hypocrite by teaching how to communicate in English and NOT knowing how to express yourself in the language of the country you are living in. Are people really that complacent about being ignorant? Question
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