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NYC_Gal

Joined: 08 Dec 2009
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Posted: Mon Feb 22, 2010 7:26 pm Post subject: Anyone getting their new principal a welcome gift? |
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I haven't met him (or her, but likely him) yet, but figured something American would be nice, so ordered a big pecan pie from Tartine Bakery in Itaewon to pick up this weekend.
My principal just retired, which is sad, as he had pretty good English and was a sweet man. Anyone else doing the same for their new principal? |
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Senior
Joined: 31 Jan 2010
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Posted: Mon Feb 22, 2010 11:35 pm Post subject: |
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I'm probably going to. My Principal just retired too. Thankfully the new one is the VP from 2 years ago, and we are best buds. |
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nautilus

Joined: 26 Nov 2005 Location: Je jump, Tu jump, oui jump!
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Posted: Tue Feb 23, 2010 12:45 am Post subject: |
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Why suck up.. Why not just let your teaching performance alone put you in good standing?
I guess a pecan pie covers your back for a year.Or so the thinking goes.
If you started a new job in the west, would you present your new boss with a bottle of bubbly? I don't think so. |
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pjmancktelow
Joined: 07 Oct 2007 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Tue Feb 23, 2010 2:53 am Post subject: |
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this isnt the west though. i got my p and vp a gift when i came here (public school). it was just some crappy souvenier box of tea bags from england that cost me very little. but they loved it. totally worth the price of a pint of beer it cost me. |
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Cerberus
Joined: 29 Oct 2009
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Posted: Tue Feb 23, 2010 4:26 am Post subject: |
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I did this when coming to take my job, but now with new brass coming in, I don't particularly feel any desire to give them any gifts at all. After all, I'm already here, they're the new ones
if the relationship is good or at least non cumbersome, I'll get them something if I stay at the school and fly back stateside during vacation.
or if things get off to a very good start, I'll buy them a nice (albeit overpriced, as everything is there) cake at Paris Baguette |
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jugbandjames
Joined: 15 Feb 2010
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Posted: Tue Feb 23, 2010 4:50 am Post subject: |
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I was thinking about getting him a nice bottle of kentucky bourbon. That's difficult to get over there right? |
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Cerberus
Joined: 29 Oct 2009
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Posted: Tue Feb 23, 2010 6:29 am Post subject: |
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jugbandjames wrote: |
I was thinking about getting him a nice bottle of kentucky bourbon. That's difficult to get over there right? |
any gift of whiskey, cognac, etc is likely to be received very positively by your average Korean adjosshi.
You can get this stuff in Korea but it's preposterously expensive (as are most things in Korea - do you sense a pattern here? ) |
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shostahoosier
Joined: 14 Apr 2009
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Posted: Tue Feb 23, 2010 8:02 am Post subject: |
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nautilus wrote: |
Why suck up.. Why not just let your teaching performance alone put you in good standing?
I guess a pecan pie covers your back for a year.Or so the thinking goes.
If you started a new job in the west, would you present your new boss with a bottle of bubbly? I don't think so. |
Actually I would. Not necessarily champagne...but definitely a small "thank-you" or "welcome" gift.
And as ideal as it would be to let your competence speak for you...the real world doesnt always work that way. A lot of bosses, victims of the peter principle themselves, dont know how to to appreciate a competent employee.
The art of ass-kissing, if mastered, is invaluable.
However, too many people dont know how to do it right, and it comes off as insincere and obvious, which makes it useless.
I met a foreigner who gave his boss a small (sweet treat) almost every day....and has been for months!
I guess he didnt get the memo that he wasnt training a circus monkey. |
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VanIslander

Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!
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Posted: Tue Feb 23, 2010 8:07 am Post subject: |
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welcome to your world?
i never did when first started a job - but do when returning from a long trip |
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Globutron
Joined: 13 Feb 2010 Location: England/Anyang
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Posted: Tue Feb 23, 2010 9:02 am Post subject: |
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Hm I should think of something. Not least because of how delayed the process has been. I'll have to get something in Dubai if I do...That's gonna cost me �1,000 I'm sure. |
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jvalmer

Joined: 06 Jun 2003
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Posted: Tue Feb 23, 2010 9:04 am Post subject: |
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VanIslander wrote: |
welcome to your world?
i never did when first started a job - but do when returning from a long trip |
No need for a gift when meeting someone for the first time. But like VanIslander says, bring back trinkets after some long trip or coming back from home.
Also, good to know, if you get invited to someone's home, bring some cheap gift. Could be as cheap as candy for their kids or a bottle of 20000-won wine from e-mart. |
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wylies99

Joined: 13 May 2006 Location: I'm one cool cat!
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Posted: Thu Feb 25, 2010 3:30 am Post subject: |
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You don't need to bring anything with you for the Principal. I hope you understand that these Principals are very wealthy and powerful people. You can't really give them anything they need. Plus, they've probably traveled to other countries. Just do your job well.
As for buying little things after trips, my advice is to give other teachers something they can use in school, like: pencils, pens, or pencil cases. Functional gifts are best and you want to give them something they will actually use. |
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wylies99

Joined: 13 May 2006 Location: I'm one cool cat!
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Posted: Thu Feb 25, 2010 3:35 am Post subject: |
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jugbandjames wrote: |
I was thinking about getting him a nice bottle of kentucky bourbon. That's difficult to get over there right? |
It's easy to find. Plus, don't you think that giving alcohol sends the wrong message about you? |
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Globutron
Joined: 13 Feb 2010 Location: England/Anyang
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Posted: Thu Feb 25, 2010 3:41 am Post subject: |
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I got a present because of how late I ended up being - despite none of it being to do with me. Just some British Tea tins she'll undoubtedly despise. |
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Cerberus
Joined: 29 Oct 2009
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Posted: Thu Feb 25, 2010 3:54 am Post subject: |
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wylies99 wrote: |
You don't need to bring anything with you for the Principal. I hope you understand that these Principals are very wealthy and powerful people. You can't really give them anything they need. Plus, they've probably traveled to other countries. Just do your job well.
As for buying little things after trips, my advice is to give other teachers something they can use in school, like: pencils, pens, or pencil cases. Functional gifts are best and you want to give them something they will actually use. |
nah, I disagree.
the other teachers will love the usual, even if somewhat cheesy tourist trinkets.. like baseball caps with the name of your city.. T-shirts.
When I went to Bali / Indonesia, I brought those beach type necklaces for the female teachers, they loved 'em. I bought some batiks for some of my fave male teachers. One guy loved them so much he wore it to school on occassion.
When I went back home I bought some keychains with steel teddy bears on em and the name of a famous landmark on the keychain. I have to admit the teddy bears looked really nice and almost every female teacher I gave the keychain too, was gushing when she got it.
This gift giving sometimes isn't super cheap, but it's been well worth it. I've been treated supremely well.
one of my coteachers once revealed to me that she had developed a taste for a particular cereal, that's not available in Korea. (she had been in Canada for 6 months or so). I filed that away for future reference , so when I returned from my trip back home she received two big boxes of that particular cereal.
I think that went over better than a pen  |
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