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Captain Corea

Joined: 28 Feb 2005 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Fri Feb 26, 2010 6:01 am Post subject: |
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When the story first broke of students being forced to strip naked for photos that were posted on the net, LMB's first public statement was that 'Korean students just need to work off stress and this shouldn't be a police matter".
So, here you have a president speaking of illegal acts as a 'social illness' and then saying well, it's just stress, let's not get them in trouble.
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That's not exactly what he said. He said that the schools, parents, and students should take the lead in trying to handle the issue.
And I'm partially inclined to agree with him. There are things that police need to deal with, and there are things that other parts of society can better handle.
Just throwing armed men at asituation doesn't always help it. |
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crescent

Joined: 15 Jan 2003 Location: yes.
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Posted: Fri Feb 26, 2010 6:48 am Post subject: |
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Oh I know exactly what he said. If you had an adolescent daughter, and someone ripped the clothes off of her body, threatened her, took pictures of her, and humiliated her by putting them on the internet for the whole country to see, you would let the school handle it? Corporal punishment, like they always give? A suspension? Blood money?
If so, I wouldn't want to be your kid.
As I compared initially, there are 6 young boys and girls here in Daegu, scarred for life from being raped/sodomized. That was also a matter for the "families" to handle. That is, until the rape of that young girl just recently. That changed everything.
Don't you see the larger picture? Is society really taking care of other social issues? Bullying is a well publicized police matter because schools and families failed. This crosses a line. |
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RufusW
Joined: 14 Jun 2008 Location: Busan
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Posted: Fri Feb 26, 2010 7:40 am Post subject: |
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| crescent wrote: |
| This crosses a line. |
Rape didn't cross the line but naked people do?
Justice systems rely on the victims not casting judgement. |
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crescent

Joined: 15 Jan 2003 Location: yes.
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Posted: Fri Feb 26, 2010 8:44 am Post subject: |
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| RufusW wrote: |
| crescent wrote: |
| This crosses a line. |
Rape didn't cross the line but naked people do?
Justice systems rely on the victims not casting judgement. |
What the... exactly where did I say that? A better question... how could you possibly rephrase what I said into that? Was it the vodka?
To connect the dots...
Society didn't take care of a gang rape case. So, how is it going to take care of this?
When I said this crosses a line, it was obviously in reference to the sentence preceding it. |
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Captain Corea

Joined: 28 Feb 2005 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Fri Feb 26, 2010 4:36 pm Post subject: |
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| crescent wrote: |
Oh I know exactly what he said. If you had an adolescent daughter, and someone ripped the clothes off of her body, threatened her, took pictures of her, and humiliated her by putting them on the internet for the whole country to see, you would let the school handle it? Corporal punishment, like they always give? A suspension? Blood money?
If so, I wouldn't want to be your kid.
As I compared initially, there are 6 young boys and girls here in Daegu, scarred for life from being raped/sodomized. That was also a matter for the "families" to handle. That is, until the rape of that young girl just recently. That changed everything.
Don't you see the larger picture? Is society really taking care of other social issues? Bullying is a well publicized police matter because schools and families failed. This crosses a line. |
Bullying cannot be solved by police alone.
If you think that, I fear you are fooling yourself.
And just like other incidents, as various facts come to light, people change their stance. Are you sure that he insists that police never get involved? Or is it/ was it a matter of that being some of his initial comments?
Oh, and doyou mind dropping that repeated red herring of rape... I'm not going to bite. This is an issue of hazing.. not rape. |
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crescent

Joined: 15 Jan 2003 Location: yes.
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Posted: Fri Feb 26, 2010 6:21 pm Post subject: |
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My obvious points are these, since you are intent on avoiding them:
1. Bullying is now a police matter, because it was not being dealt with by society. This hazing involves bullying. Never, did I say it could be solved by police alone. All I said was this is worse than bullying.
2. If instances of rape, a very serious crime, were tried yet could NOT be effectively handled by society, then why should sexual assault, and the creation of pornography be handled by society? It is a serious legal matter.
Now, if you want to call my comparison a red herring, then how about answering my original question. How would you deal with this issue if it happened to your teenage daughter? Her clothes ripped off, she is threatened with violence, she is forced to pose naked in the cold, and then the photos are put on the internet.
If you don't like that, how about the yearly swarm of Pok Ju students riding their scooters and motorcycles in packs on the streets swerving in and out of traffic. This is another graduation 'ritual'. But, guess what, it's a police matter. It has been for YEARS. But, this hazing is less serious?
I'm not saying it's terrible, but Korean society is losing it's value system, and if the president want his country to continue down that road, then yes, this is the perfect way to do it.
Keep teaching the young that they don't have to be held responsible for what they do. They grow up to be the names you see in papers for bribes, and other white collar crimes. And then they get pardoned. Even assaults get pardoned. |
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Captain Corea

Joined: 28 Feb 2005 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Fri Feb 26, 2010 10:18 pm Post subject: |
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| crescent wrote: |
| Now, if you want to call my comparison a red herring, then how about answering my original question. How would you deal with this issue if it happened to your teenage daughter? Her clothes ripped off, she is threatened with violence, she is forced to pose naked in the cold, and then the photos are put on the internet. |
I hadn't heard that their clothes were ripped off. In the reports that I read, they were 'instructed' to show up and a certain time/place and told to strip and perform various goof-ball actions (running down the street and such).
From my understanding, this was all done through same-sex pressure. Not that that makes it much better, but that does play into it somewhat.
I have a daughter here, thank you very much - do you?
And while I'd like the police to protect her, I also know that they are not able to in every circumstance. I plan to give her the guidance to be able to avoid situations like the above.
I'm not saying that the police should never be involved, but you quote from LMB was at the outbreak of this 'scandal'... and that may be misrepresenting his current position.
| crescent wrote: |
| Oh I know exactly what he said. |
Mind quoting his statements in Korean, then? |
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crescent

Joined: 15 Jan 2003 Location: yes.
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Posted: Fri Feb 26, 2010 11:38 pm Post subject: |
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| Captain Corea wrote: |
| crescent wrote: |
| Now, if you want to call my comparison a red herring, then how about answering my original question. How would you deal with this issue if it happened to your teenage daughter? Her clothes ripped off, she is threatened with violence, she is forced to pose naked in the cold, and then the photos are put on the internet. |
I hadn't heard that their clothes were ripped off. In the reports that I read, they were 'instructed' to show up and a certain time/place and told to strip and perform various goof-ball actions (running down the street and such).
From my understanding, this was all done through same-sex pressure. Not that that makes it much better, but that does play into it somewhat.
I have a daughter here, thank you very much - do you?
And while I'd like the police to protect her, I also know that they are not able to in every circumstance. I plan to give her the guidance to be able to avoid situations like the above.
I'm not saying that the police should never be involved, but you quote from LMB was at the outbreak of this 'scandal'... and that may be misrepresenting his current position.
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| Oh I know exactly what he said. |
Mind quoting his statements in Korean, then? |
Oh, so it comes down to exact translations now? You haven't even read the press release (in korean) that specified some of the girls had their shirts ripped off, and you want me to translate what LMB said? Go ahead, find his original statement, and post it here.
No, I don't have a daughter, but you can be guaranteed i would be pressing charges against the ones responsible for degrading her. Your guidance would not prevent her from getting hurt in this because until now you haven't even heard of this problem.
It's not about police "protection" either. Rather, this is entirely a legal matter and should be dealt with s such.
Bullying is not new. This is an extension of it. |
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jvalmer

Joined: 06 Jun 2003
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Posted: Fri Feb 26, 2010 11:52 pm Post subject: |
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From what I understand most of the students do this willingly, the supposed violence is just a show. They just want be cool with their peers, and usually someone of the same gender will force their juniors to do things. And not every student participates, based on the schools I've been to maybe a few percent of the students do the extreme strip naked march around town pyramid thing.
But I do think they should find another way to express themselves instead of getting naked and forming pyramids. |
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Captain Corea

Joined: 28 Feb 2005 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Sat Feb 27, 2010 1:20 am Post subject: |
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| crescent wrote: |
| Oh I know exactly what he said. |
Well, if you know EXACTLY what was said, why the fight against posting it? I mean, you know exactly what he said about this subject... so why not post it up?
Or do you mean you read one English translated article, and then decided that you knew everything from that? Because, if that's what you did, I can understand that.
But that's not what you are claiming... here, I'll quote you again:
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| Oh I know exactly what he said. |
So, with all of the BS that comes out of news sources here, the only way that I can imagine that you know that is if you were A) there at the time, and all points related since then, B) read an official release from the Blue House, or C) are just talking out of your arse.
So, would you mind teaching me how you know exactly what he said? |
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crescent

Joined: 15 Jan 2003 Location: yes.
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Posted: Sat Feb 27, 2010 2:28 am Post subject: |
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Don't be a nad, please. Of course I can only quote what was said in the papers. You know very well, what I meant by 'exactly', obviously referred to his press statement, meaning I know exactly what was quoted IN KOREAN... Did you forget it's the same quote with which YOU agreed? He didn't give a dissertation on sociology, it was a simple statement.
First, you agree with him. What began as a debate on the merits of what he said in the press, was twisted into the need for clarification of what was actually said in Korean...
But wait, then THAT warped into another disqualification that his INITIAL position may have changed (in a few days).
Now, (this is the best twist) the whole statement can't be taken verbatim at all? The very statement YOU agreed with?
Any more games you want to play with this? |
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On the other hand
Joined: 19 Apr 2003 Location: I walk along the avenue
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Posted: Sat Feb 27, 2010 8:39 am Post subject: |
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| I heard of worse hazings involving sexual acts in the UK and America. |
Back in the early 80s, in my homwtown of Edmonton Canada, there was a sports hazing scandal at a local high school. Among the rituals involved were getting the male players on a team(football?) to walk around a room while carrying an LP record between their buttocks. And other stuff like that.
The team's coach was disciplined, I think, but one of the local newspaper columnists wrote a piece in which she said that compared to what had gone on at her school in Saskatchewan years earlier, the antics at the Edmonton school were pretty small-time. |
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jvalmer

Joined: 06 Jun 2003
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Posted: Sat Feb 27, 2010 4:15 pm Post subject: |
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Most Canadian boys who played hockey in the 90's and before experienced the gonch-pull (aka wedgie) in the locker room. Oh the memories, and all I could think was wait until next year when I'm older and get to surprise the newbies.
Do coaches still turn a blind eye to that these days? Or is that considered assault now? |
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Captain Corea

Joined: 28 Feb 2005 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Sat Feb 27, 2010 6:28 pm Post subject: |
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| crescent wrote: |
Don't be a nad, please. Of course I can only quote what was said in the papers. You know very well, what I meant by 'exactly', obviously referred to his press statement, meaning I know exactly what was quoted IN KOREAN... Did you forget it's the same quote with which YOU agreed? He didn't give a dissertation on sociology, it was a simple statement.
First, you agree with him. What began as a debate on the merits of what he said in the press, was twisted into the need for clarification of what was actually said in Korean...
But wait, then THAT warped into another disqualification that his INITIAL position may have changed (in a few days).
Now, (this is the best twist) the whole statement can't be taken verbatim at all? The very statement YOU agreed with?
Any more games you want to play with this? |
Don't be a *beep* please, that's not really what I said. Should we now start the name calling and such?
In my first two replies i said:
| Captain Corea wrote: |
That's not exactly what he said.
And I'm partially inclined to agree with him. |
| Captain Corea wrote: |
| And just like other incidents, as various facts come to light, people change their stance. Are you sure that he insists that police never get involved? |
From the start I've been curious about the variations/progression of his statements. I've asked you to post them in Korean, and you've refused. You've also tried to bait me with red herrings about my daughter, and rape.
If you want to talk about twisted strategies, you've doing quite well yourself.
| crescent wrote: |
| Any more games you want to play with this? |
I could ask the same of you.
You said that you knew EXACTLY what LMB has said on this topic... and I've asked you to quote it. Why is that so 'effin hard?? |
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crescent

Joined: 15 Jan 2003 Location: yes.
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Posted: Sat Feb 27, 2010 8:11 pm Post subject: |
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It's not that I refuse to post it. I refuse to do it for YOU. You stated that my translation was inaccurate, so you go searching for the article.
You seem to be getting off on this meaningless back and forth, when you could have easily found it by now. Do it yourself. . It isn't hard, so why do you continue demanding that I do it?
Furthermore, the question about your daughter was a legitimate question concerning how you would handle this issue. Now you cll it baiting? Of course you would. You've never asked hypothetical questions like that, have you? Baiting? Get real. And, the rape case was a comparison to show that your belief in society being able to handle sexual crimes was a supreme fail. |
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