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Spionen



Joined: 15 Mar 2010

PostPosted: Tue Mar 23, 2010 4:40 am    Post subject: Ethics of running... Reply with quote

I've only been in Korea for about a month and a half at this point, but I'm thinking of running in a month or two, either next payday or the one after.

Why? Well, my hagwon hasn't done anything illegal, so it's not that. Teachers seem to get paid on time (I haven't gotten my first paycheck yet, due a few weeks ago, but I don't have a bank account so I didn't really expect to. I think all they do is direct deposit). The hours are pretty awful- nothing unimaginable, but certainly the worst of anyone I've spoken to in Korea apart from my coworkers who obviously work the same amount (9 hours a day including lunch break, between five and seven of which are spent in the classroom).

Mostly I want to leave because my boss is completely horrible in a legal, but incredibly demoralizing way. He never speaks a single word to me which isn't critical and often downright insulting, complaining about everything from me doing things in the classroom which he or the head teacher explicitly told me to do to the way I dress (professional- more so than my coworkers most of the time). The other foreign teachers all agree he's not a particularly nice person, but he seems to have it out for me in particular for reasons I can't guess. I like the kids and I like teaching and my coworkers are great, but I'd really rather not spend 40 hours a week in this man's presence if I can help it, especially when there's such an easy out.

On top of that, a job I was pursuing before coming to Korea (in a different country) has reopened and is now on the table as a definite possibility starting sometime in April/May/June.

So why not just quit and give my 60 days' notice (specified in the contract)? Three reasons:
1) I can't imagine how much more hostile my job environment would get after doing that. Sixty days of an EXTRA pissed off boss? Ugh.
2) If the new job opportunity wants me in April, I don't exactly have time to give two months' notice.
3) This one is horrible, but... I can't afford to pay back the plane ticket yet.

Just the thought of doing a runner makes me feel pretty guilty- mostly on my coworkers' behalf, as they'd probably end up shouldering the burden. Absolutely everything in me besides that screams that I should take off and never look back.

How horrible am I, really, for considering this?
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oskinny1



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PostPosted: Tue Mar 23, 2010 4:49 am    Post subject: Re: Ethics of running... Reply with quote

Spionen wrote:

1) I can't imagine how much more hostile my job environment would get after doing that. Sixty days of an EXTRA pissed off boss? Ugh.
2) If the new job opportunity wants me in April, I don't exactly have time to give two months' notice.
3) This one is horrible, but... I can't afford to pay back the plane ticket yet.


1 and 2... Not cool, but whatever.

3. This is theft. Pay back the ticket. I know you put "yet", so does that mean you will eventually pay for it? If not, then you suck.
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The Gipkik



Joined: 30 Mar 2009

PostPosted: Tue Mar 23, 2010 5:00 am    Post subject: Re: Ethics of running... Reply with quote

Spionen wrote:

How horrible am I, really, for considering this?


Your hours, to me, sound sweatshop, but you knew what kind of hours you had to teach before you signed on, right? Your boss sounds like a pain in the butt, but I'd lay into him with my endless back talk. Respectful, but very assertive back talk. For example, he criticizes your lessons. Tell him you look forward to seeing him teach a lesson. If he says that's not his job, ask him why he's so sure your teaching is a problem? He says it's the parents, ask him how they know being that their kids are ______. He's the kind of creep I'd really lay into until his head spins. However, it sounds like you really want to leave because another job you wanted is available and on the table. Before you make that step, negotiate your contract. Tell the boss you are not happy and see what happens. If he doesn't budge, then make plans, but make sure jumping ship is really worth it.
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CentralCali



Joined: 17 May 2007

PostPosted: Tue Mar 23, 2010 5:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

He is doing something illegal. He's withholding your pay. And it certainly doesn't take a month and a half to (a) get your ARC and then (b) open a bank account. Before you get (a) and (b) done, your boss is still required to pay you for your work. There is a reason, after all, for the government printing cash notes.

If the boss wants you to repay the cost of the ticket over, let him try to sue you in the country you've moved to. It certainly looks as though you've already "paid back the loan for the ticket." There's absolutely no excuse whatsoever for not paying someone for "a few weeks." The beauty of this is that he won't be able to sue you in the new country; however, you can appoint someone to appear on your behalf at the Labor Board and in small claims court to pursue the balance due you after the cost of the ticket is deducted.

No, the OP is not a thief. The boss is, and a liar to boot.

By the way, it is not illegal for you to give less than 60 days notice. There are, of course, contractual penalties for that unless the contract does not contain such penalties. But you are not a slave and you can quit on the spot: "Boss, I'm fed up with your illegal acts and your abusive treatment. I resign effictive immediately." No law at all against that.
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PatrickGHBusan



Joined: 24 Jun 2008
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PostPosted: Tue Mar 23, 2010 5:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Give your 30days notice and pay back the airfaire. You said you do not have the money yet and are considering milking this job for 1-2 months and then running...that means you will have the money to pay for the airfaire sooner than later....

From what you describe your employer, except for being unpleasant on a personal level, has not cheated you in anyway. Your pay issue is confusing because of the way you presented. You say you have been here for about a month. Then how can your paycheck have been due a few weeks ago?

Assuming you are paid on a monthly basis, your first paycheck is due at the end of your first month or in the first 10 days of your second month. So how can it be a few weeks overdue?
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Spionen



Joined: 15 Mar 2010

PostPosted: Tue Mar 23, 2010 6:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Maybe you're right, Patrick. The reason I thought that is that all employees are paid on the first of every month, by which point I'd been here for a few weeks. Assumed I'd get paid for those weeks then and a full month on the first of next, but maybe that's not how it works? The contract pretty much says nothing about this except "employees will be paid on the first of every month."

Anyway, to be honest I hadn't thought much one way or the other about paying back the flight. I readily admit that not paying it back would be a scummy thing to do, but as I said before, when I approach the issue of running from a moral standpoint (which it's hard not to do), ditching my coworkers and forcing them to pick up the pieces has always been my first concern. If I decide that's something I can come to terms with (help, guys... is it?) then I'd worry about the flight. Is it possible to do a runner- thus avoiding points 1 and 2 in my first post- and pay back the ticket afterward or would I have to legit quit with my sixty (not thirty) days' notice and have them deduct it from a paycheck?

Thanks for the answers so far, everyone!
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dirving



Joined: 19 Nov 2009
Location: South Korea

PostPosted: Tue Mar 23, 2010 6:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Pat's right and he's, perhaps, mistaken: Try asking for teaching advice, and get her/him to nail down a date upon which you're gonna get your first month's wages. After reaching an amicable agreement, and only then, carry on at your position. Otherwise, wait until you get your over-due wages. Then, just split!
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Troglodyte



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PostPosted: Tue Mar 23, 2010 6:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It sounds like the OP mainly wants to leave because he's got another job available. If that's the main reason, I'd say that leaving is a bit dodgy on his part. BUT if the school didn't pay him on time (a few weeks too late), then he can still take the moral high ground.


What IS his obligation for giving notice? If his contract says that the teacher or employer have to give 60 days notice, is that an obligation from the beginning? I've heard before (probably on this forum) that in the first 6 months, the employee is still legally considered on probation, so the school doesn't have to give them any notice before firing them - regardless of what's written in the contract. If that's the case, then what is the employee's obligation to the school during that probationary period? I'm sure that there are clauses in the contract that stipulate what happens if a contract is cancelled, but are they enforceable during this probationary period?


To the OP, be sure to get paid before you give notice. If you give notice BEFORE being paid, you WON'T be paid. Just ask for cash. Most schools will pay you in cash. (Many schools would LOVE to pay you in cash because that's a great way for them to unload any undeclared income.)
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CentralCali



Joined: 17 May 2007

PostPosted: Tue Mar 23, 2010 7:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The date one's wages will be paid should be stipulated in the contract.
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Wishmaster



Joined: 06 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Tue Mar 23, 2010 7:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Okay OP, you've got to look out after number #1. That is you. Besides, what is it with this "ethics" garbage. Your employer would cut you and throw you out on the street if he could. I've never understood this sense of "loyalty" that people feel for a job(especially one with a dodgy boss here in Korea). Life is short and why let an opportunity pass you by just so you can finish out a contract(or give notice) in Korea? No brainer, really. DO NOT GIVE NOTICE!!! If you are going to leave, just leave. You give notice and they'll make your last month(or two) pure hell plus rape you on deductions. I've done a runner before and I felt like a million bucks because my boss was an arrogant SOB. Just take care of yourself because if the roles were reversed, they sure as hell wouldn't be honorable with you.
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PatrickGHBusan



Joined: 24 Jun 2008
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PostPosted: Tue Mar 23, 2010 8:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Spionen wrote:
Maybe you're right, Patrick. The reason I thought that is that all employees are paid on the first of every month, by which point I'd been here for a few weeks. Assumed I'd get paid for those weeks then and a full month on the first of next, but maybe that's not how it works? The contract pretty much says nothing about this except "employees will be paid on the first of every month."

Anyway, to be honest I hadn't thought much one way or the other about paying back the flight. I readily admit that not paying it back would be a scummy thing to do, but as I said before, when I approach the issue of running from a moral standpoint (which it's hard not to do), ditching my coworkers and forcing them to pick up the pieces has always been my first concern. If I decide that's something I can come to terms with (help, guys... is it?) then I'd worry about the flight. Is it possible to do a runner- thus avoiding points 1 and 2 in my first post- and pay back the ticket afterward or would I have to legit quit with my sixty (not thirty) days' notice and have them deduct it from a paycheck?

Thanks for the answers so far, everyone!


No offense was intended in my post by the way. I was just trying to get more information on your situation.

If your contract says paid on the 1st of every month then you should get your first pay on the first of the month that comes up after you arrived. That pay would be for whatever time you worked out of that first month.

I agree you should check into this anyway.

If your contract states 60 days notice then that is the clause you should follow but this does not mean your employer would not accept a 30 day notice.

If you are worried, like it was suggested already: hand in your 30 day notice the day after you get paid.


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 23, 2010 9:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

CentralCali wrote:
The date one's wages will be paid should be stipulated in the contract.


Quite true.
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CentralCali



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PostPosted: Tue Mar 23, 2010 2:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wishmaster wrote:
Your employer would cut you and throw you out on the street if he could. I've never understood this sense of "loyalty" that people feel for a job(especially one with a dodgy boss here in Korea). Life is short and why let an opportunity pass you by just so you can finish out a contract(or give notice) in Korea? No brainer, really. DO NOT GIVE NOTICE!!! If you are going to leave, just leave. You give notice and they'll make your last month(or two) pure hell plus rape you on deductions.


A few posters have sought help for being fired immediately after giving notice. As I said above, it is not illegal for the employee to quit work without giving 30 days notice. What is illegal, on the other hand, is for the employer to fire the employee without either 30 days notice or 30 days pay in lieu (or a great time if stipulated in the contract).

The OP has stated that the contract stipulates that wages will be paid on the first of the month. The first of the month has passed and there's no pay. A quick discussion with the boss is in order that very day: "Where's my pay? I am not working for free. Where's my ARC? I'm not working without you obtaining the required documents for me to work and live here." On top of that, there is absolutely no valid reason today for the pay to be disbursed any later than the last day of the pay period or the last banking work day prior to the last day of the pay period. It cannot be a mystery to the boss what the employee's wages are.
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Spionen



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PostPosted: Tue Mar 23, 2010 4:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wishmaster wrote:
Okay OP, you've got to look out after number #1. That is you. Besides, what is it with this "ethics" garbage. Your employer would cut you and throw you out on the street if he could. I've never understood this sense of "loyalty" that people feel for a job(especially one with a dodgy boss here in Korea). Life is short and why let an opportunity pass you by just so you can finish out a contract(or give notice) in Korea? No brainer, really. DO NOT GIVE NOTICE!!! If you are going to leave, just leave. You give notice and they'll make your last month(or two) pure hell plus rape you on deductions. I've done a runner before and I felt like a million bucks because my boss was an arrogant SOB. Just take care of yourself because if the roles were reversed, they sure as hell wouldn't be honorable with you.


From a selfish standpoint (which is one I would dearly love to be able to justify), you're right. I personally have nothing to lose and everything to gain by waiting for payday and bolting for the airport. The problem is that while I don't think I'd feel any particular remorse about screwing over my boss, I'd feel horrible about throwing my coworkers under the bus, since it's them, and not him, who would end up covering my classes on top of their as-described already pretty awful hours.

Those of you who have run in the past, how did you deal with that issue? Did you warn them beforehand?

Thanks again to everyone helping me sort this out!

P.S: Just to clarify, the other job offer isn't the main reason I want to leave. I dug it up only after I started fantasizing about quitting my current job. That said, it IS a pretty major factor in wanting to take off soon rather than stick it out for a few more months and see if things improve.
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plynx



Joined: 03 Jun 2008

PostPosted: Tue Mar 23, 2010 4:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Spionen wrote:
Wishmaster wrote:
Okay OP, you've got to look out after number #1. That is you. Besides, what is it with this "ethics" garbage. Your employer would cut you and throw you out on the street if he could. I've never understood this sense of "loyalty" that people feel for a job(especially one with a dodgy boss here in Korea). Life is short and why let an opportunity pass you by just so you can finish out a contract(or give notice) in Korea? No brainer, really. DO NOT GIVE NOTICE!!! If you are going to leave, just leave. You give notice and they'll make your last month(or two) pure hell plus rape you on deductions. I've done a runner before and I felt like a million bucks because my boss was an arrogant SOB. Just take care of yourself because if the roles were reversed, they sure as hell wouldn't be honorable with you.


From a selfish standpoint (which is one I would dearly love to be able to justify), you're right. I personally have nothing to lose and everything to gain by waiting for payday and bolting for the airport. The problem is that while I don't think I'd feel any particular remorse about screwing over my boss, I'd feel horrible about throwing my coworkers under the bus, since it's them, and not him, who would end up covering my classes on top of their as-described already pretty awful hours.

Those of you who have run in the past, how did you deal with that issue? Did you warn them beforehand?

Thanks again to everyone helping me sort this out!

P.S: Just to clarify, the other job offer isn't the main reason I want to leave. I dug it up only after I started fantasizing about quitting my current job. That said, it IS a pretty major factor in wanting to take off soon rather than stick it out for a few more months and see if things improve.


i planned on doing a runner a few years back, but the boss pissed me off so badly one week before i was supposed to leave that i decided to officially quit. WORST DECISION EVER. do NOT give notice - they will take you for all you're worth + more, and treat you like poo, to boot. screw all those people telling you to take the moral high ground. it's korea. NOBODY you work with cares about you; not your co-workers, your boss, the cleaning lady, or the doorman. your co-workers will get over it. trust me - i told one of my co-workers i was pulling a runner a month before the departure date, and she beat me to it! never even knew she had planned one herself. hilarious! Laughing look out for yourself in this situation. keep your money and your sanity, and just go. good luck!
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