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Jeunesse



Joined: 11 Nov 2009

PostPosted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 2:11 am    Post subject: Is this experience normal? Reply with quote

Yesterday my fever symptoms started getting REALLY bad. White patches on throat, chills, fainting. So I call the �English speaking� hospital.

Woman on the other end figures out I speak English and only a little bit of Korean and she starts... laughing at me.

Apparently it is a very, very funny joke, when someone is very sick, to only know English and call a hospital that advertises itself as having English language services.

I�m used to Koreans giggling when they see me in public. Apparently it is very funny to spot a lone honky on the street. But during a medical emergency? NO.

I thought maybe the laughing and the not-taking-me-seriously was just a one-time incident with the hospital. Not so much. When I approached the ER, apparently it was HILARIOUS, yet again, that a weygook was sick. They were laughing so hard it took them a while to realize I was serious.

I was subject to stares and dirty looks like I was the Elephant Man. Apparently being sick is a moral weakness. Being a FOREIGN person being sick is even worse.

I feel like I should have worn a big red �O� for outsider. I have never felt so ashamed just for needing medical attention.

At least I'm not sick any more - the medicine they ended up giving me is working wonders at least. And thankfully the hospital visit ended up being very inexpensive, compared to the highway robbery it would have been back home.

ANYWAYS.

I'm wondering - is it normal to get this kind of response during an emergency here?

Should I be finding a doctor I have a good relationship with? (Unfortunately it's not likely my hagwon director will give me health insurance

And: How did you find a good doctor? Trial and error? Friend recommendation? Your city's international center?

I'm pretty shaken right now and would like some guidance.

Thanks in advance.
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Leslie Cheswyck



Joined: 31 May 2003
Location: University of Western Chile

PostPosted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 2:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Laughter is the best medicine. Twisted Evil
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Jeunesse



Joined: 11 Nov 2009

PostPosted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 2:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Leslie Cheswyck wrote:
Laughter is the best medicine. Twisted Evil


OK, I wouldn't have thought that was funny this morning when I thought I was going to die, but right now I lol'ed. Laughing
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GwangjuParents



Joined: 31 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 2:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Some people giggle/laugh when they're nervous. She may have been afraid to speak English.

Don't be paranoid. The Koreans aren't out to get you.
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Jeunesse



Joined: 11 Nov 2009

PostPosted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 2:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

GwangjuParents wrote:
Some people giggle/laugh when they're nervous. She may have been afraid to speak English.

Don't be paranoid. The Koreans aren't out to get you.


Yeah, that was the most charitable explanation I could think of. I don't think Koreans are "out to get me," but I wish some would realize that laughing is very, very unsettling for someone who is trying to seek help during a medical emergency behind a language barrier.

I just wanted to vent. Charitable interpretation for the laughter or no, it really hurt my feelings and I didn't know if this just a "normal" thing to experience in medical situations, or not.

It was just... incredibly, incredibly frustrating. Wouldn't you feel the same way contacting an emergency medical hospital and not being understood or taken seriously (I was also using the relevant Korean I could?)
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snowysunshine



Joined: 06 Dec 2009

PostPosted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 2:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm someone who usually does get giggled at when I'm in public in Korea. That being said, I've never experienced this type of behavior at any hospital in Korea. I always found that they were quick, efficient, and gave me exactly what I needed to get better as soon as possible.

I'm really sorry for your experience. It might be time to find a different hospital to go to.
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Jeunesse



Joined: 11 Nov 2009

PostPosted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 3:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

snowysunshine wrote:
I'm someone who usually does get giggled at when I'm in public in Korea. That being said, I've never experienced this type of behavior at any hospital in Korea. I always found that they were quick, efficient, and gave me exactly what I needed to get better as soon as possible.

I'm really sorry for your experience. It might be time to find a different hospital to go to.


Yeah, I'm going to reach out to the nearest international center and ask them for their recommendations. If it makes a difference, I'm living pretty far from Seoul - in a city, but not a very big one. In a more forgiving mood, I think it might be that many here have probably never interacted with a foreigner. It was still very scary!
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saram_



Joined: 13 May 2008

PostPosted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 3:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

At least I'm not sick any more - the medicine they ended up giving me is working wonders at least. And thankfully the hospital visit ended up being very inexpensive, compared to the highway robbery it would have been back home.


This is the most important point. Obviously they knew how serious it was exactly...and didn't underestimate..

Its all good.
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Scotticus



Joined: 18 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 7:21 am    Post subject: Re: Is this experience normal? Reply with quote

Jeunesse wrote:
(Unfortunately it's not likely my hagwon director will give me health insurance


Correct me if I'm wrong, but aren't they required by law to pay into the national insurance plan... thing?
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Jeunesse



Joined: 11 Nov 2009

PostPosted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 7:24 am    Post subject: Re: Is this experience normal? Reply with quote

Scotticus wrote:
Jeunesse wrote:
(Unfortunately it's not likely my hagwon director will give me health insurance


Correct me if I'm wrong, but aren't they required by law to pay into the national insurance plan... thing?



They are legally required to but many hagwon directors still don't do it. I know I can try to push to have it enforced but I really don't want to have my boss be at odds with me.
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canactuary



Joined: 09 Mar 2010

PostPosted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 4:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It may be you were treated unfairly. But it could be as a previous poster said that she was nervous of speaking english. I've read that saving face is important in Korean culture and I agree. In the office if someone makes a mistake he/she may smile not because they find their mistake funny but because they are nervous or embarassed and want to save face.
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madoka



Joined: 27 Mar 2008

PostPosted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 4:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

canactuary wrote:
It may be you were treated unfairly. But it could be as a previous poster said that she was nervous of speaking english. I've read that saving face is important in Korean culture and I agree. In the office if someone makes a mistake he/she may smile not because they find their mistake funny but because they are nervous or embarassed and want to save face.


I was just talking to a Chinese-American student who told me when her grandfather got pulled over for not completely stopping, he was embarrassed and could not speak English. So he simply smiled at the cop which was his way of showing embarrassment and remorse in an Asian sort of way. Unfortunately, the cop thought he was being disrespectful and not taking the violation seriously, so he took his license away on the spot and wrote him a hefty fine.
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CKAB



Joined: 03 Apr 2010

PostPosted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 5:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sorry you had to go through that, that's degrading. Even back in the USA if someone spoke with a heavy accent from another country it wouldn't get you cracking-up laughter from somewhere that's as serious as a hospital. Sheesh.
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crescent



Joined: 15 Jan 2003
Location: yes.

PostPosted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 5:55 pm    Post subject: Re: Is this experience normal? Reply with quote

Jeunesse wrote:
They are legally required to but many hagwon directors still don't do it. I know I can try to push to have it enforced but I really don't want to have my boss be at odds with me.

These things usually snowball. Good luck with your pension and severance.
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darkjedidave



Joined: 19 Aug 2009
Location: Shanghai/Seoul

PostPosted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 6:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is the very reason I own and wear a few "Take a picture, it will last longer" t shirts
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