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Why no consideration of your neighbors? Noizy Neighbo(u)rs
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AsiaESLbound



Joined: 07 Jan 2010
Location: Truck Stop Missouri

PostPosted: Wed May 05, 2010 5:48 pm    Post subject: Why no consideration of your neighbors? Noizy Neighbo(u)rs Reply with quote

I find it unreasonable to for a young man and woman with a small baby to be yelling an argument and slamming doors at 4:45 many mornings with a baby crying it's head off. This almost daily disturbance of my immediate neighbors is waking everyone up who in turn also yell and slam doors as they make their way out the door for work at various times such as 5:50, 6:00 and 6:30. I've got ear plugs, but it's just so much of a disturbance rattling my brain. I am tired of not getting my sleep where I feel tired, grumpy, and sluggish. It makes me want to go to bed at 7pm which I do many nights. I told my school today I need to move, but they just said, "Oh, that's too bad." Anything they bring up to me in the future? Well you guessed it. "Oh, that's too bad." And then smile and nod.

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ashland



Joined: 05 Dec 2008

PostPosted: Wed May 05, 2010 5:52 pm    Post subject: Re: Why no consideration of your neighbors? Noizy Krazies Reply with quote

AsiaESLbound wrote:
I find it unreasonable to for a young man and woman with a small baby to be yelling an argument and slamming doors at 4:45 many mornings with a baby crying it's head off. This almost daily disturbance of my immediate neighbors is waking everyone up who in turn also yell and slam doors as they make their way out the door for work at various times such as 5:50, 6:00 and 6:30. I've got ear plugs, but it's just so much of a disturbance rattling my brain. I am tired of not getting my sleep where I feel tired, grumpy, and sluggish. It makes me want to go to bed at 7pm which I do many nights. I told my school today I need to move, but they just said, "Oh, that's too bad." Anything they bring up to me in the future? Well you guessed it. "Oh, that's too bad." And then smile and nod.

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suck it up... and stop whinning.
or you have an option to go back home.
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Weigookin74



Joined: 26 Oct 2009

PostPosted: Wed May 05, 2010 6:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Scream out your window 야! 입닥쳐! It means: "Hey! Shutup!" 입다물어줄래요. More polite version - be quite. If that doesn't work. Call 119. If your school really ticks you off and you don't plan on renewing, call your school and ask them to call the police for you at 4 am. Bet they stop saying: "Too bad" soon enough. Depends on how angry you are. But try not to do that unless you're really desperate.

I was stuck in a building with idiot foriegners who would make racket until 2 or 3 am. I had to get up at 6:30 am. I was always tired. I eventually changed education offices because they didn't seem to want to do much about my complaints. Maybe you should ask your school for a letter of release.
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jizza



Joined: 24 Aug 2009

PostPosted: Wed May 05, 2010 6:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

My neighbor is quite loud. He's the only offender in my building.
He played TV really loudly late at night and had drunken chats with his friends at 6am once or twice a week.

He sitill kinda does these things but turned the TV down after I complained to him several times. He flat out refused to change anything at first . Presumably becuase he didn't believe that his TV was so loud. After the 4th time complaining to him, he finally came in my room and listened to the TV volume from my room. He was shocked that it was so loud. He apologized and i haven't had a problem with the TV since, although his loud drunken conversations of which I can hear eveyr word are still a problem sometimes. But I just suck that up
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Senior



Joined: 31 Jan 2010

PostPosted: Wed May 05, 2010 6:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Go buy an apartment in a quiet neighbor hood.
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BoholDiver



Joined: 03 Oct 2009
Location: Canada

PostPosted: Wed May 05, 2010 6:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Summer is coming, and with summer, a pack of losers that hang out on the 1st floor of my building. You see, the 1st floor is a small convenience store whose owner happens to be the landlord's brother, so complaining won't do a thing.

Loserboy and his friends sit on the street all day at plastic picnic tables, smoking, drinking, chatting, and basically wasting their pathetic ajosshi lives away. I was glad for the winter last year. I don't think I've ever been glad for the winter.
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AsiaESLbound



Joined: 07 Jan 2010
Location: Truck Stop Missouri

PostPosted: Wed May 05, 2010 8:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Senior wrote:
Go buy an apartment in a quiet neighbor hood.
Is there such a thing? Probably if I got something much more expensive. When I seen the small size of my studio, I assumed it was a quiet sleeping room house for single working people, but I was dead wrong. It's a sleeping room for families. Yes, young families who are obviously having their arguments over money and time constraints. It's hard for them.

Next time I'm woken, I might just get the heck up and open the door, and say "anio. NO. Bad. Shame on you."
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Senior



Joined: 31 Jan 2010

PostPosted: Wed May 05, 2010 8:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Heavens. I wouldn't give your troubles to a monkey on a rock.
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Fishead soup



Joined: 24 Jun 2007
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Wed May 05, 2010 8:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

American soldiers make much more noise.
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Big Mac



Joined: 17 Sep 2005

PostPosted: Thu May 06, 2010 4:57 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Close the door between your kitchen and the room where you sleep. Trust me, you will hear nothing. Unless your ears are much more sensitive than mine.
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PatrickGHBusan



Joined: 24 Jun 2008
Location: Busan (1997-2008) Canada 2008 -

PostPosted: Thu May 06, 2010 5:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

AsiaESLbound wrote:
Senior wrote:
Go buy an apartment in a quiet neighbor hood.
Is there such a thing? Probably if I got something much more expensive. When I seen the small size of my studio, I assumed it was a quiet sleeping room house for single working people, but I was dead wrong. It's a sleeping room for families. Yes, young families who are obviously having their arguments over money and time constraints. It's hard for them.

Next time I'm woken, I might just get the heck up and open the door, and say "anio. NO. Bad. Shame on you."


Of course there is such a thing... Laughing But it will cost you, hence the word 'buy'.

As for the noisy neighbors...how long has this been going on? How old is the baby?

That can qualify the problem better.

Best bet: try to leave a note in Korean on their door. A polite note saying the screaming in the morning is disturbing others. No need to sign it.

Can't write a note in Korean? Ask a Korean friend to do it for you.

Worst possible bet: take the advice of another poster and scream back at them in rude Korean. Result: you will instantly become villain #1 in the building and may find out later that they have been going througha rough time with the baby..then you look like to ignorant selfish assclown that screamed rudely at his neighbors....

Your choice.
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Forward Observer



Joined: 13 Jan 2009
Location: FOB Gloria

PostPosted: Thu May 06, 2010 7:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Back in '98 when I went back home from Korea the first time, I rented an apt and all three of my next door neighbors were partying till 4-5am, but these girls and guys would whoop And holler (rednecks) out on their porch. It was NOT good times that year. Razz
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Sadebugo1



Joined: 11 May 2003

PostPosted: Thu May 06, 2010 3:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Fishead soup wrote:
American soldiers make much more noise.


Yes, and that makes what's happening to the OP better, how?

Sadebugo
http://travldawrld.blogspot.com/
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AsiaESLbound



Joined: 07 Jan 2010
Location: Truck Stop Missouri

PostPosted: Thu May 06, 2010 3:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Since the weather warmed, people just can't stop monkeying around all night with whatever it is that goes bump, thump, roll, crash and scream. They are doing some all night work like rearranging furniture, refinishin furniture, or some kind of working on parts crapola right above me. Another neighbor on my side that just gets up so early with a screaming baby and the couple argueing around 4:45 many mornings. Freeking people were quiet when the weather was cold, but now that it's warm, they can't calm the F down to actually get some sleep. I'm getting cranky. Getting woke up every few minutes all night long leaves me painfully exhausted. I suspect I was woken about 100 times last night/early this morning. It was a long night/early morning of clock watching to see if it was time for work ever time I woke up.
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peppermint



Joined: 13 May 2003
Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.

PostPosted: Thu May 06, 2010 4:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've got a neighbour who practices bass each night directly below my bed. Work starts at 7 am, so it's not an ideal scene. I can sleep through nearly anything, but I have trouble getting to sleep in a noisy setting. A good set of in ear earphones with some quiet music made my problem manageable- perhaps a good set of earplugs would help you.
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