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red_devil

Joined: 30 Jun 2008 Location: Korea
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Posted: Thu May 20, 2010 8:00 pm Post subject: |
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Just like a stupid, ignorant "foreigner" to come to someone else's house and tell them how to behave / expect them to behave the way you think they should. You'll do fine on Dave's forums, can't say the same for your stay in Korea though.  |
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lukas
Joined: 22 Aug 2009 Location: Bucheon
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Posted: Thu May 20, 2010 8:27 pm Post subject: |
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Do you like see food?
Koreans eating and talking with their mouth open doesn't bother/offend me, but I do find it very distracting. I almost can't help but look directly into their mouths while their chowing down and having a conversation. It's like a train wreck. Also, it makes wonder if any of my co-teachers notice that, when they ask me a question with a mouthful of food, I just can't bring myself to reply until I chew and swallow.
Blabbering with a mouthful isn't rude, same goes with staring, right?
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hexv
Joined: 14 Dec 2009 Location: Ulsan
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Posted: Fri May 21, 2010 12:17 am Post subject: |
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| red_devil wrote: |
Just like a stupid, ignorant "foreigner" to come to someone else's house and tell them how to behave / expect them to behave the way you think they should. You'll do fine on Dave's forums, can't say the same for your stay in Korea though.  |
Take it easy devil, I'm not expecting them to behave in any way - This is Korean country and they can behave however they want.
I was wondering about (not criticising/condemning) the issue and that's why I posted the question, so tone down on the emotion.
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air76
Joined: 13 Nov 2007
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Posted: Fri May 21, 2010 12:40 am Post subject: |
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| hexv wrote: |
| red_devil wrote: |
Just like a stupid, ignorant "foreigner" to come to someone else's house and tell them how to behave / expect them to behave the way you think they should. You'll do fine on Dave's forums, can't say the same for your stay in Korea though.  |
Take is easy devil, I'm not expecting them to behave in any way - This is Korean country and they can behave however they want.
I was wondering about (not criticising/condemning) the issue and that's why I posted the question, so tone down on the emotion. |
I will criticize and condemn the practice of slurping and chewing with your mouth open while you eat....red_devil, feel free to re-direct your angst towards me. It isn't always ignorant to come into someone's house and tell them how to behave....Would it be ignorant to suggest to Koreans that they stop throwing their rubbish on the ground? Would it be ignorant to expect that they stop beating dogs to death? (I would have no problem with the eating of dog if they were killed humanely) Would it be ignorant to disagree with the practice of married men frequenting prostitutes as often as going to the Mini-Stop?
I think that people are often far too politically correct. There are times when a society does need an outside influence to show them when a certain cultural practice is either wrong or could be modified....and this includes my own country. I am not just picking on Korea. |
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Whitey Otez

Joined: 31 May 2003 Location: The suburbs of Seoul
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Posted: Fri May 21, 2010 1:13 pm Post subject: |
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I was once told it's kind of a rebellion, that using manners makes you a snob.
I also recently read about coffee slurpers, and how they slurp at the maximum to atomize the liquid and get the full array of flavor. If nothing else, it makes for a good excuse for slurping.
Anyway, whatever their technique is, it works. I ate essentially the same things in smaller portions and still came out fatter than my colleagues at my academy. Perhaps we should do as the Romans do.  |
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djsmnc

Joined: 20 Jan 2003 Location: Dave's ESL Cafe
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Posted: Fri May 21, 2010 2:14 pm Post subject: |
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| I hereby call this the "sand in the crack" thread |
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Forever

Joined: 12 Nov 2009
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Posted: Fri May 21, 2010 11:44 pm Post subject: |
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I recently received a copy of SMOE's "Foreigner's Guide to Teaching in Korea" or something like that (actually very helpful and informative for n00bs) and there's a whole chapter on etiquette. Listed among Korean diners' finer qualities is the notion that Koreans eat quietly and slowly. |
I laughed when reading that chapter also.
I especially laughed when I read how "all younger people on buses/susbway stand up and let older people sit down.
What a joke - I always thought I was the only person on the bus/subway who stood up and let some poor old adjumma sit down.
The other "Young" Koreans just put some earplugs in and pretend to be sleeping or read a book and ignore the old people.
I also found - "Make as little noise as possible whilst eating your soup" a joke
and "Don't drink soup straight from the bowl" a joke as my principal always does it and..
"talking during meals is traditionally frowned upon in Korea" the biggest joke.
OH - its "Ok to pat a childs bottom" as Koreans love their children more than foreigners love their children - is just a crack-up |
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caniff
Joined: 03 Feb 2004 Location: All over the map
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Posted: Sat May 22, 2010 12:37 am Post subject: |
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| Forever wrote: |
| seoulsucker wrote: |
I recently received a copy of SMOE's "Foreigner's Guide to Teaching in Korea" or something like that (actually very helpful and informative for n00bs) and there's a whole chapter on etiquette. Listed among Korean diners' finer qualities is the notion that Koreans eat quietly and slowly. |
I laughed when reading that chapter also.
I especially laughed when I read how "all younger people on buses/susbway stand up and let older people sit down.
What a joke - I always thought I was the only person on the bus/subway who stood up and let some poor old adjumma sit down.
The other "Young" Koreans just put some earplugs in and pretend to be sleeping or read a book and ignore the old people.
I also found - "Make as little noise as possible whilst eating your soup" a joke
and "Don't drink soup straight from the bowl" a joke as my principal always does it and..
"talking during meals is traditionally frowned upon in Korea" the biggest joke.
OH - its "Ok to pat a childs bottom" as Koreans love their children more than foreigners love their children - is just a crack-up |
Somebody actually wrote that shite and it was allowed to be distributed? Wonders truly never cease over here. |
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The Goalie
Joined: 17 Nov 2009 Location: Chungcheongnamdo
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Posted: Sat May 22, 2010 12:52 am Post subject: |
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[/quote]OH - its "Ok to pat a childs bottom" as Koreans love their children more than foreigners love their children - is just a crack-up[/quote]
The quotation marks run out just when things are getting interesting. I'm not SMOE so I don't know but is that really the conclusion they came to regarding the bottom patting thing? |
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Forever

Joined: 12 Nov 2009
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Posted: Sat May 22, 2010 1:10 am Post subject: |
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Thats what the book says - but it kind of MEANS - its ok - for Korean people to pat childrens butts - so ignore it when you see it - because its a KOrean custom.
If you (a foreigner) do it - then they will call the police for "sexual harassment"
Here is what they say -
Though foreigners may find this behavior a little odd or unpleasant, it is invariably well-intentioned and is actually considered a compliment among Korean mothers".
also for a laugh -
"In Korea, most adults still believe it's inappropriate for girls to wear makeup before they've graduated from High school. For this reason, Korean's middle and High schools ban their students from wearing cosmetics".
and
"While boarding a subway car, stand in line on both sides of the door and do not walk to the front of the line or push in. Wait for the passengers getting off the subway to clear the doorway before entering the subway car".
and
"It is customary in Korea to check if there is someone using a bathroom cubicle by knocking first. If you are using the cubicle and someone knocks, knock in reply to indicate your presence.".
and
"In Korea some premises have a single public washroom in which the toilets are not separated by locking doors. If you need to use the washroom in a place like this, make sure a member of the opposite sex is not inside before your enter"
???????
how do you make sure of that ???? |
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