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Captain Corea

Joined: 28 Feb 2005 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 2:41 am Post subject: |
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| I would love to go to Malawi. Anyone ever been? |
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Moldy Rutabaga

Joined: 01 Jul 2003 Location: Ansan, Korea
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Posted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 5:01 am Post subject: |
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Fun thread. Obviously, there are exceptions. Generally, people in big cities are less friendly than those in small towns. Newfies from the outport towns are tremendously welcoming, and people from St. John's are cold, cliquey, and arrogant, almost without exception.
I don't think politeness is the same as friendliness. I find Koreans I meet helpful, but there is always that distance that you can never, ever overcome.
For friendly, I'll pick Mexico. I've never been in a foreign country where I felt so accepted and part of the picture. No sense of us and you that I get every moment in Korea. Hello, amigo.
>I liked Thais, too. I agree. Filipinos, not quite as much.
Now, I find the Thai and Balinese nice, but rather all-business. To me Filipinos were as close to Mexicans, in terms of friendliness, that I've seen in Asia.
The Vietnamese are only friendly when they're trying to make a sale, which is every second you are there. Otherwise I'm not convinced they would care if you were about to get run over.
>Canadians are alright but the under-25 generation are rude louts.
Sadly, yes. I cringe at some of the people I've met. "We Canadians are polite and humble. HEY, YOU! OVER THERE! SEE HOW POLITE AND HUMBLE WE ARE!"
I agree that Americans are generally really quite nice. But I would only live in California if they could get rid of all the Californians. |
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curiousaboutkorea

Joined: 21 Jan 2009
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Posted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 5:12 am Post subject: |
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Wow, another crap list from Lonely Planet. And before I even read the replies, I know there would be people on this thread adding countries not mentioned on the list. "But I had such a great time in Turkmenistan", "Why didn't they mention Equatorial Guinea?", "They forget to mention The Pitcairn Islands" and so on...
These lists are ridiculous and don't do much examining of the countries. In some cases it seems to just be paying lip service to some countries that one might assume to be unfriendly (US for example). In other cases it seems they're just trying to cover a variety of countries so they (the writers and readers) can show how hip and experienced travelers they are.  |
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nautilus

Joined: 26 Nov 2005 Location: Je jump, Tu jump, oui jump!
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Posted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 5:14 am Post subject: |
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| Murakano wrote: |
| Thailand and Vietnam..I feel like a walking $ sign more than not. |
Agreed, i found myself stressed and driven out of vietnam after 2 weeks thanks to the harrasment and money-grabbing.Thailand is great but I never felt I could trust those people very far. Laos on the other hand, is definitely the friendliest and most laid back in SE Asia. Quite a different character to its neighbours.
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| I would love to go to Malawi. |
Ah..Malawi.. "The warm heart of Africa" was its advertising slogan for years. Actually political problems aside, most of the southern african countries are gentle, friendly and generous.
In Europe I'd put rep. of ireland as friendliest, with the easygoing Netherlands a close second. |
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mariposita
Joined: 07 May 2010 Location: Salt Lake City, UT
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Posted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 7:29 pm Post subject: |
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I had no idea the US was considered friendly, but I think it depends on where you are. For example, I lived in FL and didn't think Floridians were very friendly (with the exception of anything Disney), especially for being a tourist state. However, I find people in the western states except Cali to be friendlier and more approachable.
I'd be interested to the see the Least Friendly Countries list. |
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WadRUG'naDoo
Joined: 15 Jun 2010 Location: Shanghai
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Posted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 9:57 pm Post subject: |
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| Lonely Planet can't even provide acceptable maps in my experience. Their Taiwan city maps were riddled with errors. |
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nautilus

Joined: 26 Nov 2005 Location: Je jump, Tu jump, oui jump!
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Posted: Sun Jun 20, 2010 2:23 am Post subject: |
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I'd be interested to the see the Least Friendly Countries list. |
Any suggestions? |
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eamo

Joined: 08 Mar 2003 Location: Shepherd's Bush, 1964.
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Posted: Sun Jun 20, 2010 3:23 am Post subject: |
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Ireland friendly?
Most Irish would be friendly enough.......as the twee saying goes, "a stranger is just a friend you haven't met yet".
Also, the friendliness of the Irish might depend a lot on if you're judging them from the pub on a Friday night or if you're trying to approach a busy Dublin yuppy on his way to the winebar.....
But walk into certain areas of Irish cities, especially my hometown Belfast, and you could easily get a welcome you'll never forget! Luckily, Belfast has some excellent hospitals.....
I'd say on average Americans are the most welcoming people. |
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kiknkorea

Joined: 16 May 2008
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Posted: Sun Jun 20, 2010 5:31 am Post subject: |
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| Many people are very friendly all across the USA if you display what is proper manners to them. I can't say they like who they think or see as being foreigners given how so many Asians are coming in to operate small businesses that is only xferring wealth over to Asia, because they spend very little in America, but send it to their homeland or keep it under their mattress. Miser antisocial martyrs. |
Aside from this being largely untrue, doesn't this sound like a lot of ESL teachers here?
How many times have you preached about saving everything you can and not spending money here?
And you're going to criticize some Asian business owners for not spending?
Lame. |
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travel zen
Joined: 22 Feb 2005 Location: Good old Toronto, Canada
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Posted: Mon Jun 21, 2010 3:16 pm Post subject: |
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+1
Blame the Brits!
They never should have let the colony go...they need guidance still...  |
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Zulethe

Joined: 04 Jul 2008
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Posted: Mon Jun 21, 2010 4:33 pm Post subject: |
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An Irish man saved my life...I just got hosed in Thailand for 6 grand back in 1990...it was my mother's money.
I spent three days in Thailand with no money. I had to beg for money to get to the airport and then they had this friggin airport tax...
I cried the all the way back to America...I was so depressed I was suicidal.
I told my story to this Irishman at a bar at the airport....I had to talk to someone....anyone.
These words saved my life....
Hey mate, what's six grand to your mother when you're six feet under?
those words changed everything....thanks Irishman.....where ever you are. |
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cj1976
Joined: 26 Oct 2005
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Posted: Mon Jun 21, 2010 8:04 pm Post subject: |
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| Zulethe wrote: |
An Irish man saved my life...I just got hosed in Thailand for 6 grand back in 1990...it was my mother's money.
I spent three days in Thailand with no money. I had to beg for money to get to the airport and then they had this friggin airport tax...
I cried the all the way back to America...I was so depressed I was suicidal.
I told my story to this Irishman at a bar at the airport....I had to talk to someone....anyone.
These words saved my life....
Hey mate, what's six grand to your mother when you're six feet under?
those words changed everything....thanks Irishman.....where ever you are. |
Interesting tale, but I'm curious how you lost the money. |
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oldfatfarang
Joined: 19 May 2005 Location: On the road to somewhere.
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Posted: Mon Jun 21, 2010 9:51 pm Post subject: |
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| Zulethe wrote: |
An Irish man saved my life...I just got hosed in Thailand for 6 grand back in 1990...it was my mother's money.
I spent three days in Thailand with no money. I had to beg for money to get to the airport and then they had this friggin airport tax...
I cried the all the way back to America...I was so depressed I was suicidal.
I told my story to this Irishman at a bar at the airport....I had to talk to someone....anyone.
These words saved my life....
Hey mate, what's six grand to your mother when you're six feet under?
those words changed everything....thanks Irishman.....where ever you are. |
Been there, done that. I once had a Thai hotel owner and her brother 'fix' my digital room safe . This included stealing all my cash ($2,000). They didn't steal my credit card, but I had to cancel it immediately as they'd seen the number. I had just enough money to bus to the airport, and I had my EPIK ticket home.
The Thai cops wouldn't help much: ("Happens all the time"). However, I kept going to the police station and getting them to come to the hotel. Apparently, the more you do this, the more cops go back later to squeeze the hotel owners. So seven visits from the cops later, I hadn't got my money back - but I guess the hotel owner didn't have much left either.
This was an earth shattering experience for me. In fifteen years of visiting the Land of Smiles, I'd never had a problem. I'd met countless tourists and sex-pats who'd been skinned alive by Thais, but I'd always thought it was their fault. I guess it was just my turn.
PS: I still think Thailand (and Thais) are the most welcoming and helpful people I've met in years of travelling in 41 countries. I still plan to retire there soon. |
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Caffeinated
Joined: 11 Feb 2010
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Posted: Mon Jun 21, 2010 9:59 pm Post subject: |
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| A friend of mine had $1000US stolen from the safe in his apartment as well. No luck getting it back. Luckily it was at the tail-end of a month-long stay. Be warned. |
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DrugstoreCowgirl
Joined: 08 May 2009 Location: Daegu-where the streets have no name
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Posted: Mon Jun 21, 2010 10:30 pm Post subject: |
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| mariposita wrote: |
I had no idea the US was considered friendly, but I think it depends on where you are. For example, I lived in FL and didn't think Floridians were very friendly (with the exception of anything Disney), especially for being a tourist state. However, I find people in the western states except Cali to be friendlier and more approachable.
I'd be interested to the see the Least Friendly Countries list. |
Really? I grew up in FL and I think people are quite friendly, though maybe certain areas are better than others. I think the South is the friendliest part of the US. |
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