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sallymonster

Joined: 06 Feb 2010 Location: Seattle area
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Posted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 5:10 am Post subject: My Dog Died. |
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I called my parents this morning (to keep in touch and whatnot) and found out that the family dog suddenly died a couple days ago. He was only five, and he appeared to be quite healthy, but he just dropped dead while my parents were at work, apparently from a heart attack.
I've only been in Korea for just over a week, and I feel responsible for the dog's death. The dog was very bonded with me, so I feel my departure for Korea was too much for his little heart to handle. I know I shouldn't think that way and that the dog likely would've died even if I was there, but still. . .
I'm only posting about this here because I don't know who else to talk to, as I don't know many people here yet. I'm feeling pretty depressed right now.
Has anyone else here had to deal with the loss of a pet or person from back home while living in Korea or another far away country?

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shifty
Joined: 21 Jun 2004
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Posted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 5:32 am Post subject: |
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| I'm very sorry about your loss. You should tell us what he was like, the kind of things he did.. |
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NYC_Gal

Joined: 08 Dec 2009
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Posted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 5:57 am Post subject: |
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My dog died less than a month after I moved here. I'm sorry to hear about your loss. The roughest part was visiting home last month and not seeing his beds around the house, nor his toys scattered everywhere.
You may want to get a pet whilst here. Rodents live for 2 years on average. I got 2 male rats. One is frigging awesome and plays games with me and snuggles. The other's a jackass. When I do leave, I'll try to take them with me, no matter the cost. If it's not possible without ridiculous quarantine, I'll give them to my friend, who's already agreed to keep them if it comes down to it.
What was your dog like? Did it do any nifty tricks? |
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tanklor1
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Posted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 7:37 am Post subject: |
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| My dog died back in '08 when I was living here. I'm sorry for your loss, I know how you feel. |
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AsiaESLbound
Joined: 07 Jan 2010 Location: Truck Stop Missouri
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Posted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 8:09 am Post subject: |
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| There is such a thing as broken heart over loss of something that means a lot. Sorry. |
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Underwaterbob

Joined: 08 Jan 2005 Location: In Cognito
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Posted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 8:16 am Post subject: |
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| I came here to warn you about looking for sympathy from Dave's. It seems you found it. Good job. |
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Lunar Groove Gardener
Joined: 05 Jan 2005 Location: 1987 Subaru
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Posted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 1:03 pm Post subject: |
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| A dog's love is never lost. |
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hellofaniceguy

Joined: 10 Jan 2003 Location: On your computer screen!
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Posted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 1:17 pm Post subject: |
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Death is inevitable...everyone reacts differently...some wail for show and some wail because they mean it. Others are more emotional and some show no emotional....I take the approach...it's done, get over it and get on with my life or else it will make me a wreck. But I never forget.
I have had my dog for 14 years....got him before he was born! And I know I'll be deeply hurt when he passes....animals are better than people sometimes! |
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conrad2
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Posted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 5:03 pm Post subject: |
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| hellofaniceguy wrote: |
Death is inevitable...everyone reacts differently...some wail for show and some wail because they mean it. Others are more emotional and some show no emotional....I take the approach...it's done, get over it and get on with my life or else it will make me a wreck. But I never forget.
I have had my dog for 14 years....got him before he was born! And I know I'll be deeply hurt when he passes....animals are better than people sometimes! |
How do you get a dog before its born? |
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conrad2
Joined: 05 Nov 2009
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Posted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 5:04 pm Post subject: |
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| I had a dog once. He didnt die. My parants sent him to a nice farm where he could run and play all day with the other doggies. |
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sallymonster

Joined: 06 Feb 2010 Location: Seattle area
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Posted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 5:48 pm Post subject: |
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| shifty wrote: |
| You should tell us what he was like, the kind of things he did.. |
The dog was a Corgi. He could do all the usual tricks, like "roll over" and "shake", but nothing fancy. He was a little rascal, but very loyal, he used to follow me all over the house. Being a herding breed, he loved to chase and be chased. He also loved car rides and walks and his squeaky toys. When he wanted someone to play with him he would often lie on his back to show off.
He was my best friend, and it will be hard for me to not see him when I eventually go back to the States.
At least my cat (who also lives with my parents in the States) is still very much alive and well so far. |
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