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All men are potential paedos
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oskinny1



Joined: 10 Nov 2006
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 08, 2010 10:29 pm    Post subject: All men are potential paedos Reply with quote

With the kidnappings and rapes of young Korean students making headlines...

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Some schools have even banned male parents from entering the school premises.


I wounder if the waigook-in Daegu paedo will have schools banning foreigners from walking past them.

Rest of the article here.
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Juregen



Joined: 30 May 2006

PostPosted: Thu Jul 08, 2010 11:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am very much inclined to do the same.

Whenever a man walks in my alarm bells start ringing.
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crossmr



Joined: 22 Nov 2008
Location: Hwayangdong, Seoul

PostPosted: Thu Jul 08, 2010 11:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The last thing we need Korea to do is adopt the utter paranoia and fear based lifestyle of the west. We've got parents being harassed by people and police in public parks for taking pictures of their own children, we've got male teachers utterly afraid to go to work because of how the system currently works (1 accusation even if total garbage means the end of your career, and probably your life as you know it), etc, etc.

There is being safe and there is being a loony. Korea needs to focus on being safe.
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bianca_dee



Joined: 14 Jun 2010
Location: United Kingdom

PostPosted: Fri Jul 09, 2010 12:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Tsk3. We'll see if that will help reduce the problem.
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hsaeoa



Joined: 13 Jan 2010
Location: Daegu

PostPosted: Fri Jul 09, 2010 12:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Let me tell you a TRUE story.

Back home I have a friend who is a highly respected college professor.
He was going through a bitter divorce. He has 2 children, both girls. 1 is 8 and 1 is 10 years old. While going through the divorce his wife decided to send the children to therapy. The therapist was a friend of his soon to be ex-wife. During these sessions she convinced the oldest daughter that she had been molested by her father. He was immediately fired, arrested and investigated. The wife was given full custody until the conclusion of the investigation. The younger daughter refused to speak to her father. After a long investigation it came to light that the whole molsetation claim was fabricated. The therapist was charged with some kind of fraud or something and the wife lost sole custody. But, basically the guys reputation was ruined by false claims of abuse. He was never given his job back and people who knew him during this ordeal still don't truly believe his innocence.
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Junior



Joined: 18 Nov 2005
Location: the eye

PostPosted: Fri Jul 09, 2010 2:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

At least that article does not mention or demonise foreigners.
Maybe Korea is waking up to the fact that the enemy is most often home-grown.
I've seen several dodgy foreign men over the years that I would never entrust my child to. But I've seen far more ill-behaving Korean men that I would not want within a mile of a schoolyard.
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BoholDiver



Joined: 03 Oct 2009
Location: Canada

PostPosted: Fri Jul 09, 2010 2:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I find it highly hypocritical that now they are having some massive crackdwn on peds. Talk about 10 years overdue.

And also, the Burberry Man problem has been going on for years and no one has done a damn thing about it. Burberry men are one step away from being child molestors.
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Konglishman



Joined: 14 Sep 2007
Location: Nanjing

PostPosted: Fri Jul 09, 2010 3:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

BoholDiver wrote:
I find it highly hypocritical that now they are having some massive crackdwn on peds. Talk about 10 years overdue.

And also, the Burberry Man problem has been going on for years and no one has done a damn thing about it. Burberry men are one step away from being child molestors.


Burberry men???? Do they grow on trees or bushes? All joking aside, you should explain your exact definition of a burberry man as I have no idea what you are talking about.
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Mr. Pink



Joined: 21 Oct 2003
Location: China

PostPosted: Fri Jul 09, 2010 3:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

BoholDiver wrote:
I find it highly hypocritical that now they are having some massive crackdwn on peds. Talk about 10 years overdue.

And also, the Burberry Man problem has been going on for years and no one has done a damn thing about it. Burberry men are one step away from being child molestors.


Agree with this. The fact that most adult females have seen a Burberry Man at some point outside their school is pretty damn scary.

Also, as a professional teacher I can say looking at the statistics in my own territory that about 30% of the cases of professional misconduct (sexually related) are done by females. Yes, males are in the majority, but that doesn't mean they have exclusive domain on the pedo title. This is cases that are reported. Let me ask: who is more liable to report being assaulted, a female that is touched or forced into intercourse by a male teacher, or a male that is touched or forced into intercourse by a female teacher?

I don't like hysteria when it comes to the witchhunt the West has on males around children. I hope Korea doesn't get that bad. As a father, I wouldn't want to live in a country that looked at me as doing something wrong when I was taking photos of my daughter or holding her hand while walking down the street.
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SeoulNate



Joined: 04 Jun 2010
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 09, 2010 3:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Isnt it a cologne company?
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peppermint



Joined: 13 May 2003
Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.

PostPosted: Fri Jul 09, 2010 3:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Konglishman wrote:
BoholDiver wrote:
I find it highly hypocritical that now they are having some massive crackdwn on peds. Talk about 10 years overdue.

And also, the Burberry Man problem has been going on for years and no one has done a damn thing about it. Burberry men are one step away from being child molestors.


Burberry men???? Do they grow on trees or bushes? All joking aside, you should explain your exact definition of a burberry man as I have no idea what you are talking about.


Burberry men is the Konglish word for flashers, Burberry being the Konglish for their trenchcoat, I guess.
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The Gipkik



Joined: 30 Mar 2009

PostPosted: Fri Jul 09, 2010 4:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

hsaeoa wrote:
Let me tell you a TRUE story.

Back home I have a friend who is a highly respected college professor.
He was going through a bitter divorce. He has 2 children, both girls. 1 is 8 and 1 is 10 years old. While going through the divorce his wife decided to send the children to therapy. The therapist was a friend of his soon to be ex-wife. During these sessions she convinced the oldest daughter that she had been molested by her father. He was immediately fired, arrested and investigated. The wife was given full custody until the conclusion of the investigation. The younger daughter refused to speak to her father. After a long investigation it came to light that the whole molsetation claim was fabricated. The therapist was charged with some kind of fraud or something and the wife lost sole custody. But, basically the guys reputation was ruined by false claims of abuse. He was never given his job back and people who knew him during this ordeal still don't truly believe his innocence.


The tragic thing about your story is that it isn't rare. You wouldn't believe the number of people I personally know or second hand that have had this almost identical problem. Family law is in a shambles.
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chellovek



Joined: 29 Feb 2008

PostPosted: Fri Jul 09, 2010 4:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yeah just another moral panic.

Anyone familiar with the UK's own paedo panic in the past decade will know how potentially farcical and tragic these types of things can become.
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crossmr



Joined: 22 Nov 2008
Location: Hwayangdong, Seoul

PostPosted: Fri Jul 09, 2010 5:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

chellovek wrote:
Yeah just another moral panic.

Anyone familiar with the UK's own paedo panic in the past decade will know how potentially farcical and tragic these types of things can become.


Yes. I occasionally read BBC news and see some random stories about, usually, fathers being harassed by strangers, police, etc. I read an article on that just a couple weeks ago where some guy was harassed for taking pictures of his kids on some slide or something when he was only taking pictures of his kids when they were on it alone.
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Joe Boxer



Joined: 25 Dec 2007
Location: Bundang, South Korea

PostPosted: Fri Jul 09, 2010 5:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

peppermint wrote:
Konglishman wrote:
BoholDiver wrote:
I find it highly hypocritical that now they are having some massive crackdwn on peds. Talk about 10 years overdue.

And also, the Burberry Man problem has been going on for years and no one has done a damn thing about it. Burberry men are one step away from being child molestors.


Burberry men???? Do they grow on trees or bushes? All joking aside, you should explain your exact definition of a burberry man as I have no idea what you are talking about.


Burberry men is the Konglish word for flashers, Burberry being the Konglish for their trenchcoat, I guess.

I would think that a guy with the name "Konglishman" would know that Smile
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