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Hotwire



Joined: 29 Aug 2010
Location: Multiverse

PostPosted: Tue Oct 12, 2010 5:06 am    Post subject: I wanna stick! Reply with quote

All the korean teachers at my hakwan have drum sticks to beat the desks with and keep the kids in check.

I asked if I could have one too but was told no.

Boo hoo.
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Gom



Joined: 05 Oct 2010

PostPosted: Tue Oct 12, 2010 5:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Buy one?
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rooster_2006



Joined: 14 Oct 2007

PostPosted: Tue Oct 12, 2010 5:40 am    Post subject: Re: I wanna stick! Reply with quote

Hotwire wrote:
All the korean teachers at my hakwan have drum sticks to beat the desks with and keep the kids in check.

I asked if I could have one too but was told no.

Boo hoo.
You aren't missing much.

Clapping, drum sticks, etc. -- kids build up a "tolerance" for that stuff rather quickly.

In the first month, you only need to clap or drum once and the whole room goes quiet.

In your second month, ten or so claps/drum stick taps will do it, maybe if accompanied by a few verbal commands...

By the sixth month, it doesn't matter whether you have a drumstick or not. Laughing
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lprice001



Joined: 13 Sep 2010

PostPosted: Tue Oct 12, 2010 6:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

After the sixth month? I am in my second, and those kids couldn't give a darn if I beat the desk with a stick or screamed at them. They would laugh.
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Hotwire



Joined: 29 Aug 2010
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PostPosted: Tue Oct 12, 2010 7:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

^^

Curious, do you just go with the flow and take it or do you still TRY..?

By the way I honeslty am making no value judgements.

I have a freiend who just takes the abuse and always gets renewed at his jobs despite his own admission that

'I'm barely there, I don't think they even notice my presense, I just plug in the cd and let them do what they want, anything for an easy life.' He might take issue if they really verbally assault him in a strong manner but that's about it.

I still try and although I honestly have seen evidence of huge improvement in my student's English, I have never been at one job for more than a year due to being 'too serious' despite also playing games, videos and having decent classroom management (still an effort to maintain.)

I sometimes SINCERELY wish I was like my friend and just soaked it up and ignored it and went through the motions.

It's just so hard to have a 10 year old punk dissing you to your face in front of the whole class and making it hard for the good students who actually really do want to learn - and just soak it up.

I've tried and tried even saying to myself 'just imagine it's not real or you're not really there, be zen etc' but my real personality kicks in eventually and I will assert myself and make it clear in a non threatening manner that this is not cool etc and impliment some kind of reward and debit system.

I want the easy life Sad
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le-paul



Joined: 07 Apr 2009
Location: dans la chambre

PostPosted: Tue Oct 12, 2010 5:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i started hiding the drum sticks in our academy slowly over a couple of months. I thought maybe the teachers might learn how to discipline/control the kids instead of being lazy and just threatening/hitting them.
Instead, they just found ways to invent new more powerful sticks by rolling up newspapers and covering them with gaffa tape etc., lead pipes - that kind of thing.
They have no imagination when it comes to teaching methods but ask them to invent 'paddling sticks'...

point is - make your own - its quite easy apprarently.
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Fishead soup



Joined: 24 Jun 2007
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Tue Oct 12, 2010 7:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Don't use the stick. Corporal Punishment is on it's way out in Korea. The only reason why it's still being used is that Korean teachers can really unite and help out someone if they get in a tight spot over this legally vague situation. As a foreigner you will get zero support if the students decides to take legal action.

Corporal Punishment is not effective. You are just playing your Ace card from there really is nowhere to go. Once students no longer fear you they will just tease you until you do something really stupid that you will regret that will not only cost you your job but might block any future prospects of getting a job in Korea.
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tanklor1



Joined: 13 Jun 2006

PostPosted: Tue Oct 12, 2010 7:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Fishead soup wrote:
Don't use the stick. Corporal Punishment is on it's way out in Korea. The only reason why it's still being used is that Korean teachers can really unite and help out someone if they get in a tight spot over this legally vague situation. As a foreigner you will get zero support if the students decides to take legal action.

Corporal Punishment is not effective. You are just playing your Ace card from there really is nowhere to go. Once students no longer fear you they will just tease you until you do something really stupid that you will regret that will not only cost you your job but might block any future prospects of getting a job in Korea.


Agree.
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Kaypea



Joined: 09 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Tue Oct 12, 2010 8:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I still remember at the hogwan I used to teach, a couple of the Korean teachers had love sticks which I don't think they ever used. Once, a little girl student took a male teacher's love stick and ran around the hallway giggling, knowing he would do diddly squat. (That sounded dirty, didn't it?)

I have a running joke with the other teachers that I really want one of the sticks, but I'm not allowed. Really, though, I wouldn't know how to use it... that kind of discipline's never made sense to me, personally, because I didn't grow up with it. There's better and more subtle ways to deal with students. OP, sounds like what you're doing is fine. I'm surprised your schools haven't been appreciating it. At my school, I don't think I'm supposed to let the students get away with bloody murder. On the occasions when I teach through/around/whatever classroom anarchy, I always regret it because I know it's such s*tty teaching, and I think the coteaches think less of me when I don't stop the lesson and try to regain focus... I feel really guilty on days when I just let the clock run out.
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bobbybigfoot



Joined: 05 May 2007
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Tue Oct 12, 2010 8:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Fishead soup wrote:
Corporal Punishment is not effective.


If done properly it is. A controlled beating is painful, scary and humiliating. Word will spread fast once little Min Soo gets his tail black and blue. The good thing about physical discipline is that, if done properly, doesn't need to be used very often.

And the teacher should not be the one dishing it out. Quite simply, a teacher should merely have to ring a bell, have a big, scary (but controlled) Korean come in and handle the situation.

The kids soon learn what they can and cannot do.

The problem is that respect is not being taught properly. Not here in Korea, not back home either.

In Korea, parents don't respect their kids' rights to be kids, to have fun. The kids certainly don't respect us foreign teachers. Our bosses/administrators don't respect English or those of us who teach it.

It's a vicious cycle.

The end result: overworked and tired kids who learn at a snail's pace.
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Kaypea



Joined: 09 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Tue Oct 12, 2010 8:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I still remember at the hogwan I used to teach, a couple of the Korean teachers had love sticks which I don't think they ever used. Once, a little girl student took a male teacher's love stick and ran around the hallway giggling, knowing he would do diddly squat. (That sounded dirty, didn't it?)

I have a running joke with the other teachers that I really want one of the sticks, but I'm not allowed. Really, though, I wouldn't know how to use it... that kind of discipline's never made sense to me, personally, because I didn't grow up with it. There's better and more subtle ways to deal with students. OP, sounds like what you're doing is fine. I'm surprised your schools haven't been appreciating it. At my school, I don't think I'm supposed to let the students get away with bloody murder. On the occasions when I teach through/around/whatever classroom anarchy, I always regret it because I know it's such s*tty teaching, and I think the coteaches think less of me when I don't stop the lesson and try to regain focus... I feel really guilty on days when I just let the clock run out.
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Kaypea



Joined: 09 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Tue Oct 12, 2010 8:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I still remember at the hogwan I used to teach, a couple of the Korean teachers had love sticks which I don't think they ever used. Once, a little girl student took a male teacher's love stick and ran around the hallway giggling, knowing he would do diddly squat. (That sounded dirty, didn't it?)
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wiganer



Joined: 13 Jul 2010

PostPosted: Tue Oct 12, 2010 8:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kaypea wrote:

Really, though, I wouldn't know how to use it... that kind of discipline's never made sense to me, personally, because I didn't grow up with it. There's better and more subtle ways to deal with students.


Do you not think that is a really arrogant thing to say - because it hasn't been your experience then it is useless? Rolling Eyes

If you were ever in the army - if you can be something like your training platoon NCO/Drill instructor - the good ones always infused humour with discipline. I still fondly remember my training NCO's twenty years later - though they made me run up a hill with a rifle above my head, they were also fair and could also lighten a situation. I found those attributes to be important in maintaining classroom control.
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sharkey



Joined: 12 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Tue Oct 12, 2010 10:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have a 2 foot bamboo stick.. It was a gift from another teacher. I don't hit the kids because my co-teacher will do that. I just use it for pointing and getting attention.
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Caffeinated



Joined: 11 Feb 2010

PostPosted: Tue Oct 12, 2010 10:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

At Monday's school meeting the teachers were informed that corporal punishment is verboten. Maybe something got lost in the translation but I was told "punishment points" were the suggested way to go.
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