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What do you honestly think when you go home?
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Pa Jan Jo A Hamnida



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PostPosted: Sat Oct 30, 2010 9:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Most are also employable, own property and enjoy a better quality of life than the average member of this board.



chellovek wrote:
Quite so, fat people are bad and immoral, as some have posited before now.
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chellovek



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PostPosted: Sun Oct 31, 2010 3:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Pa Jan Jo A Hamnida wrote:
Most are also employable, own property and enjoy a better quality of life than the average member of this board.



chellovek wrote:
Quite so, fat people are bad and immoral, as some have posited before now.


Doesn't necessarily invalidate the theory that fat people are bad and immoral. A person can be employable, own property etc and still be bad and immoral.
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TECO



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PostPosted: Sun Oct 31, 2010 3:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

asc422 wrote:
Messageboard rant:

Don't worry about what other people think about you and stop comparing yourself to others. Get out of that mindset even if it requires you unplugging your facebook account. You aren't impressing anyone even if they pretend to be impressed. Most people (exceptions: your family and really close friends) won't ever be truly happy for you. They'll tell you good job or that's neat or cool story bro but really they mean to say "I'm jealous", "give me that", or "I could have done it better."

Serious advice: focus on improving yourself every single day and do things that make you happy. Get really good at all your hobbies. Like really good at whatever weird shizzle you do. Attempt to do some challenging stuff that you'll probably fail at. It'll teach you personal work ethic and accountability. You have to turn the little things in your life into your own personal Super Bowl. For example, I feel pure guilt if I don't run at least 10 miles everyday (unless I'm hurt).

If you do these things I can almost certainly guarantee that your life will be brilliant when you return home. You gotta focus on the process, always improving, adapting, and living your life.

Success and all that mess will be a side effect, and you'll end up creating or doing a job that you actually care about. And, if you're really lucky, someone might even remember you once you croak.


There's some very good advice here in this post.
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DeMayonnaise



Joined: 02 Nov 2008

PostPosted: Sun Oct 31, 2010 6:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Pa Jan Jo A Hamnida wrote:
Most are also employable, own property and enjoy a better quality of life than the average member of this board.



chellovek wrote:
Quite so, fat people are bad and immoral, as some have posited before now.


But they're fat...that alone makes them have a terrible quality of life.

When I go home, I realize being 24 years old and making money and living the good life in Korea is a lot better than being 24 years old, making no money and living a sort of boring, post-college depressed kind of life. If was 30 and in Korea with no plan, I'd be a little worried. But I'm 24 and in Korea, prolly go home when I'm 25 or 26 and be fine...
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Yaya



Joined: 25 Feb 2003
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 31, 2010 9:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Everytime I see photos on Facebook of my high school classmates, I'm amazed that they are two to three times bigger than they were in high school. Some stayed respectable but more often than not, there were a few heifers.
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Kryten



Joined: 10 Nov 2008

PostPosted: Sun Oct 31, 2010 10:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

asc422 wrote:
Messageboard rant:

Don't worry about what other people think about you and stop comparing yourself to others. Get out of that mindset even if it requires you unplugging your facebook account. You aren't impressing anyone even if they pretend to be impressed. Most people (exceptions: your family and really close friends) won't ever be truly happy for you. They'll tell you good job or that's neat or cool story bro but really they mean to say "I'm jealous", "give me that", or "I could have done it better."

Serious advice: focus on improving yourself every single day and do things that make you happy. Get really good at all your hobbies. Like really good at whatever weird shizzle you do. Attempt to do some challenging stuff that you'll probably fail at. It'll teach you personal work ethic and accountability. You have to turn the little things in your life into your own personal Super Bowl. For example, I feel pure guilt if I don't run at least 10 miles everyday (unless I'm hurt).

If you do these things I can almost certainly guarantee that your life will be brilliant when you return home. You gotta focus on the process, always improving, adapting, and living your life.

Success and all that mess will be a side effect, and you'll end up creating or doing a job that you actually care about. And, if you're really lucky, someone might even remember you once you croak.

+1.. I completely agree. Quality post my friend!
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allovertheplace



Joined: 02 Aug 2009

PostPosted: Mon Nov 01, 2010 9:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

When I go home, I realize being 24 years old and making money and living the good life in Korea is a lot better than being 24 years old, making no money and living a sort of boring, post-college depressed kind of life. If was 30 and in Korea with no plan, I'd be a little worried. But I'm 24 and in Korea, prolly go home when I'm 25 or 26 and be fine...[/quote]

Good post...Thats exactly how I felt. Being 23, 24 and 25 in Korea was great. Once I turned 25 though I felt like 30 was creeping up. Kinda like blank or get off the pot time.

How did this become a fat rant though? I asked an honest question and it turns into fat fat fat. I'm a bit shocked about the overweight culture at home but its not why I want to leave.
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Taya



Joined: 09 Jan 2009
Location: Changwon

PostPosted: Mon Nov 01, 2010 11:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have to admit, when I went home one of the first things I noticed was that there was so many fat people! Obese people are rare enough in Korea that it was a surprise to see so many at home.

Some of my friends have great jobs, one them bought a house, one is engaged, but others are unemployed, or in the same job as before. In some ways I feel like I had a great experience that my friends didn't have. Other times I feel like I'm wasting my time in a foreign country instead of building a career at home. (I'm 27)
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D.D.



Joined: 29 May 2008

PostPosted: Mon Nov 01, 2010 11:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

asc422 wrote:
Messageboard rant:

Don't worry about what other people think about you and stop comparing yourself to others. Get out of that mindset even if it requires you unplugging your facebook account. You aren't impressing anyone even if they pretend to be impressed. Most people (exceptions: your family and really close friends) won't ever be truly happy for you. They'll tell you good job or that's neat or cool story bro but really they mean to say "I'm jealous", "give me that", or "I could have done it better."

Serious advice: focus on improving yourself every single day and do things that make you happy. Get really good at all your hobbies. Like really good at whatever weird shizzle you do. Attempt to do some challenging stuff that you'll probably fail at. It'll teach you personal work ethic and accountability. You have to turn the little things in your life into your own personal Super Bowl. For example, I feel pure guilt if I don't run at least 10 miles everyday (unless I'm hurt).

If you do these things I can almost certainly guarantee that your life will be brilliant when you return home. You gotta focus on the process, always improving, adapting, and living your life.

Success and all that mess will be a side effect, and you'll end up creating or doing a job that you actually care about. And, if you're really lucky, someone might even remember you once you croak.



haha the addiction of trying to improve. How about just relaxing and accepting that you are already perfect and getting to know that perfection naturally improves you. The type you are talking about is all just ego bs. But if thats what you enjoy good for you.
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Yaya



Joined: 25 Feb 2003
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Mon Nov 01, 2010 11:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Taya wrote:
I have to admit, when I went home one of the first things I noticed was that there was so many fat people! Obese people are rare enough in Korea that it was a surprise to see so many at home.

Some of my friends have great jobs, one them bought a house, one is engaged, but others are unemployed, or in the same job as before. In some ways I feel like I had a great experience that my friends didn't have. Other times I feel like I'm wasting my time in a foreign country instead of building a career at home. (I'm 27)


You could build a career at home but would that necessarily make you happy? I'm not saying Korea is good long-term for everyone (it has been for me) but don't get suckered into the notion that you have to do what all of your friends back home are doing. As far as I'm concerned, I have a life in Korea that many would KILL for in that I make good money, don't work like a machine, and get to travel throughout Asia.
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wonduhbread



Joined: 22 Sep 2010

PostPosted: Tue Nov 02, 2010 5:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

TECO wrote:
asc422 wrote:
Messageboard rant:

Don't worry about what other people think about you and stop comparing yourself to others. Get out of that mindset even if it requires you unplugging your facebook account. You aren't impressing anyone even if they pretend to be impressed. Most people (exceptions: your family and really close friends) won't ever be truly happy for you. They'll tell you good job or that's neat or cool story bro but really they mean to say "I'm jealous", "give me that", or "I could have done it better."

Serious advice: focus on improving yourself every single day and do things that make you happy. Get really good at all your hobbies. Like really good at whatever weird shizzle you do. Attempt to do some challenging stuff that you'll probably fail at. It'll teach you personal work ethic and accountability. You have to turn the little things in your life into your own personal Super Bowl. For example, I feel pure guilt if I don't run at least 10 miles everyday (unless I'm hurt).

If you do these things I can almost certainly guarantee that your life will be brilliant when you return home. You gotta focus on the process, always improving, adapting, and living your life.

Success and all that mess will be a side effect, and you'll end up creating or doing a job that you actually care about. And, if you're really lucky, someone might even remember you once you croak.


There's some very good advice here in this post.


Agree. The hard part for me is believing it and thinking/acting accordingly. I like feeling special and a huge part of that is what feedback I get from those around me.

Yes, I love traveling and learning about new cultures. But I also like it when other people say "oh that's so cool! What an awesome time!" even if they're secretly jealous. Especially if they're jealous.
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Gwangjuboy



Joined: 08 Jul 2003
Location: England

PostPosted: Tue Nov 02, 2010 6:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The first thing I realised is just how far Korea is ahead of the UK - in almost every sphere. The UK for example is dogged by exceptionally poor infrastructure, poor quality - and expensive - housing stock, dreadful customer service, a distinct lack of innovation and a dearth of meaningul opportunities in the labour market. In fact, across the parameters Korea trumps the UK almost everytime. The other problem of course, is having to live alongside a justifiably miserable bunch of people - incidentally this changes if you visit the salubrious parts of London, where the monied class always look visibly more happy. Additionally, it never ceases to amaze me as to just how plain dumb and naive people are here - even the supposedly 'educated'.
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PatrickGHBusan



Joined: 24 Jun 2008
Location: Busan (1997-2008) Canada 2008 -

PostPosted: Tue Nov 02, 2010 7:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The fat issue cannot be avoided. All too often, when walking around back home (been back here since 2008) it is is like withnessing a failed weight watchers program.

The sad part about the growing number of fat people is that it is no longer limited to older adults. Kids are getting fatter and fatter and doing so at every younger ages.

This is a sad trend.


As for Korea vs Canada, some things are better in Korea while somethings are better in Canada. It also depends on your preferences, needs and likes and dislikes.

I do miss the transit system in Korea for example but I do enjoy the variety in restaurants in Canada.

I miss the large open markets in Korea but I do not miss the pollution in certain areas.
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Mariella713



Joined: 22 May 2010

PostPosted: Tue Nov 02, 2010 8:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Gwangjuboy wrote:
The other problem of course, is having to live alongside a justifiably miserable bunch of people - incidentally this changes if you visit the salubrious parts of London, where the monied class always look visibly more happy. Additionally, it never ceases to amaze me as to just how plain dumb and naive people are here - even the supposedly 'educated'.


Ahhh, generalising an entire population based on your own sad little experiences...where have I heard that before Rolling Eyes
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machoman



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 02, 2010 9:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

interestedinhanguk wrote:
Bloopity Bloop wrote:
FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT PEOPLE EVERYWHERE.

OH YEAH, IT'S CAUSE THE FOOD IS SO DAMN GOOD!!!!


There's a lot of fat people, yes.

There's a lot of good food, yes.

However, the people are not fat because of good food. Most of the fat people are not going around to the awesome little foreign restaurants and other restaurants with really good food. They're shoving their faces with fries and "burgers" at McDonalds.


it's portion size too. ever been to cheesecake factory? god i miss that place. also, people drive everywhere in the states. people would rather circle a parking lot for 15 minutes to find a closer parking space than to park 20 feet away.
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