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Kuros



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 02, 2010 6:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

shifter2009 wrote:
Kuros wrote:
shifter2009 wrote:
If you were truly so concerned about feminism running wild all over you, why not help the feminist pass the Equal Rights Amendment?


The ERA is simply superfluous. Women already enjoy protection as a "discrete and insular minority" under substantive due process analysis.

State and Federal laws forbid discrimination, and passing that Paycheck Fairness Act wouldn't be aided at all by an ERA.


The point being it would likely lead to the eroding of women's protections as they would be considered entirely equal in the eyes of the law. If you want things entirely equal for men and women the ERA would actually be something you should be in favor of.


It wouldn't change anything. The Supreme Court would still have to do a scrutiny analysis, and it would probably look something like the intermediate scrutiny analysis they already do.

If this is your shining suggestion for how women should move forward, maybe feminism has accomplished what it needs to have accomplished.
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shifter2009



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 02, 2010 6:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kuros wrote:
shifter2009 wrote:
Kuros wrote:
shifter2009 wrote:
If you were truly so concerned about feminism running wild all over you, why not help the feminist pass the Equal Rights Amendment?


The ERA is simply superfluous. Women already enjoy protection as a "discrete and insular minority" under substantive due process analysis.

State and Federal laws forbid discrimination, and passing that Paycheck Fairness Act wouldn't be aided at all by an ERA.


The point being it would likely lead to the eroding of women's protections as they would be considered entirely equal in the eyes of the law. If you want things entirely equal for men and women the ERA would actually be something you should be in favor of.


It wouldn't change anything. The Supreme Court would still have to do a scrutiny analysis, and it would probably look something like the intermediate scrutiny analysis they already do.

If this is your shining suggestion for how women should move forward, maybe feminism has accomplished what it needs to have accomplished.


If the constitution changed how they had to scrutinize the laws would change, wouldn't it? As it stands women are afforded certain protections in unions ect that would then potentially be ruled unconstitutional.
Also, you missed my point entirely. I am not in favor of the ERA. I was suggesting it as something Fox might be in favor of as way of preventing women from having favorable standing custody disputes ect. Obviously it wouldn't be a cure all (might cure very little) as it is largely dependent on how the courts interpret it. I also suggest it because it's supported by groups like NOW which suggests that all feminist are not just looking to gain an unfair society advantage but rather are looking for a society where the stand on equal footing with their male counterparts.
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Fox



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 02, 2010 9:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

shifter2009 wrote:
http://www.newsweek.com/2010/09/22/why-women-need-the-paycheck-fairness-act.html

Equal eh? Fox apparently lives in this equal world where woman have triumphed over sex discrimination and now are just looking to steal children from men. Only 3% of fortune 500 companies are run by women. 17% of the house of reps are women (same as the Senate). Feminism exist to further the cause of women for an equal standing in society which the clearly don't have at the moment. If you were truly so concerned about feminism running wild all over you, why not help the feminist pass the Equal Rights Amendment?


The demography of any given occupation not matching up with the demography of the overall population is not proof of oppression or unjust discrimination. Indeed, given the differences between men and women, the kind of steps required to create equal representation in these fields is what would be tantamount to oppression.

Let's take the example of men and nursing. Women are hugely over-represented in the field of nursing. Is that oppression? No, it's based on very real differences in men and women and the sort of work they're inclined towards. Making the demographics of nursing match the demographics of society would require somehow forcing more men into the nursing field. Do you think those men will be happier as nurses than they otherwise would have been? Probably not; perhaps you can find a way to goad them into it, but you'll be doing them a great injustice by doing so, and they won't be the happier for it. Best to simply ensure they have an equal right to become nurses if they wish, then leave it at that.

The same holds true for any other occupation, regardless of its demographics. The best thing is to ensure legal equality, illegalize unjust discriminatory practices, and then leave it at that. The demographics may not match up with society's, but that says more about what certain social groups want and how effectively they pursue it than it does about injustice. Most women want nothing to do with high stress, life-consuming fields of work like politics and corporate management, and I don't blame them, because neither do I. Far better in my eyes to show women proper respect by giving them the right to pursue those lines of work if they want, and then letting them compete if they wish to just like everyone else. It's extremely disrespectful to demean women and the roles they choose to fill in society by speaking of their choices the way you do. This is another thing I dislike very much about modern feminists.

Please start thinking your positions through.
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gypsymaria



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PostPosted: Wed Nov 03, 2010 6:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

BaldTeacher wrote:
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One more thing - there ARE feminist men and men who support feminism.


Yeah and there's a special name for them- manginas.

Gypsymaria, that cartoon was ridiculous. Not only is it inaccurate, it's very poorly conceived and exucuted. It's one of the most lackluster pieces of attempted comedy that I've ever seen.


Laughing Aim your ad hominem attacks somewhere else, sugar. I didn't draw it, I just found it relevant, and actually pretty accurate (despite being an obvious hyperbole) to my experience as a female comics artist.

Just because something doesn't match your experience doesn't invalidate my own. Something to keep in mind.

ETA: Oh, and I think you'll find this even more entertaining! A man drew that comic. Wink
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BaldTeacher



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PostPosted: Wed Nov 03, 2010 7:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I know you didn't draw it, but you thought that it was funny enough to post on here. It wasn't. It was horribly executed. It was very, very bad comedy. It made me angry, not because of the politics, but because it was just poorly made.

Now that you tell me that a 'man' drew it though, I am angry because of the content. What kind of man would talk about patriarchy and write like that? I'd love to give this mangina an atomic wedgie and hang him from a hook by it and put lipstick on him.

Nobody's invalidating your experience. You obviously love the experience of laughing at less than mediocre comedy.

Just like this German guy enjoys the experience of sitting on old mens shoulders and bouncing around:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iL7oV5pAm-s&feature=player_embedded
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mises



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PostPosted: Wed Nov 03, 2010 7:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Feminism!

http://community.feministing.com/2010/07/18/i-wouldnt-*beep*-a-trans-person/
Quote:
�I wouldn�t (copulate with) a trans person.�
By vexing | Published: July 18, 2010

Someone recently asked me a question about whether or not a cisgender trans ally can be transphobic.

The scenario is this: the cis person is fully supportive or trans rights and is a staunch ally, but they would never date a trans person of their gender preference (i.e. a straight male who would not date trans women). Is this person transphobic?

Yes. Yes they are.


This is the sort of thing that feminists get all upset about.

To open the link you have to replace the "beep" with a cuss word for sex.
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Sergio Stefanuto



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PostPosted: Wed Nov 03, 2010 1:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Shifter2009 wrote:
Only 3% of fortune 500 companies are run by women. 17% of the house of reps are women (same as the Senate).


Just because 1-in-2 people are female, it doesn't follow that 1-in-2 CEO's should be female, nor that 1-in-2 members of the House should be female. If a talented female CEO could save a company millions more than their incompetent male CEO, the likelihood is that the female CEO would be hired without hesitation.

The fact that people believe to the contrary is dreadfully depressing and a reflection of the wretched quality of education being peddled in schools & universities. Conclusive proof, as if it were needed, that they should be either totally privatized or shut down.
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Kepler



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PostPosted: Wed Nov 03, 2010 2:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Women are also underrepresented among top scientists. When Larry Summers was president of Harvard he brought up the possibility that this might be partially due to an inherent difference between the sexes. Feminists, needless to say, were outraged.

"The next reason was that more boys than girls tend to score very high or very low on high-school math tests, producing a similar average but a higher proportion of scores in the top percentiles, which lead to high-powered academic careers in science and engineering....

"The inferable difference in genomes between two people of visibly different races is one-hundredth of 1 percent. The gap between the sexes vastly exceeds that. A year and a half ago, after completing a study of the Y chromosome, MIT biologist David Page calculated that male and female human genomes differed by 1 percent to 2 percent�'the same as the difference between a man and a male chimpanzee or between a woman and a female chimpanzee,' according to a paraphrase in the New York Times. 'We all recite the mantra that we are 99 percent identical and take political comfort in it,' Page said. 'But the reality is that the genetic difference between males and females absolutely dwarfs all other differences in the human genome.'...

"It's a claim that the distribution of male scores is more spread out than the distribution of female scores�a greater percentage at both the bottom and the top. Nobody bats an eye at the overrepresentation of men in prison. But suggest that the excess might go both ways, and you're a pig."
http://www.slate.com/id/2112570/
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Fox



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PostPosted: Wed Nov 03, 2010 3:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kepler wrote:

"It's a claim that the distribution of male scores is more spread out than the distribution of female scores�a greater percentage at both the bottom and the top. Nobody bats an eye at the overrepresentation of men in prison. But suggest that the excess might go both ways, and you're a pig."
http://www.slate.com/id/2112570/


Another good example of the feminist dual standard. If anything, feminists are often pushing for more men to get locked up (be those men patrons of prostitutes or men accused of rape with nothing more than a woman's word about what happened over a drunken evening as evidence), and I distinctly remember a feminist argument that women who are mothers should be given special treatment with regards to sentencing so as to avoid disrupting the mother-child relationship. It's really pretty ridiculous.
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recessiontime



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PostPosted: Wed Nov 03, 2010 5:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

in Australia the pharmacy owners are mostly males. The female pharmacists have just as much opportunity to be owners as male pharmacists. I find the evolutionary argument convincing. Women are simply evolved to be less competitive then men and take less risks. This explains why most CEO's are men. That does not mean this is the way it should be, it just serves to explain the trend.
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PostPosted: Wed Nov 03, 2010 5:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kepler wrote:
Women are also underrepresented among top scientists. When Larry Summers was president of Harvard he brought up the possibility that this might be partially due to an inherent difference between the sexes. Feminists, needless to say, were outraged.

"The next reason was that more boys than girls tend to score very high or very low on high-school math tests, producing a similar average but a higher proportion of scores in the top percentiles, which lead to high-powered academic careers in science and engineering....

"The inferable difference in genomes between two people of visibly different races is one-hundredth of 1 percent. The gap between the sexes vastly exceeds that. A year and a half ago, after completing a study of the Y chromosome, MIT biologist David Page calculated that male and female human genomes differed by 1 percent to 2 percent�'the same as the difference between a man and a male chimpanzee or between a woman and a female chimpanzee,' according to a paraphrase in the New York Times. 'We all recite the mantra that we are 99 percent identical and take political comfort in it,' Page said. 'But the reality is that the genetic difference between males and females absolutely dwarfs all other differences in the human genome.'...

"It's a claim that the distribution of male scores is more spread out than the distribution of female scores�a greater percentage at both the bottom and the top. Nobody bats an eye at the overrepresentation of men in prison. But suggest that the excess might go both ways, and you're a pig."
http://www.slate.com/id/2112570/


"The inferable difference in genomes between two people of visibly different races is one-hundredth of 1 percent. The gap between the sexes vastly exceeds that. A year and a half ago, after completing a study of the Y chromosome, MIT biologist David Page calculated that male and female human genomes differed by 1 percent to 2 percent�'the same as the difference between a man and a male chimpanzee or between a woman and a female chimpanzee,' according to a paraphrase in the New York Times. 'We all recite the mantra that we are 99 percent identical and take political comfort in it,' Page said. 'But the reality is that the genetic difference between males and females absolutely dwarfs all other differences in the human genome.'...


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Tundra_Creature



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PostPosted: Wed Nov 03, 2010 7:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have a feeling this arguement can go until the cows come home... and no one will be fully right or wrong.
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PostPosted: Wed Nov 03, 2010 7:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Actually, I think there is right or wrong in this argument but whether anyone would actually admit they are right or wrong is doubtful, as is often the case in highly prejudential questions.

I mean imagine how you would feel if someone told you were genetically inferior and therefore incapable of doing certain professions as has been eluded to in this thread recently. If that were you, you would be screaming bloody murder.

For example, if we turn the tables around and say men are genetically inferior at being able to raise children (something patently false but widely believed) and therefore in all divorce cases, women should be awarded custody of the children, certain people on this thread would be up in arms and screaming about how biased "feminists" are.

But, if you were to say that the reason women are less represented at the head of companies is because of a 1 to 2 percent difference in genetic material that would be perfectly good science.

I would not argue that a 1 to 2 percent difference in genetic material isn't huge. It would create a huge difference! Roughly, chimpanzees are 98.6% genetically similar to human beings. But, to cite it as an example of why women are less capable than men is pure horse hockey. No direct correlation has been drawn.

Of course, people on this board will be screaming no, that is not what we meant, but that is exactly what you juxtaposed to give a sense of the dramatic differences and inequalities between men and women.

Comparing outcomes (more male CEOs than female) is falty because you have not addressed reasons for these outcomes including lack of opportunity and prejudicial negative perceptions of women and other groups (thanks Fox for lumping Afro-Americans and Jews as groups that are dangerously imbalancing power in America).

Personally, and it is only personal opinion, I would like to see more opportunities, more mentoring, more programs to encourage and develop female and other groups leadership in businesses and in political parties.

Of course, these are choices that businesses and political parties may choose or not choose. I may see advantages in them but others might not. Fine.

But, then when women and other groups form their own organizations for their own benefit, I hope those people don't cry foul either. It is a double standard that many women and other groups suffer from.

On the one hand, they should not complain when they cannot "compete" with white males. On the other hand, if they create female specific opportunites this is patently unfair. Such groups, I will guess white males, want their cake and eat it too while women and other minorities suffer under a double standard.

Maybe the anti-feminists do make one reasonable point. Regardless of our differences, we all benefit when we try to do things to help each other. The problem is it is only lip service. When it goes against them, they complain and moan. When, it benefits them, they are happy.

If as a society we promote everyone may work for their own selfish interest than please do not complain when women and other groups do so. If we are to promote a more inclusive society, then by all means lets do so. But, one does not have to look much farther than power in America to see that there are fundamental imbalances. We are not trying to work for our mutual benefit and women and other groups are on the weak side of current power relations. Yet, anti-feminists want women and other groups to give up what power they even have and oh my gosh spend their energy helping men when women and other groups, though they have come a long way in American society, still face some obstacles. You may be masquarading as people who advocate equality but in reality you are greedy, greedy people who only want the rules of society to benefit them.

I guess I have to say I don't want to live in a world where it is every person for themselves. And, in some ways we don't. But, the reality is there are definitely privleged groups in the U.S. and other countries and their arguments that women and other groups must work toward equality when they themselves don't is patently unfair and a big part of the problem.
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PostPosted: Wed Nov 03, 2010 9:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Nobody's masquerading as anything and nobody's saying that women are genetically inferior. They're just different. Let's stop playing dumb here.

Nobody can accuse me of being a woman hater either because I love women and am frequently in the company of women.

Feminism is a farce and an unhealthy forced social experiment, tied in with many others that are making a mockery out of our society.

Me, I just ignore feminism and that works out fine for me. Ironically, feminism tends to punish the worker bees who go along with it the most hahahha! But if feminism disappeared overnight, society would still be in a complete mess. This is a collapse we're looking at here. However, the fact that there are men in jail because they were unable to pay alimony to women who already took half their stuff in no-fault divorces that they initiated, the fact that my good friend got his life ruined by a false rape charge, plus many other things, mean that it's still important to fight it. Also, cockoldry is rampant against men in Western society. You've got suckers out there raising kids that aren't even theirs. 15% was a conservative estimate that I read, but it's probably much higher. These neocons whining about the sanctity of marriage need to realize that marriage has no sanctity.

Why isn't paternity testing mandatory? And why aren't women who falsely cry rape severely prosecuted for a crime that has effects as bad as rape itself and in many cases does lead to rape in prison?

Acting like the rescue ranger here isn't doing you any good. I don't expect you to get anything out of any of the arguments that any of us put forward, but that's not my problem, it's yours. I don't blame you though. The indoctrination they use has been designed by the best of the best.


PS on a side-note. Everybody- Who do you think women would like and respect more in person:


This guy?

http://static.guim.co.uk/sys-images/Guardian/Pix/pixies/2009/4/23/1240525215543/Jessica-Valenti-with-Andr-001.jpg

Or him?

http://www.topnews.in/files/Silvio-Berlusconi2.jpg

Now guess which guy supports feminism. Guess which guy is happier.
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Fox



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PostPosted: Wed Nov 03, 2010 10:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Unposter wrote:
But, the reality is there are definitely privleged groups in the U.S. and other countries and their arguments that women and other groups must work toward equality when they themselves don't is patently unfair and a big part of the problem.


Let's talk about this. What makes a privileged group? If one is a white male, what sort of tangible benefits do they received compared to a female, such that we should consider them priviledged? What sort of increased opportunities do they have due purely and only to my skin tone and gender? No generalities please, let's get specific. Further, let's try to stick to factors that affect the population at large rather than incredibly tiny groups of statistical outliers, like Fortune 500 CEOs or national-level politicians. For a group to be privileged, the group in question has to benefit, not just a few hundred members of that group out of over a hundred million. I hope the pro-feminists in this thread can provide at least 5 concrete ways in which being a white male grants genuine privileged status, and then we can discuss those suggested privileges individually.

I think it's important to distinguish between "privilege" and "earned success." The latter is based on genuine merit, while the former is based on a sort of "unmerited grace." Accusations that white men fall into the former category need to be backed up.
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