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new challenga
Joined: 22 Jul 2006
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 3:19 pm Post subject: koreans and sneezing |
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I'm a Korean-American and I've been dating a Korean girl for about four years. I was wondering if Koreans aren't taught to cover their mouths when they sneeze for whatever reason. I ask this because I constantly have to remind my gf to cover her mouth when she sneezes. I would think this is the type of thing to come naturally. Also, I used to teach English in Korea years ago and the kids I taught never covered their mouths. At the time, I figured it was just because they were kids but now I'm not so sure. I've seen a lot of ahjummas and ahjussis not covering their mouths as well. Any insight would be appreciated. I'm truly curious.  |
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hondaicivic
Joined: 01 Jul 2010 Location: Daegu, South Korea
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 3:31 pm Post subject: Re: koreans and sneezing |
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new challenga wrote: |
I'm a Korean-American and I've been dating a Korean girl for about four years. I was wondering if Koreans aren't taught to cover their mouths when they sneeze for whatever reason. I ask this because I constantly have to remind my gf to cover her mouth when she sneezes. I would think this is the type of thing to come naturally. Also, I used to teach English in Korea years ago and the kids I taught never covered their mouths. At the time, I figured it was just because they were kids but now I'm not so sure. I've seen a lot of ahjummas and ahjussis not covering their mouths as well. Any insight would be appreciated. I'm truly curious.  |
hmmm that's interesting. I thought it was common sense to cover your mouth when you sneeze, regardless of culture. By the way.....do you guys communicate in English or Korean? |
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jvalmer

Joined: 06 Jun 2003
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 3:36 pm Post subject: |
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^ Everything is cultural. |
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joeteacher
Joined: 11 Jul 2007
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 3:43 pm Post subject: |
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kinda off topic but people, don't use your hands to cover up a sneeze. Use the pit of the elbow (what's it called?). |
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koalathekyle
Joined: 05 Feb 2009 Location: Gwangjin-gu, Seoul, SK
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 3:59 pm Post subject: |
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One of the funniest moments I have had the pleasure of witnessing was with two guy friends, on this topic.
Setting: Walking in a crowded mall in Seoul, going out of a partition like tunnel towards an open area near the food court, so we all have tunnel vision and eyes directed forward noticing this attractive college girl about 10 meters ahead walking towards us, by herself.
As soon as she is about to cross into the tunnel, out of nowhere (from the side, out of view of us) coming into a bust like view is a tall lanky high school kid, almost violently, sneezes out one of the most visual and whiplashing sneezes I have ever seen. Being of his stature, his head flung forward and down DIRECTLY into the college girls face.
We three guys just burst out in laughter, obviously due to what we just witnessed and the girl, while slightly disgusted, simply keeps on walking without a word of wisdom to the high schooler.
The high schoolers friends were all trying to mock our laughter as they did not see the comedy in the situation like we certainly did. If I sneezed directly into a college girls' face at that age, I might find it less embarrassing to simply start running away...
SO in conclusion, yes, sneezing is apparently not a big deal nor do they find it funny, nor sick to sneeze in another persons' face. |
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balzor

Joined: 14 Feb 2009
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 4:01 pm Post subject: |
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joeteacher wrote: |
kinda off topic but people, don't use your hands to cover up a sneeze. Use the pit of the elbow (what's it called?). |
it's called the vampire sneeze or so says Pam from The Office.
OP, no, they are not taught that it is polite to cover their mouths. if you've ever worked in a Elementary hagwon, this will be very obvious |
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oldfatfarang
Joined: 19 May 2005 Location: On the road to somewhere.
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 4:07 pm Post subject: |
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I've had an adult businessman student cough right into my face in class! Not a word said. Everyone sneezes as and when they like - no problem - no idea about germ transmission (or basic hygeine like hand washing with hot soapy water after the bathroom etc).
Interestingly, I've seen Thais just sneeze all over the place. Perhaps it's an Asian thing. |
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AsiaESLbound
Joined: 07 Jan 2010 Location: Truck Stop Missouri
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 4:07 pm Post subject: |
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My elementary students never cover their mouths and rarely wash their hands so some screwed up gamgi virus is paying us another visit. I feel yucky, painful, and have no energy to go today. I've just been laying around for 2 days all weekend nursing an air heater. There is a lot more colds, sore throat, and flu over here. It's different in Korea, because all 3 slam you in one wallup where it's not just a runny nose. |
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eamo

Joined: 08 Mar 2003 Location: Shepherd's Bush, 1964.
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 4:19 pm Post subject: |
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Koreans don't really think about germ transmission much...........they mostly believe that people get colds from being cold......like, walk past an open window on a cool day and you might get a cold.
My HS students seem to think that the best way to combat their colds is to close all doors and windows, crank up the heating, then cough and splutter over each other...
I think it was only about 10 months after living in Korea that I stopped asking any Korean for medical advice.......except doctors....maybe.... |
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nobbyken

Joined: 07 Jun 2006 Location: Yongin ^^
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 4:38 pm Post subject: |
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I've started to deprogram myself and my mode of sneezing.
I learned the pinch it method of sneezing: with either tissue and/or fingers pinch nostrils together when sneezing. It can make a very loud trumpeting sound, which I've never heard anyone in Korea making, just me.
This method does not help the nose clear itself and my sneezing can go on for 20 or more.
I'm trying to change my sneeze type, but it's so instinctive it's so difficult to change. I've noticed my children sneeze the Korean way and not the way I picked up. It is a more natural and effective method, but the method of doing it without a mouth covering does not show much regard to the hygiene of others. |
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sirius black
Joined: 04 Jun 2010
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 4:41 pm Post subject: |
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I have to think that korean parents don't teach their kids to cover their mouths when they cough or sneeze. I constantly harrass my kids about it. One kid a couple weeks ago that I was trying to help explain something in his book coughed right into my open mouth. I chewed him out right away as an automatic reaction. I have told EVERY class I teach to not only cover their mouths when they sneeze or cough but the words 'bless you' after they sneeze so if they are in the presence of a westerner they'll know the culutrally correct thing to say or said to them.
I'll fake a sneeze once in a while with the kids and who ever says 'bless you' gets a treat so that the other kids will do it automatically.
I always thought they wore masks to avoid catching a cold but I was told by my students its worn AFTER you catch a cold. Its a bit too late then isn't it? I've worn a mask in class when it seems like a few of them are coming down with something and there is a bit too much coughing or sneezing.
The manner in which they cough and sneeze openly makes it no wonder they always seem to have a constant cough. |
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Died By Bear

Joined: 13 Jul 2010 Location: On the big lake they call Gitche Gumee
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 4:53 pm Post subject: |
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Koreans are a sharing people. They share everything, including the flu. |
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crossmr

Joined: 22 Nov 2008 Location: Hwayangdong, Seoul
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 4:59 pm Post subject: |
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I always thought they wore masks to avoid catching a cold but I was told by my students its worn AFTER you catch a cold. Its a bit too late then isn't it? I've worn a mask in class when it seems like a few of them are coming down with something and there is a bit too much coughing or sneezing.
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Wearing a mask is to prevent your coughing from spreading to others.
it prevents a good bit of it from spreading around. |
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nomad-ish

Joined: 08 Oct 2007 Location: On the bottom of the food chain
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 5:01 pm Post subject: |
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although, a few years here and you'll feel like you have super immunity when you go back home! |
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trogdor
Joined: 05 Nov 2010
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 5:02 pm Post subject: |
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It's an asian thing. I just got here from japan and it's pretty much the same, though they have started to have more public service signs to try to improve hygiene. |
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