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ladyandthetramp

Joined: 21 Nov 2003
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Posted: Mon Mar 29, 2004 6:08 pm Post subject: Oh my! There's a foreigner! |
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So yesterday, I'm just minding my own business, walking with my friend back to my pad in Sinchon, and some college-aged bloke walking with his ladyfriend is suddenly taken aback to see two white peeps walking around, and naturally (in Korea) says "Waygukin" to his girlfriend. Perhaps she was blind and he was describing everything he saw to her, kinda like what we've seen in movies before, but I'm not gonna put much money on that theory. I turned and waved to his girlfriend, who had turned to look, and she started to laugh, apparently because she was surprised that I understood this.
So what's up with that? It's annoying enough when teenagers do it (I don't really care when the real young lads do it), but here was some college-aged dude, in Sinchon, nonetheless, where white peeps are occasionally known to roam about, and he was so surprised to see a non-Korean that he needed to verbalize it so that he could really believe what he saw.
I guess I'm wondering what this forum feels is the proper procedure to follow in this event. |
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sistersarah
Joined: 03 Jan 2004 Location: hiding out
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Posted: Mon Mar 29, 2004 6:18 pm Post subject: |
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i think you followed the proper procedure. that's what i usually do. i say hello, or wave politely when people stare or talk about me. yes, they're shocked when the see you've understood, and maybe they won't do the same thing next time they see a foreigner. there's not much you can do, really. |
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eamo

Joined: 08 Mar 2003 Location: Shepherd's Bush, 1964.
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Posted: Mon Mar 29, 2004 6:20 pm Post subject: |
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Don't pretend you're actually annoyed by being a 'celebrity'.. |
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komtengi

Joined: 30 Sep 2003 Location: Slummin it up in Haebangchon
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Posted: Mon Mar 29, 2004 6:23 pm Post subject: |
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I do the same thing when people approach me and start speaking in english.... hit em with a one two of Korean and they dont know what to do with themselves |
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kylehawkins2000

Joined: 08 Apr 2003
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Posted: Mon Mar 29, 2004 6:34 pm Post subject: |
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It happens to me everyday and I'm never ceased to be amazed at how ignorant it makes the people look. It's almost like at home when we see a wild animal on the road side and we tap someone and say : Look! A Moose! Or Look! It's a Bald Eagle!.....the fact that there are tens of thousands of foreigners in Seoul doesn't seem to keep people from being amazed at the site of one of us though...
I've done this a few times, try it out. Stare back at them, tap your friend on the shoulder and point in mock amazement as you say "ooohh...hanguk saram!" and maybe add a "JaeMeeSaeyo" or two. |
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weatherman

Joined: 14 Jan 2003 Location: Korea
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Posted: Mon Mar 29, 2004 6:36 pm Post subject: |
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It is fun when it is couple and and you can give the guy's chick a flirty eye, and really embarrass her and make the guy become possessive. I know this isn't a good thing to do, but if I am going to be their amusement for that moment, then I am going to shake them up a bit.
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Gord

Joined: 25 Feb 2003
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Posted: Mon Mar 29, 2004 6:37 pm Post subject: Re: Oh my! There's a foreigner! |
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And we all know that back home in the old country, people never said "hey, check out what that Asian girl is wearing". |
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komtengi

Joined: 30 Sep 2003 Location: Slummin it up in Haebangchon
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Posted: Mon Mar 29, 2004 6:42 pm Post subject: Re: Oh my! There's a foreigner! |
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Gord wrote: |
And we all know that back home in the old country, people never said "hey, check out what that Asian girl is wearing". |
I wouldnt care so much if they were saying that about me....
they're not. They're saying American person... or Foreign person. Thats all they are saying. Big Difference.
I never went around commentting to my friends...oh... Asian person, wow. I might have said check out that Asian girl shes hot. But thats different, its not the fact shes Asian, its cause she was hot. |
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The Lemon

Joined: 11 Jan 2003
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Posted: Mon Mar 29, 2004 6:54 pm Post subject: Re: Oh my! There's a foreigner! |
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ladyandthetramp wrote: |
some college-aged bloke walking with his ladyfriend..naturally (in Korea) says "Waygukin" to his girlfriend...he was describing everything he saw to her, kinda like what we've seen in movies before, but I'm not gonna put much money on that theory. |
Actually, Koreans do this "running commentary" a lot when they're with friends. I don't think there's a lot of thought behind it. At our university you can see this in action in the elevators, where EVERY TIME I'm riding from the 4th to the 16 floor, some student will announce to no one in particular, "I'm hungry/I'm bored/I'm tired/I'm sick/I'm sleepy/I'm warm/I'm cold". It seems to be a quirk of the Korean operating system to broadcast ongoing status reports regarding one's comfort level to all in earshot.
They also have obligatory, almost Pavlovian responses to specific stimuli. We discussed the "glamuh!!" one recently. Here's another- Carry any infant near a Korean woman, and she'll respond, automatically: "Oh, aeggi yeppo..." Note that the woman might not actually be able to see the baby, but she'll still say it if she believes there's a baby near.
I'm going to try an experiment this week, where I stick a loaf of bread in our baby carrier, wrap it in a blanket, put a cap on the top, and trundle it around the university and see how many times I hear, "Oh aeggi yeppuda.." Thank you. This bun has been in the oven for awhile.
So, for many Koreans, when they see Westerners it's the same unthinking stimulus-response thing - "waeguk saram!" Most Koreans grow out of it during puberty, but there are always those who have missed some developmental stages. |
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Sojuman99

Joined: 30 Nov 2003 Location: Leaning Right
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Posted: Mon Mar 29, 2004 7:05 pm Post subject: |
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weatherman wrote: |
It is fun when it is couple and and you can give the guy's chick a flirty eye, and really embarrass her and make the guy become possessive. I know this isn't a good thing to do, but if I am going to be their amusement for that moment, then I am going to shake them up a bit. |
My preferred response  |
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Crois

Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Location: You could be next so watch out.
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Posted: Mon Mar 29, 2004 7:06 pm Post subject: |
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Just say back there's a Korean.
Something like Hanguk sa ram im ne da |
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aussie col
Joined: 31 Jan 2004
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Posted: Mon Mar 29, 2004 7:18 pm Post subject: |
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It's funnier to point back and say "Look, a Japanese person". Ilbon if I remember correctly but don't quote me on it.
Koreans don't like being called Japanese... but I find it funny.  |
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dogbert

Joined: 29 Jan 2003 Location: Killbox 90210
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Posted: Mon Mar 29, 2004 7:24 pm Post subject: Re: Oh my! There's a foreigner! |
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Gord wrote: |
And we all know that back home in the old country, people never said "hey, check out what that Asian girl is wearing". |
In my old country, I don't recall hearing anyone over the age of five pointing out the obvious fact that a person of different color happened to co-exist in the same public space.
YMMV |
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dogbert

Joined: 29 Jan 2003 Location: Killbox 90210
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Posted: Mon Mar 29, 2004 7:24 pm Post subject: |
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Crois wrote: |
Just say back there's a Korean.
Something like Hanguk sa ram im ne da |
The trouble when you do that is, they don't get it. |
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crazylemongirl

Joined: 23 Mar 2003 Location: almost there...
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Posted: Mon Mar 29, 2004 7:26 pm Post subject: |
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I just find it best to smile and say hello but it depends on the context in which it is being said. If it's agressive then I just move on. If it is inquistive then I don't mind saying hello. |
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