kimchi_pizza
Joined: 24 Jul 2006
Location: "Get back on the bus! Here it comes!"
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 Posted: Sun Dec 12, 2010 5:57 am Post subject: |
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| earthquakez wrote: |
Jenipa, as StevieG pointed out I generalised about older Koreans. I actually meant that regarding the Korean boss who ignores you, he is the kind of older Korean who is simply reflecting the heirarchical culture.
However, I stick by my true observations of heirarchical behaviour towards young, newcomer teachers in one of my old public schools. I am not saying all older Koreans ignore their younger co workers but it's certainly not unusual. Stevie G - you're mistaken about Koreans not ignoring each other at work.
It's culturally acceptable for the seniors to not go out of their way to make conversation with the juniors. That is not rude by their standards although I find it creates a fairly sterile work atmosphere. I am not the only one to have experienced this at their public school as many of my friends, some gone from Korea, some still here, have worked in public schools and noted the same. Koreans stick with their age groups generally and unlike in a western country where young newcomers can feel free to chat with those older, it's not etiquette most of the time in a Korean workplace - whether it's a school or company.
My point to Jenipa was - it happens to young/younger Koreans so it's not surprising if it happens to her when her boss doesn't acknowledge her presence. Jenipa, I think you need to engage in some attempts to get a working relationship going with the Korean co teacher who has most to do with you, the female one that is if there is one. Going out for coffee might be a good way to do that.
I know when I was first in Korea at one of the hagwons I worked at my working life improved overnight when I went out with the owner and co worker, and after alway made the effort to do so. This helps to establish a relationship, something that some foreigners don't want to do and the consequence can be bad feelings because it looks like you shun the group.
If they invite you out make sure you go. But whatever you do, go out with the female co worker you're closest to. Get to know her and you'll probably find it's easier to work with her and she'll do things to smooth the way. |
I hear-by formally pass my "Dave's EFL in Korea" gauntlet over to earthquakez as he has passed and done so admirably. Listen and take heed. Go forth young brave and lead...... |
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