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Stalin84



Joined: 30 Dec 2009
Location: Haebangchon, Seoul

PostPosted: Fri Feb 04, 2011 10:08 pm    Post subject: Quitting smoking Reply with quote

I think it's about time I quit.

It's a bit gross (you've been forewarned) because I've been having a problem with phelgm for the past year or so. I don't know if it's smoking related or not but there is only one way to find out. Basically, I always have phelgm in the back of my throat and I've been hawking it up somewhat constantly for the past year or so like an ajosshi. I have the decency not to do it on the street or around people but it has been bothering me nonetheless. It's the worst in the mornings. Does anyone else have this problem?

I also find that I get really tired when I walk up a hill and stuff like that. I'm in good shape so this shouldn't be happening. I want to be one of those fit people that can walk uphill for hours and hours without running out of breath or feeling winded.

What works best for you? Gum? Cold turkey? I don't want to go the reduction route. I've tried that before and it doesn't work for me. I've also tried cold turkey and failed.

What brand of gum do you find to be the most effective?

Thanks.
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pangaea



Joined: 20 Dec 2007

PostPosted: Fri Feb 04, 2011 10:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I quit cold turkey a few years ago. Granted, I didn't smoke that much in the first place, but it was still difficult. I can't imagine how hard it is for a dedicated smoker.

I had a health scare so I had a good incentive to quit. I still wanted to chew my arm off for the first few weeks. After that I was ok. I did use hard candy and gum to help me quit, but I didn't use nicotine gum. Also, I would suggest finding a hobby that you can do with your hands. (Yes, I know how that could be interpreted - anyway Smile) I found that I missed smoking when I was driving and when I was bored the most. I did cross stitch for a long time that kept my hands and my brain busy so I could resist the urge to smoke.

Good luck! Hope you find something that works for you!
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Stalin84



Joined: 30 Dec 2009
Location: Haebangchon, Seoul

PostPosted: Fri Feb 04, 2011 11:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

pangaea wrote:
I quit cold turkey a few years ago. Granted, I didn't smoke that much in the first place, but it was still difficult. I can't imagine how hard it is for a dedicated smoker.

I had a health scare so I had a good incentive to quit. I still wanted to chew my arm off for the first few weeks. After that I was ok. I did use hard candy and gum to help me quit, but I didn't use nicotine gum. Also, I would suggest finding a hobby that you can do with your hands. (Yes, I know how that could be interpreted - anyway Smile) I found that I missed smoking when I was driving and when I was bored the most. I did cross stitch for a long time that kept my hands and my brain busy so I could resist the urge to smoke.

Good luck! Hope you find something that works for you!


Haha, thanks for the encouragement. Maybe I shouldn't buy nicotine gum unless I find the urges too much to handle. Regular gum couldn't hurt, especially seeing as how it has the benefit of continually fresh breath Smile

As for hobbies that involve my hands... More computer games, I guess. I can never play too many computer games. I know how you feel about driving as that's the reason I started up again after quitting last year. I was driving for two hours and there was a pack of left over cigarettes in my car. It just happened. Luckily I don't drive here and I don't let myself smoke in my apartment, so I haven't developed any "rituals" around smoking which is good.
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pinishee



Joined: 02 Feb 2011

PostPosted: Sat Feb 05, 2011 2:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

start chewing on a straw or toothpick. You might be orally fixated.
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rumdiary



Joined: 05 Jun 2006

PostPosted: Sat Feb 05, 2011 11:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Two words= Nasal snuff.
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Stalin84



Joined: 30 Dec 2009
Location: Haebangchon, Seoul

PostPosted: Sat Feb 05, 2011 11:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

rumdiary wrote:
Two words= Nasal snuff.


Any more specific? That could be anything from huffing glue to enjoying my own farts. Laughing
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rumdiary



Joined: 05 Jun 2006

PostPosted: Sat Feb 05, 2011 12:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Stalin84 wrote:
rumdiary wrote:
Two words= Nasal snuff.


Any more specific? That could be anything from huffing glue to enjoying my own farts. Laughing
I used a tobacco nasal snuff for several months whenever I craved a smoke. Then I weened myself off using non tobacco nasal snuff. I still use tobacco nasal snuff when I'm out drinking. I'm not sure if you can find it in Korea though. I had a friend send it to me.
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Died By Bear



Joined: 13 Jul 2010
Location: On the big lake they call Gitche Gumee

PostPosted: Sat Feb 05, 2011 8:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I didn't read the other replies yet. I quit cold turkey, but the memory of how I felt about it is still fresh in my mind. 1st and foremost, you really need to go cold turkey. Anything else is fooling yourself and fifteen times as hard because you'll constantly think about it and finally give up because it seems so far away. I tried it like that ten times and never got past the patch, even when I took wellbutrin.

Here's what you do, I swear to God it will work for ya.

Go to the doctor, get Wellbutrin - you will need a three month supply.

Take two a day for a week, smoke as normal. You'll begin to notice that it doesn't feel right when you smoke, something about feeling like you're not getting a real drag off the smoke.

Use a patch for one or two days to get the smell off you and time to relax and look forward to it...then on the third day, don't wear the patch. Congratulations, you just quit smoking. Now think to yourself that you will beat the hell out of the nicotine monster and be the boss of what you do with your time. It's not just the poison from the chemicals they put in smokes, it's the smell that you will avoid every time you light up.

After the 3rd day, you will start to think that maybe the five days they talked about how long it takes to kick the nicotine habit will never come. You'll be tempted, but the Wellbutrin gives you the confidence to keep going. After the 5th day, you realize that you don't think about it like you did on the first and 2nd day. You start to realize that you have taken back control and you can't believe it. I smoked for a very long time, and when I finally quit, I was very very happy. I'd been telling people for years that I was 'going to quit next week' half serious and then when you finally make that decision, you will never look back.

After three months, you won't need any more wellbutrin, because you'll rarely think of having a smoke. Here's the absolute bottom line friend: YOU have to want to quit. That's the secret.


And never use the 'I had a bad day, stressful day' BS because you and I both know that you're going to have bad days every once in awhile whether you smoke or not. What did you do to relieve that stress before you started smoking? Exactly. Have a cupcake, candy, whatever except that poison. It will kill you.

Getting off the nicotine monster will take only five days. Be strong, tell yourself that you're in charge and that you want to do this no matter what.


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alwaysbeclosing100



Joined: 07 Feb 2009

PostPosted: Sun Feb 06, 2011 6:24 am    Post subject: re Reply with quote

most pharmacists have gum and patches you can buy over the counter
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Kaypea



Joined: 09 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Sun Feb 06, 2011 4:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It took me a long time to quit smoking, but I'm 100% quit now. I think chewing the gum for a while was good for getting me unused to smelling like cigarettes, and the physical act of smoking itself. Pretty much anything is better than smoking, so do what you have to Smile Short of chewing off your arm, of course...
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curlygirl



Joined: 26 Mar 2007
Location: Pundang, Seohyeon dong

PostPosted: Sun Feb 06, 2011 8:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I read Allen Carr's easyway to stop smoking and that did it for me. You can torrent the pdf on thepiratebay for free.
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nzbradly78



Joined: 23 Mar 2009
Location: Czech Republic

PostPosted: Sun Feb 06, 2011 9:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Four things helped me quit cold-turkey:

1) Incentive, which you've got. I'm not sure if the phlegm is smoking related, but believe me, you will feel surprisingly great when you've knocked the nicotine habit. Kind of like that second wind.

2) Don't go out. Go into seclusion for about three weeks. The temptation to start up again when you are around smokers is too much to handle. After about three weeks I didn't have the habit from my day-to-day, and so going out wasn't a problem anymore.

3) Dump all your lighters. I was pretty much a packrat with them.

4) Finally, stay the hell out of Family Mart or GS25.

Good luck. I'm not going to sugar coat it, it's agony for about a month or so, but it is so worth it.
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chellovek



Joined: 29 Feb 2008

PostPosted: Sun Feb 06, 2011 9:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

nzbradly78 wrote:
Four things helped me quit cold-turkey:

1) Incentive, which you've got. I'm not sure if the phlegm is smoking related, but believe me, you will feel surprisingly great when you've knocked the nicotine habit. Kind of like that second wind.

2) Don't go out. Go into seclusion for about three weeks. After about three weeks I didn't have the habit from my day-to-day, and so going out wasn't a problem anymore.

3) Dump all your lighters. I was pretty much a packrat with them.
The temptation to start up again when you are around smokers is too much to handle.
4) Finally, stay the hell out of Family Mart or GS25.

Good luck. I'm not going to sugar coat it, it's agony for about a month or so, but it is so worth it.


So true. That's always scuppered my attempts to quit. Think I'm going to cut down here and then quit when I get home. No way in hell am I paying 6 quid for a pack.
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