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Bringing a student home to America
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allovertheplace



Joined: 02 Aug 2009

PostPosted: Tue Mar 29, 2011 6:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

One question. If you're getting a paid flight home anyway (contract), and you can pay for the extra luggage (not too much), and you live in California, why is it worth returning to korea (18 hours) to fly 6-7 hours to Thailand from Seoul, when you can fly from LAX to Bangkok in 18 hours?

I dont think it sounds like a terrible idea but it depends on the payment. If they will pay for your ticket home, plus to thailand from Seoul, plus a grand for the 3 weeks why not. If its just a favor just ship your stuff home on a boat and fly to thailand.

Also dont forget sometimes your employer will pay you the cash equivalent for the flight home. Thus, you can pay for your flight to thailand and fly home after the summer flight season when prices are cheaper. Overall, the flights that way would only cost 5 or 6 hundred bucks total instead of paying to fly to thailand from seoul and then S.E asia to the states.
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ThingsComeAround



Joined: 07 Nov 2008

PostPosted: Tue Mar 29, 2011 8:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

allovertheplace wrote:
One question. If you're getting a paid flight home anyway (contract), and you can pay for the extra luggage (not too much), and you live in California, why is it worth returning to korea (18 hours) to fly 6-7 hours to Thailand from Seoul, when you can fly from LAX to Bangkok in 18 hours?

I dont think it sounds like a terrible idea but it depends on the payment. If they will pay for your ticket home, plus to thailand from Seoul, plus a grand for the 3 weeks why not. If its just a favor just ship your stuff home on a boat and fly to thailand.

Also dont forget sometimes your employer will pay you the cash equivalent for the flight home. Thus, you can pay for your flight to thailand and fly home after the summer flight season when prices are cheaper. Overall, the flights that way would only cost 5 or 6 hundred bucks total instead of paying to fly to thailand from seoul and then S.E asia to the states.


This is an option worth considering Smile
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oldtrafford



Joined: 12 Jan 2011

PostPosted: Tue Mar 29, 2011 8:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I wouldn't do this for all the tea in China!! However, it's not about me, it's about you. If your fine with it, do it.

All the best!
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matthews_world



Joined: 15 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Tue Mar 29, 2011 8:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Make sure to have kimchi available at the table.
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southernman



Joined: 15 Jan 2010
Location: On the mainland again

PostPosted: Tue Mar 29, 2011 9:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm a qualified swkr, I think from from everything you've said that its obvious you know what you're on about. Especially regarding the temporary guardianship or some sort of legal document that states you are his legal guardian should anything go wrong. You've already thought of that, so it's all good.

As for the money aspect, thats the $1000 question when I was a Uni student I was getting up to $900 NZ for a weekends work looking after 3 at risk 10-12 yr olds. I think for 3 weeks you can ask pretty much get you want. On top of the airfares I'd have my travel through Asia paid for as well, maybe up to a $1000 on top to take home. There's no need to be too greedy.

It sounds like a golden opportunity for you, be legally covered and you'll have no problems.


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methdxman



Joined: 14 Sep 2010

PostPosted: Tue Mar 29, 2011 10:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

cclose wrote:
Well, first of all, I'm a female, if that makes any difference in the situation. This was my 2nd teaching contract, and I have been the only teacher at the school with prior experience. From the very beginning, the bosses have considered me the greatest thing since sliced kimchi. Many of my teaching habits and styles are now mandatory for the other teachers. I'm not trying to toot my own horn, but the bosses trust me, and have been impressed with everything I do.

In addition to the close relationship with the bosses, I believe my family and location play a big part in their decision. I have a nephew the same age as the boy, so he would have a companion to hang out with (in fact, the two have talked on skype before). I also live in Southern California, close proximity to Disneyland and the beach. The boss went to UCLA for his degree, so he is familiar with the area. They both recognize what a fun and educational experience this could be for their son.


How is it possible that you got a Korean person to genuinely like you? Judging by most of the posts on here, this is impossible since all Koreans hate foreigners and backstab them at the earliest chance they get.

You must be mature, smart, and have good self-awareness to pull off this feat.

Sarcasm aside here's my advice:

Be upfront from the beginning about all the terms. This will save you trouble later on. People here think not dealing with stuff ends up working out in their favor. No.

There are three elements of what the parents absolutely have to pay:

1) Airfare - parents should pay for EVERYTHING here. No exceptions. You shouldn't "hope" that they pay for it, they have to if you're accompanying him back.
2) Costs for the kid and YOU if you have to accompany him along for those activities (Disneyland, etc.) I would stay away from charging them "rent" separately, just add it to the next item:
3) Any additional income - what do you think you deserve for taking their kid around? Remember, that there is a huge downside for you to taking care of someones kid and the only upside is gratitude plus some cash. So that cash better be a big deal. I'd honestly ask for at LEAST your salary during that period.

I would make a spreadsheet with some rough costs (be liberal so you don't under-budget) and tell them that they should front at least the majority of the money and that you will keep receipts for them to have later on.

Just remember, if the kid gets seriously hurt or god forbid dies, a grieving parent might do something crazy no matter how innocent you are e.g, sue you, etc. So you might want to take some appropriate steps to create a very comprehensive "field trip slip".
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bobrocket



Joined: 26 Jan 2011

PostPosted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 2:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've had a few friends send 10/11 year olds to New Zealand for a holiday (2 - 6 weeks)

Parents always cover costs.
Airfares, insurance and a weekly allowance, around $nzd200 (180,000 won)
Every kid we had got homesick within a week, so we always arranged a time, not everyday but a fixed time time during the week they could talk to their parents.
You would be lucky to come out top on the money side, their kids, they cost a fortune, they eat heaps and you'll want to take them every where cool. We never made a profit but we made it understood that the kids would be doing stuff and having fun, it's a holiday after all.

I say go for it, don't know about immigration rules for other countries but you not stealing a child, have the mum's cell number handy and if they have a problem tell them to call, as long as they have a visa and someone with them whats the problem?
It's only a short time time and you get to show them heaps. I've always had fun but I know and like the kids that have come.

But remember, your basically a parent for the whole time, you can't just duck out to the pub, the kid is your life for what ever time you have them.
Just my observation but Korean kids seem a bit extra needy, not as independent as NZ kids but nothing major.

Maybe a good question? Do you really want to do it?.
I ask this because right now my daughter has had a massive poo explosion out the side of her nappy and seems quite happy rolling around in it Very Happy
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BriTunes



Joined: 12 Jan 2010

PostPosted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 7:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Had a coworker do this, the kid got hit by a car, died,. Parents sued him for half a mill. Still in the courts.
Get a lawyer to draft up liability papers and u should be good to go...though that still won't protect u against a good lawyer...
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