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[fromtheuk]

If I ever marry again, I want a woman who doesn't want any kids.

If she is truly selfless she will abstain from having kids out of respect for my desire to not have any and she will treat me like her baby as a substitute, to realize her maternal instincts.

Discuss.

I haven't posted very much on this forum recently and that was the best that I could do, sorry.

[Zackback]

Go to a dating website and simply put this in your profile. Any chick writes to you then you know that she is most likely cool with that.

[hondaicivic]

[RMNC]

There are tons of women in Korea, America, everywhere that don't want kids. It's becoming more and more common.

[nero]

[RMNC]

So basically what I'm getting from this post is that FTUK is a mysoginist who wants to control women's bodies as if he's some kind of god deserving of worship and complete devotion, but also wants to engage in adult-baby play. Do they make adult diapers in Korea big enough for him, I wonder?

[fromtheuk]

Steady on....I love women hence the desire to marry one. I have no desire to control anybody.

I just don't want kids (no, I don't hate them either.)

I want to be the centre of attention, no baby-play.

[Steelrails]

At least fromthehuk is honest about his desires. For every type, there is someone out there who digs it.

I mean do we really need a post from someone saying "all the right things"?

1)It would probably be a lie. 2)It would be boring. Lie and be entertaining, fine. Tell the truth and be boring, fine. But don't lie AND be a bore.

[West Coast Tatterdemalion]

Children? Sure, all the crying, whining, puking, attitude. Yeah, what's not to like. And you've got to put up with it for 18 years and every single decision you make in life from that point forward has to include that child. Your freedom just went down the crapper. Not everyone is meant to have kids. I like children, but I don't want to be strapped down with one for 24 hours a day for years and years. I've just never had the desire to have them. Of course, I had a lot of fucked up things that have happened in my life and a lot of dark shit, so that impacts it I'm sure.

[fromtheuk]

I look at back moments in my life and think to myself I would never want to inflict that on anybody else, just for the selfish desire to be called 'Daddy.'

Fair enough if one wants a family and to be a good father, but my view is if you choose to do something as serious as having a kid, you should do it with 100% commitment or not bother.

Even if somebody genuinely wants to be a father and thinks they'd be good at it, surely they should scrutinize over whether they actually are going to be an effective parent.

Some contemplation is important.

I am generally quite content, but I wish I was never born. If I hadn't been born, I'd never be questioned about why I was absent from various events, the reason being I wouldn't exist.

I also wouldn't suffer in any way because I wouldn't exist. I have nephews, which are fine. But fromtheuk at this point in time hopes his life will end without any offspring.

Now, there is something we can all celebrate!

[fadedgirl]

Certainly not all women want kids. I don't. I can't imagine how bad morning sickness, swollen feet and back pain must be. I have no desire to live with MORE stretch marks.

I'm happy if my friends have kids. I can always return them at the end of the day. No midnight feedings. No diaper changes. No worries about college tuition, car wrecks or whatever expensive things my child might get into.

No thanks. I'm happy to be an aunt.

[WadRUG'naDoo]

I think it's irresponsible to have kids in this day and age. What kind of a world are you bringing them into? You're going to need a whole hell of a huge bucketload of money to raise a kid.

The world doesn't need more people.

[cyui]

Vich- Some people really do want kids' ( most will eventually anyways). if not for "willful right" just to spread the Y-chromo out.

[rumdiary]

[fromtheuk]

rumdiary - Respectfully, the world is going downhill fast, so any child born now is not born into the same world as their parents, standards have continued to plummet over time, worldwide.

I think your final statement about being raised by loving people etc. is a valid one. The problem it seems more often than not, the reality is the opposite, which means life won't be easy for decent children surrounded by hordes of low-life.

If you visit England, teenagers are getting more brainless and criminal by the second. Go out late at night at your own peril. The chavs have taken over the asylum.

fadedgirl - Will you marry me please?