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McGenghis



Joined: 14 Oct 2008
Location: Gangneung

PostPosted: Mon Apr 04, 2011 5:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

machinoman wrote:
my favorite is when people misuse 'literally'. i was watching access hollywood once. they were talking about about a movie premiere where sarah michelle geller apparently "literally slayed on the red carpet." needless to say, i was shocked.


David Cross has a funny bit about that. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ly1UTgiBXM
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Gimbap Lover



Joined: 06 Mar 2011

PostPosted: Mon Apr 04, 2011 6:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

AmericanExile wrote:
Cedar wrote:
May I add to the list of most annoying grammatically screwed up things that get said too often:

"My bad"

Whenever someone says that to me, well, I point out another "bad" immediately. I cannot let that one slide.


That isn't a mistake. That is using language poetically. It expresses an idea with perfect clarity.

I was taught there is a difference between rule of English and English teacher rules. The former are expressions of the underlying structure of a living language as people use it. The latter are attempts by people to impose pointless rules on the users of a language.

Don't be so uptight. Why should people having fun with the language belongs to them bother you? Life's hard enough.


Perfect clarity? It sounds retarded. It doesn't even have any style to it whatsoever. It's as though we are reducing the language to Doublespeak so that we don't need to communicate with illustrated feelings.
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tatertot



Joined: 21 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Mon Apr 04, 2011 6:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Gimbap Lover wrote:
Does anyone other than Oregonians use the term "spendy" for something being expensive.

Along with "My bad", how about when someone agrees and they say "True that (dat)"?

We do in Seattle, but that's practically in Oregon anyway. Laughing
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AmericanExile



Joined: 04 May 2009

PostPosted: Mon Apr 04, 2011 8:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Gimbap Lover wrote:
AmericanExile wrote:
Cedar wrote:
May I add to the list of most annoying grammatically screwed up things that get said too often:

"My bad"

Whenever someone says that to me, well, I point out another "bad" immediately. I cannot let that one slide.


That isn't a mistake. That is using language poetically. It expresses an idea with perfect clarity.

I was taught there is a difference between rule of English and English teacher rules. The former are expressions of the underlying structure of a living language as people use it. The latter are attempts by people to impose pointless rules on the users of a language.

Don't be so uptight. Why should people having fun with the language belongs to them bother you? Life's hard enough.


Perfect clarity? It sounds retarded. It doesn't even have any style to it whatsoever. It's as though we are reducing the language to Doublespeak so that we don't need to communicate with illustrated feelings.


Are you saying you don't understand what people mean when they say "my bad?" If you don't then you can't be to bright. If you do then how can you argue against perfect clarity?

Language is agreement. People have come to an agreement as to what that phrase means. It works for them. Are you angry because they didn't ask your permission before coming to this agreement?

All language has style. What you mean to say is it has a style you don't don't like. It is a style of which you do not approve. That begs the question: who exactly do you think you are? You did not create English. You have no special claim to it. You are allowed to use it just as others are. They may not like or approve of the way you use it.

Your inability to experience the poetry of the language use of others does not mean it has no poetry. The lack is in you. There is the irony. The things you say make it clear you think you have a greater understanding and appreciation of language, but the fact is you have a lesser appreciation.
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Gimbap Lover



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PostPosted: Mon Apr 04, 2011 8:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You're a wanker. Now argue against the perfect clarity of that, wanker.

You obviously are so wrapped up in the pretentious nature of your internet ramblings you missed every point I was trying to make.

Anyway, wank on.
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AmericanExile



Joined: 04 May 2009

PostPosted: Tue Apr 05, 2011 2:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Gimbap Lover wrote:
You're a wanker. Now argue against the perfect clarity of that, wanker.

You obviously are so wrapped up in the pretentious nature of your internet ramblings you missed every point I was trying to make.

Anyway, wank on.


Don't be childish.

You were the one looking down your nose at other people's language use. I was just pointing how wrong that was on multiple levels.
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Privateer



Joined: 31 Aug 2005
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PostPosted: Tue Apr 05, 2011 5:40 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Non-standard grammar is not a problem because the people that use it within a particular idiom or a dialect are fully competent to express themselves.

However, it's not really relevant to teaching English as a second language. Students need to learn the generally accepted rules of the standard dialect of English, because otherwise they won't be able to say what they want to say. If or when they get to an advanced level, then and only then can they start playing around with the language. And by that time they should be able to see what kinds of effect variations in speech have on the listener.

So if native speakers want to use non-standard grammar such as 'Because you is...' I'm fine with it; but not with students.

An idiomatic expression like 'My bad' is different because it's explain as synonymous with 'My mistake' and it's enough just to point out that it's slang.
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mithridates



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PostPosted: Tue Apr 05, 2011 7:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

My favourite are examples of English that began as mistakes and then became correct over time.

newt used to be ewt, confusion over an ewt vs. a newt resulted in the n being added on. Sometimes the opposite happens.

Same for umpire (was nompere), adder (was nadder), and a ton of other words.
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Lunar Groove Gardener



Joined: 05 Jan 2005
Location: 1987 Subaru

PostPosted: Tue Apr 05, 2011 2:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

inflame=to become ablaze
but now you'll see "flammable" in the place of "inflammable" on the sides of fuel trucks
the "rules" can serve to obscure important meanings
in this case, is the prefix "in" meant to create a negative, similar to the rule as applied to "incompetent"
and "inhospitable"??
the general consensus, at least in 'merica, was that clear meaning should
trump obscure rule of an inconsistent grammar exception such as this.

my hat is off to the o.p for being a tyrant instead of using the word Nazi as it is
so often applied. I find that far more offensive than whatever colloquial ass haberdashery which may harass the tender sensibilities of those living legally within the rarefied confines of the gold star licked and stuck to their middle school grammar quizzes.

that said,
"would of"
"better then"
written or spoken, these make me cry at night for justice in a world where so much injustice occurs.
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McGenghis



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PostPosted: Tue Apr 05, 2011 5:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Lunar Groove Gardener wrote:
that said,
"would of"
"better then"
written or spoken, these make me cry at night for justice in a world where so much injustice occurs.


Do you pronounce 'than' and 'then' differently? It might be my salty Canadian accent at work here, but I am repeating them over and over again and I don't seem to hear a difference. Just curious.
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AmericanExile



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PostPosted: Tue Apr 05, 2011 5:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

McGenghis wrote:
Lunar Groove Gardener wrote:
that said,
"would of"
"better then"
written or spoken, these make me cry at night for justice in a world where so much injustice occurs.


Do you pronounce 'than' and 'then' differently? It might be my salty Canadian accent at work here, but I am repeating them over and over again and I don't seem to hear a difference. Just curious.


I pronounce them differently. However, I can't always hear the difference when other people say them, so it is probably accent.
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machinoman



Joined: 12 Feb 2010

PostPosted: Wed Apr 06, 2011 6:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

McGenghis wrote:
Lunar Groove Gardener wrote:
that said,
"would of"
"better then"
written or spoken, these make me cry at night for justice in a world where so much injustice occurs.


Do you pronounce 'than' and 'then' differently? It might be my salty Canadian accent at work here, but I am repeating them over and over again and I don't seem to hear a difference. Just curious.


i'm american and i'm getting the same sound effect here. i'm also getting a similar effect between would've and would of

this reminds me of my students who always correct my hangul when i spell english words as they are spoken phonetically (e.g. monopoly becomes muhnahpohri) then they tell me its a mistake, its mohnohpohrii. common pronunciation is way more important than technical pronunciation, especially in an english class.
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Young FRANKenstein



Joined: 02 Oct 2006
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PostPosted: Wed Apr 06, 2011 7:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

nero wrote:
I'm sorry to say, but most of the things that drive me insane are perpetuated by North Americans.

'You done good!' (Heard in an observation lesson).
'I don't got it! (yelled at another teacher).

Those two can be explained away as being popularized by comedians. Certainly the first one is, although truthfully, I can't remember his name. White trash type character like Larry the Cable Guy, popular in the the 70's.

The second one is from the Mel Brooks movie High Anxiety. The character Brophy said it every time he tried lifting heavy bags/boxes. "I got it! I got it! I got it! ... I don't got it!" Everyone I knew who saw the movie was saying it for weeks.
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mmstyle



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PostPosted: Sat Apr 16, 2011 2:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hmmmm. I originally thought this thread had died a quick death. Looked it up to discover some interesting responses, which have given me a few things to think about. I have some pet peeves about English, one of which made me start the thread (using "less" when "fewer" is more appropriate). I also find "I'm good" to be endlessly annoying (as opposed to "I'm well") but recognize this as being hammered into me by my father.

I think the person who mentioned learning the rules and then breaking them has a great point. I was first taught this kind of idea when it comes to starting sentences with "and" or "because." I've long since gotten over ending a sentence with a preposition.

Of course, breaking the rules is a great way to create a certain "feel" in a novel or creating a character's way of speaking. As someone mentioned, the way you speak affects the way others perceive you. The way I use language greatly affected my treatment by a lot of coworkers in my last job before coming to Korea, and it's one of the reasons I still get on students for swearing...though I pick and choose those battles these days. I teach middle school, after all.
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Young FRANKenstein



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PostPosted: Sat Apr 16, 2011 3:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

mmstyle wrote:
I also find "I'm good" to be endlessly annoying (as opposed to "I'm well")

Depends on the question. If a movie character sees a guy with superpowers and wants to know which side of the law he's on, "I'm good!" would be an entirely appropriate answer for a hero.
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