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Louis VI
Joined: 05 Jul 2010 Location: In my Kingdom
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Posted: Fri Apr 29, 2011 10:45 pm Post subject: I'll lose 100 lbs, save $10,000 in 1 year, says 42 year old |
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END OF WEEK 19 UPDATE: 114.9 kg weight and 118 cm waist
END OF WEEK 18 UPDATE: 115.0 kg weight and 118 cm waist
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END OF WEEK 12: ON VACATION
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END OF WEEK 10 UPDATE: 125.2 kg weight and 118 cm waist
END OF WEEK 9 UPDATE: 127.1 kg weight and 118 cm waist
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END OF WEEK 3 UPDATE: 136.9 kg weight and 126 cm waist
END OF WEEK 2 UPDATE: 136.9 kg weight and 129 cm waist
END OF WEEK 1 UPDATE: 138.1 kg weight and 131 cm waist
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May 1st is my 42nd birthday and I weighed myself today for the first time in years and am 145 kg (320 lbs) with a 150 cm (59 in.) waist and a height of 183 cm (6'0 ft). I dunno which is the biggest shocker: (a) that I gained 40 lbs unknowingly in the last year; (b) that I've gained 140 lbs since college; or, gasp, that (c) I have lost 3 cm and thus 6'1 ft. status sometime in the last 20 years. I am only 6 feet tall? I am at/over 300 lbs? I have the waist size of a heart attack to come? These are real wake ups calls to me the day before my birthday. I've also frittered away my savings to a meagre one thousand dollars. What if I get sick, especially given I'm clearly in middle age and a prime candidate for health issues? I have no fall back position, no social safety net. My parents are gone, I have no kids and I haven't been married since I weighed over a hundred pounds less, well over a decade ago. I do hope to get married someday and raise a child or two. It's passed time that I work toward those ends and my physical well being as well as my sense of security.
So, here I go, another optimistic fool with wild ambitions. My likelihood of success may not exceed that of new year's resolutions, though I feel this is more on par with commitments I'd made when I was young. Once I had two Cs in math but my best friend was going into the grade 9 honours math class that was being created for the following year so I asked my teacher if he would recommend me for that class if I got two As in the remaining two terms of grade 8 and he laughed and said sure, then I got an A and a B+ and got into the class, hangin' out with my bud that year. I put my mind to it and did it. Likewise when I wanted to run marathons I got into a 10k run every other day pace that lasted religiously until I lost my gall bladder a couple of years later and haven't been able to run since (pain from surgery, seems some muscles or tendons stretch in painful ways anytime I try and run after that, so I lost my fav form of exercise).
I intend this thread to be a document of my attempts to find my way through 100 lbs weight loss while teaching in South Korea, and task of saving nearly half my paycheque in the coming year to reach the $10,000 U.S. target I'm setting for myself.
Please provide helpful comments. I'm really interested in ways others have lost some weight or saved some money. I've considered some things I've heard on Dave's over the years, but there are others I'm gonna be trying too.
The journey starts tomorrow, I'd like to tell myself, going out for beer and pizza with my neighbour tonight, but I won't because, well, my writing this signals the beginning of my quest, or maybe when I bought the weight scale this morning at E-Mart marks the starting line.
Ready, set, ... GO!
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tatertot

Joined: 21 Oct 2008
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Posted: Fri Apr 29, 2011 11:01 pm Post subject: |
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I fully believe you can do both things! I can't offer much advice for either, but I will give you one piece of advice that I think can be applied to most endeavors:
Don't let short-term setbacks derail your long-term goals.
This is especially true regarding health/weight-loss/general fitness goals. Your day-to-day exercising ability, weight and dimensions will fluctuate rapidly on a daily basis, while your long-term ability, weight loss, etc. will progress toward your goals if you stick with your program. In order to prevent short-term setbacks from derailing your progress, I would suggest NOT weighing yourself or looking at yourself in the mirror too often. Perhaps you could weigh yourself once or twice a month, and take a picture of yourself shirtless every one or two months. Do both tomorrow when you start.
You can do it! Good luck! |
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Louis VI
Joined: 05 Jul 2010 Location: In my Kingdom
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Posted: Fri Apr 29, 2011 11:15 pm Post subject: |
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I don't believe in diets but instead see the merit of lifestyle changes. I went a year and a bit without meat while dating a vegetarian back in my university days, and I went off of added sugars as well as my beloved bread and bakery products while marathon training after college. Those were kinds of dietary restrictions though not diets per se. I'll me some dietary restrictions to keep for the year as well as lifestyle changes, but I will allow a variety of foods, a sustainable approach, ideally.
I have never counted calories in my life and realize that it's crucial to succeed at losing 100 lbs. CUT CALORIE INTAKE, INCREASE CALORIE BURNING and INCREASE METABOLIC RATE.
To cut calories:
1. I'll have to stop visiting Paris Baguette three times a week. No more fresh french bread, no more cinnamon buns, no more cheese bagels. I tell myself I'll allow some back into my life once the year project is completed, maybe once a week in moderation, but for the next year, not at all. I can't trust myself in a bakery. It's out of bounds. This will be easy to keep, easier than:
2. I'll cut back portions during meals. I've been taught many wonderful family recipes, only, I dunno how to make enough for just one person. I end up eating a big portion and second helpings where I need to be committed to much smaller portions. THIS I see as the real key to lifestyle change. I'll have to figure some guidelines and ways of reducing portions eaten, having more leftovers (leftovers mean less cooking needed and spreading out smaller meals helps trick metabolism I read on the 'net, a key to convince one's body not to react to reduced caloric intake by going into starvation/preservation mode and reducing calorie burning rate).
3. No rice whatsoever when eating out with Koreans, as the carbs are simple sugars with calories I can do without. Limited pasta at home. No longer will pasta be the main portion or even half portion of the meal. The ratio of meats and veggies will be increased, as they provide nutrients needed, and noodles will be left out or reduced greatly to an accent. I know many family home cooked dishes that could be consumed with less carbs and more veggies through simple tweaking.
4. Dilute my o.j. at least four-to-one ratio to start, five-to-one or less later. I usually buy two 2 L fresh Del Monte or Tropicana orange juice a week, about an 8,000 won expense as a two pack. I won't cut that out entirely at first, but force myself to make that weekly amount last the month. I'll also buy a fresh lemon and keep a couple of liters of cold water in the fridge with squeezed lemon juice in it.
5. Drink more tea. I love herbal tea and the caloric intake is marginal. Maybe I should consider green tea as the caffeine will help weight loss I hear, though I'm not committed to thaat as a habit quite yet.
6. No more pizza whatsoever nor deep fried foods. I do fry some foods with olive oil but I'll have to re-think how I do that. Google is my friend, and there are tips galore to help.
7. Make salads nearly every day. I like salads but I rarely have taken the time to make them. I'll have to do so. Maybe it and/or boiled eggs could be a workplace mini-meal, getting away from my don't-eat-anything-for-10-hours-then-eat-a-lot-afterwards method of years past.
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Louis VI
Joined: 05 Jul 2010 Location: In my Kingdom
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Posted: Fri Apr 29, 2011 11:22 pm Post subject: |
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tatertot wrote: |
Don't let short-term setbacks derail your long-term goals.
In order to prevent short-term setbacks from derailing your progress, I would suggest NOT weighing yourself or looking at yourself in the mirror too often. Perhaps you could weigh yourself once or twice a month, and take a picture of yourself shirtless every one or two months. Do both tomorrow when you start. |
Great advice! Thanks. I hadn't thought how often I'd use the new scale I got. Maybe once a week ("only on Sundays") ought to be a rule. Or only on the 10th, 20th, 30th, or only 15th and 30th. Hmmm. I see the wisdom in not overlooking at the scale. Thanks for that.
The biggest setback I have to expect is the plateau in weight loss that comes when the body realizes there are less calories coming and goes into starvation preservation mode, making it harder to lose weight. I've read about this on the 'net and some advise a zigzag method of tricking the metabolism by having a bigger meal once every four days or so, and also eating six minimeals instead of three meals a day, spreading the calories out during the day helps maintain the metabolic rate of calorie conversion, it is said. Also, of course, more exercise will have to be added to the regime at some point. |
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Louis VI
Joined: 05 Jul 2010 Location: In my Kingdom
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Posted: Fri Apr 29, 2011 11:45 pm Post subject: |
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To increase calorie burning: I will MOVE. I'll start with walking at least 2 hours a day. If the weather is terrible I'll walk around the kitchen table if I have to, but I will be in motion for two hours a day every day. I never work mornings so I have lots of time then. As I live on the southern foothills of Halla mountain I should simply hike upwards, though no such stipulation I'll make my first month. I just want to commit myself to a non-sedentary lifestyle. I'm gonna ask a friend to play tennis (which I haven't played in years), will go inline skating (I bought size 13s over a year ago but haven't gotten around to even putting them on!) and in a month or two biking (I haven't had one since I moved here from the mainland over a year ago). But I ain't gonna spend money on a bike until I show myself I have a million won in the bank after payday, and buy one out of the extra funds not the savings. |
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robot

Joined: 07 Mar 2006
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Posted: Sat Apr 30, 2011 12:40 am Post subject: |
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Hey, congrats on making that first difficult step.
Sounds like a good initial plan. It may help to convince yourself that certain junk foods aren't delicious, but disgusting to put into your body. |
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carpetdope
Joined: 13 Oct 2008
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Posted: Sat Apr 30, 2011 12:49 am Post subject: |
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Let's bump this thread every so often eh? |
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Louis VI
Joined: 05 Jul 2010 Location: In my Kingdom
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Posted: Sat Apr 30, 2011 1:19 am Post subject: |
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I just returned from a 2.5 km brisk walk (I bought a pedometer this morning) to buy a disposable camera to take the first of the monthly photos of myself tomorrow (I'll get a friend to do it). It was raining hard but rain ain't gonna deter me. I was soaked, sticky and puffing a bit upon my return (I have a jeep, don't usually walk much these days) but a quick shower and toweling off and I'm feeling great.
carpetdope wrote: |
Let's bump this thread every so often eh? |
Every friggin' day! Okay, a couple of times a week probably, as posting is too sedentary, my computer hooked up to my big screen t.v. (a reason to get a mobile device? nah, not worth the loss of savings potential at this point, though I gotta go from c.d.s to mp3s or other such technology eventually... after the monetary goal is reached, out of subsequent funds, not savings of course).
I intend this thread to help motivate me, my making a public declaration this way builds commitment. I have to be self-reflective about this or else I'll slip into old habits. I know that. I need to get into the routine to help fossilize a better habit, and talking about it helps concentrate my attention. Feedback and motivation from others can help too. I'm reading some blogs online of guys who have lost a lot of weight, plus medical and scientific research surfing via search engines, and sage advice on Dave's is appreciated, as the camera tip was. |
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Ninja-Bees
Joined: 08 Mar 2011
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Posted: Sat Apr 30, 2011 1:33 am Post subject: |
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Louis,
Good on you. I think both goals are definitely doable. I think tatertot said it best:
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In order to prevent short-term setbacks from derailing your progress, I would suggest NOT weighing yourself or looking at yourself in the mirror too often. Perhaps you could weigh yourself once or twice a month, and take a picture of yourself shirtless every one or two months. Do both tomorrow when you start. |
When I first got here, I weighed 108.5 kg (that is the exact number on my health exam). The doctor was freaking out about my high blood pressure and told me I needed to change some habits. I quit smoking and starting walking everywhere. The one time I got to weigh myself (about 2 1/2 months later) I was 100 kg! I did not fret everyday about losing weight; I didn't stare at myself in the mirror; I just went about my day.
If you ever get the urge to eat a big meal (I wanted to all the time because of the not smoking), I would make a big pot of soup. I would have a normal serving of vegetables, one egg, some spices, a LITTLE bit of salt, and a crap load of water. I would eat it all and the water would fill me up.
About the savings - easy. Just save half of your paycheck a month. Don't fret too much about it (the stress wont help the weight), you can still enjoy yourself. I have a friend that is trying to spend only 100,000 won a week. Yeah, I rarely see her.
I wish you the best of luck and keep us up to date. These are definitely realistic goals. |
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Louis VI
Joined: 05 Jul 2010 Location: In my Kingdom
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Posted: Sat Apr 30, 2011 1:54 am Post subject: |
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Ninja-Bees wrote: |
The doctor was freaking out about my high blood pressure... |
The Korean doctor was puzzled at my good blood pressure, smack in the middle of the normal range. I smiled and didn't tell him I usually had low blood pressure. I don't smoke but could reduce my sodium intake.
Ninja-Bees wrote: |
If you ever get the urge to eat a big meal (I wanted to all the time because of the not smoking), I would make a big pot of soup. I would have a normal serving of vegetables, one egg, some spices, a LITTLE bit of salt, and a crap load of water. I would eat it all and the water would fill me up. |
Water consumption when hungry was one of the tips of a guy who had lost a hundred pounds, and your suggestion to make soup is great, and while I had planned to make more soups, the have when hungry angle makes perfect sense now that you say it! Thanks. I am a huge fan of spice, and fortunately medical and scientific research is giving rave reviews these days to hot peppers in terms of heart and vein health as well as effect on metabolic rate. Spicy soup broth here I come! I'll skip or go light on the noodles and potatoes, and of course skip the bread all together, the carbs that usually accompanied the soups I've made, saving a lot of calories by the carb reduction.
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About the savings - easy. Just save half of your paycheck a month. |
I guess I'm gonna have to budget. I went over six years in Korea without budgeting and still saving tons but since I moved to Jeju in '09 (and got a car too), the money has gone out at almost the rate it comes in at. I'm gonna cut out all book buying and live off of the library of books I have, dozens of which I really want to read so there's no need to buy new, just habit. Likewise with DVDs and CDs, the selection of which has been dwindling in recent years anyways. I'll go cold turkey on buying music and movies and use what I have, not having to address multimedia issues until at least the fall.
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I wish you the best of luck and keep us up to date. These are definitely realistic goals. |
Thanks for that. I oscillate between finding it daunting and doable. I know in my gut I can do it (pun intended).  |
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DorkothyParker

Joined: 11 Apr 2009 Location: Jeju
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Posted: Sat Apr 30, 2011 2:35 am Post subject: |
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You could just stop eating and save all the money you would normally spend on food!
But in all seriousness, soups are a very, very good idea. I think you are planning some good changes and they will be very easy to stick to. I cannot speak highly enough about green tea or matcha. I practically live off the stuff. Hot beverages = feeling of fullness, ice cold beverages = slight calorie burn.
I also recommend weekly visits to the sauna. It's a nice treat and the cold baths and hot rooms both are a nice little metabolism jolt.
My third tip sounds really stupid, but try to jitter and wiggle about when you are online or watching TV or what have you.
PS. I live on Jeju and I enjoy a nearby hiking trail every morning (not rainy). It definitely feels good to do something at the start of the day rather than dread it come end of workday. |
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Louis VI
Joined: 05 Jul 2010 Location: In my Kingdom
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Posted: Sat Apr 30, 2011 2:52 am Post subject: |
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DorkothyParker wrote: |
My third tip sounds really stupid, but try to jitter and wiggle about when you are online or watching TV or what have you. |
jitter and wiggle! I was thinking of doing yoga, aerobics or dancing (the jitterbug?) while watching a movie or a hockey game, at least pacing about,... MOVING! I have a big screen t.v. so I should be able to get some action into my viewing.
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I also recommend weekly visits to the sauna. It's a nice treat and the cold baths and hot rooms both are a nice little metabolism jolt. |
Hmm. I used to go to them in a nearby city when I worked in a small town. Not so sure I wanna do that here in Seogwipo, to run into parents, students and others I might know, at least until I'm more fit. But I have a vehicle, and could fit a sauna visit into an already planned jaunt to Jungmun or Jeju city. I like the metabolism angle. Yes, I got to do some of that. As for cold water dips, I'll wade into the sea in the coming week. |
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kardisa
Joined: 26 Jun 2009 Location: Masan
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Posted: Sat Apr 30, 2011 2:56 am Post subject: |
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I'm gonna cut out all book buying and live off of the library of books I have, dozens of which I really want to read so there's no need to buy new, just habit. |
If you're a voracious reader, perhaps you should look into investing in a Kindle. You can download the books from sites like Demonoid or http://freekindlebooks.org/. I've saved at least $1000 in book purchases since I got mine last fall. |
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RMNC

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Posted: Sat Apr 30, 2011 2:59 am Post subject: |
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Low carb. Lift weights. Game, Set, Match. |
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Louis VI
Joined: 05 Jul 2010 Location: In my Kingdom
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Posted: Sat Apr 30, 2011 3:12 am Post subject: |
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RMNC wrote: |
Low carb. Lift weights. Game, Set, Match. |
Low carbs indeed.
As for lifting, I'm gonna go the aerobic activity route mostly. 100 lbs is a lot to lose and I certainly don't want to go around looking like the hulk. Coupled with stretching and aerobic activity, yeah, good idea for some. I though don't really enjoy weight lifting (did a lot for high school football way back when, always thought it a chore) but even so, a couple of barbells of action is in my plan (I've got I think a pair of 10 kg weights somewhere around here). Moving by walking then biking, skating, swimming, etc is more on my agenda. I will be lifting 300+ lbs up hills!
I will re-visit the lifting weight approach in the fall or winter when I'm at least halfway to my goal. I expect that joining a gym will motivate me to burn more calories that way once the temperatures outside begin to wane in October. |
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